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I'm 21 and expecting a baby! Like to help others as others have helped me in the past so look forward to your questions :)

Why is he acting like my boyfriend again when I know he doesn't want to be?

Q.   My ex came over and we watched tv for an hour and cuddled on the bed. We broke up over a month ago because he had commitment issues but he insisted that we still remain friends. When we were cuddling he told me how much he missed me and he started ...

A.   19 November 2008: Yea i think that is exactly what he is after, he doesn't want to be in a relationship with you but at the same time he doesn't want you to forget about him and move on so by him saying you can still be friends is his way of keeping a hold on you. He ... (read in full...)

Please help, I cant figure it out... am I being weird?

Q.   I'm pregnant, I have been with my boyfriend for a year, he wants me to get rid of it, but I'm against abortion, and have even protested against it, it will go against everything I've stood for, but I am only 17. Should I give up what I stand for ...

A.   27 October 2008: Hi hon, i think if you are against abortion you would be out of your mind to have one. Especially if the only reason you would have one is to make your boyfriend happy. First of all your boyfriend helped you get in this position and is being very ... (read in full...)

Should I believe him??

Q.   I am in love with a man who is currently living with the mother of his child. She doesn't know about us but he says that he will tell her once they sell their house which is on the market right now. He says that he has never loved anyone the way he ...

A.   27 October 2008: Hi, i believe that this man does love you, however, i know from experience that he is feeding you lies about leaving the mother of his child when the house has been sold. I was in the exact same situation as you are and i chose not to believe my ... (read in full...)

How long is too long without sex?

Q.   I'm just wondering how long is too long without sex? I know people have different sex drives but just wanting to get some personal opinions really. how long would you go without sex before you got unhappy with your partner and wanted explanations? ...

A.   24 October 2008: Hi. I would say 2 weeks is a long time without sex but you have to bear in mind that womens sex drive is far less than mens. I have to say if the shoe was on the other foot, your girlfriend would probably be freaking out right now and would be ... (read in full...)

Does my ex husband really want to try again?

Q.   I really need advice on whether you think that my ex-husband genuinely wants to try again or is just using me. We seperated a year ago and have not seen each other since, but he has kept in contact with my sister and I have had contact through ...

A.   24 October 2008: Hello! That is a tough one to call. On one hand i think any chance of a reconciliation with someone you love is a great thing but i would be very cautious and wary. If i were you i would find out as soon as possible what it is he is looking for. I ... (read in full...)

He says that it's not cheating because it is his ex-wife!?

Q.   I recently found out that my boyfriend of seven years has been sleeping with his ex-wife. He says that it was the only way to get her to act right, meaning seeing his children and lowering child support. He actually wants me to accept her and the ...

A.   24 October 2008: I'll start by sending my sympathy for the situation you are in. I know from experience exactly what you're going through. I found out that my boyfriend of 5 years was seeing his ex behind my back and he used the exact same excuse, the fact that it ... (read in full...)

My hair is fallling out, I keep getting headaches and feel sick, my partner says he will leave me if these are signs of pregnancy, help!

Q.   Okay, I have a problem here. My hair is falling out, and I keep getting these headaches at around 5:00 PM and then again at like 11:00 PM, never in the morning, also the second i wake up i feel really sick to my stomach, and then though out the day ...

A.   24 October 2008: It doesn't sound like pregnancy to me, it sounds like you could be really unwell. However, a pregnancy test is the only way to find out but i would book into your GP as soon as. As for your boyfriend, well i'm sorry to say but you are in a dead e... (read in full...)

I don't want to have sex for a while, but he gets angry and says I don't love him!!!

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 7 months and were so in love with each other. im 14 and he is 15. Now dont judge me or think im a slut cause i really didnt mean to or want to do it. But we had sex and i almost got pregnant. My mom found ou...

A.   24 October 2008: Sweetie, this is so not the guy for you! He is totally selfish and believe me he doesn't love you like he says he does otherwise he would wait. For example my baby sister (15) is with a 16 year old and she is not ready to go down that path, he has ... (read in full...)

My parents arent supporting my decision to have this baby

Q.   please help me! im 15 and i am 38 weeks pregnant. my parents arn't supporting me at all and they are threatening to throw me out once the baby is born unless i have an abortion. my boyfriend died just after i became pregnant as he got ran over so ...

A.   24 October 2008: Hi sweetie, i am pregnant at the moment and anyone out there that is pregnant or has a baby of their own will understand the love you feel for your unborn baby from the moment you found out. Your situation as far as your age goes is not the best but ... (read in full...)

I'm pregnant and my situation with the father is driving me crazy!

Q.   Hi everyone, I recently came across this site and found reading other people's similar stories really helped and made me want to get views on my situation. I am 21 years old and was with a manipulative man for 5 years (since i was 16), the re...

A.   24 October 2008: Thank you both so much for your replies. In response to your questions Fade878, the sad thing is i had no reason to leave home so early. I had a great relationship with my parents (luckily still do) and strangely enough i am very family orientate... (read in full...)

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