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Am I being foolish for hoping he'll make a committment?

Q.   A couple of months ago, I told my bf of a little over a year that I wanted to move forward in our relationship. He said this was something he wanted too but is the type of person to go slowly in any decision. We talked about moving in together, ...

A.   5 May 2010: You're welcome dear. Give him the two months if you can, but remember to put yourself first. You only get one life and please remember that you ARE special. You're needs are just as important as his. If you feel the two months are "going to kill... (read in full...)

Should I keep dating him?

Q.   I've been dating this guy for 1.5 years. We usually get along really well and spend a lot of time together. However, we fight quite often, and especially lately. Our last fight wasn't too long ago and we were almost going to break up. Howeve...

A.   5 May 2010: No you shouldnt stay with him, this is a dysfunctional relationship that could turn abusive. If you're intuitions are telling you to be afraid that he may hurt you then you should heed them and leave. At the most this relationship sounds ... (read in full...)

One night stand after only 6 months of marriage

Q.   Please help me. I only got married 6 months ago and we have been going out for 9 years and have never once cheated on him. I done something really stupid last night and already I am torturing myself with guilt and fear of him finding out. I was ...

A.   5 May 2010: No, you can not trust the man you cheated with because he doesnt respect you nor does he respect the sanctity of your marriage or he wouldnt have been asking you to cheat in the first place. I suggest you go either to your local church pastor for ... (read in full...)

Am I being foolish for hoping he'll make a committment?

Q.   A couple of months ago, I told my bf of a little over a year that I wanted to move forward in our relationship. He said this was something he wanted too but is the type of person to go slowly in any decision. We talked about moving in together, ...

A.   5 May 2010: you agreed to the two months, so give it to him whole heartedly. I suspect the real issue is that he's gotten so confused with all this talk about the future that he's forgotten the fun girl he fell in love with and just wants her back for awhile. ... (read in full...)

When I needed him to be there for me he was talking to another woman

Q.   really need advice.....my husband and i have been together for 8 and half yrs married foe 4..we have really been distant for the last year.I lost my job dealth with lots of family issues..in march i found out he had been talking to another woman on ...

A.   5 May 2010: It sounds like you want to move forward and try to trust him again, but what does he want? He wanted this other lady but she didnt want him.. if she did want him he would have been with her, and where would that have left you? Remember, it is not ... (read in full...)

I can't look at him when I'm talking to him

Q.   Well.... I have this problem through. Well its better to tell the story first. Okay anyway it been like this for days and well months. There is this boy I liked, he is also my friend. We talked happly about a month until some hormonal emotio...

A.   5 May 2010: Try to picture him as just your friend, even though you have those feelings for him. Remember that boys find eye contact sexy! That's how you flirt. You dont look away to flirt, you look straight at the boy and search his eyes for your answer! If ... (read in full...)

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