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She's totally ignoring the fact that I sent her three messages!

Q.   I'd like some advice please regarding a potential new relationship. A new girl started at work a few months ago. We get on really well, and have been getting to know each other. I recently suggested going out and we arranged it for the day afte...

A.   21 December 2010: Are you sure she is single and lives alone?... (read in full...)

Help with emotionally damaged girlfriend

Q.   Hi guys, I've got a issue that I would really appreciate others input on. A little background information first though. I'm a friendly, reasonably successful, mid-twenties guy. In February my previous relationship ended (was a very long relati...

A.   18 October 2010: I certainly think that in order to move forward with the rest of her life your girlfriend needs to address her past. My heart goes out to her. What I can say is this..people who have been abandoned, her father leaving, her partners death, can find ... (read in full...)

Will weird nipples turn a guy off?

Q.   I have ugly inverted nipples with weird bumps on my areola. What do guys think about it? Do they find it disqusting? Or a turnoff? ...

A.   18 October 2010: I have the same. In fact I had large droopy breasts to boot and I had an op to correct those and bought some nipple correctors (from Boots chemists around £40.00) to rectify my nipple problem. It has changed my life. I think that if you feel they... (read in full...)

How long should you wait for your boyfriend to propose?

Q.   How long should you wait for your boyfriend to propose? I have the most amazing bf I could ever ask for. I would never pressure him or give him an ultimatum, and he has already decided he wants to be with me the rest of his life. However, he's 27 ...

A.   18 October 2010: Hi I am 40 and have been with my partner for 18 years and still not married. Although I do feel that I have missed out on the "big day" I wouldn't be without him. We have a great relationship and we have discussed marriage or non marriage as is ... (read in full...)

I'm at a loss, I have no idea what to do!

Q.   Hello, I've been with my girlfriend for 4 years and just feel like she doesn't find me attractive or want to be with me anymore. We are both 23. We have lived together for the last 2 years, and spend most of our time together, other than when ...

A.   16 October 2010: Wow! This sounds to me as a woman, your girlfriend is not so much unhappy with you but she is unhappy with herself. To be so insecure about yourself that she thinks that she may lose you to another woman every time you go out with friends or get a ... (read in full...)

She might be pregnant but she is pushing me away, what should I do?

Q.   Hi guys, am in a predicament right now. I and my girlfriend met last November, we been dating since then.Although we broke up in September this year fot three weeks,when we got back together, we got carried away, now her period is late and shes ver...

A.   16 October 2010: As this wasn't planned I can only assume that you girlfriend was not wanting a baby at the moment, she may be pushing you away because she blames you for the situation..I know this sounds unreasonable but it sounds like she has her life together, ... (read in full...)

I just need to get her out of my mind!

Q.   hello everyone. i litterally need everybody's advices, coz im litterally going crazy , here is the situation, im in LDR relationship since 2 yrs now with my gf and for some reasons we couldnt meet, anyway lately she really changed so much i mean it ...

A.   16 October 2010: You were fine before you met her and you will be fine again. You sound very needy of her and if she see's this it's a very unattractive quality..play it cool and if she is supposed to be yours she will be.... (read in full...)

Simple question on asking someone out.

Q.   Hi, just a simple and quick question: If I make an excuse to enter this girls office at work (Any excuse will do) - is it too rash to, after I strike up a conversation, say "Blah, blah, blah.... by the way, I know this is quite out of the blue ...

A.   16 October 2010: I say go for it! I think the fact that you have put so much thought into this should shine through. Speaking as a woman how nice to be asked out for lunch. Good luck.... (read in full...)

I have a mental illness and can't deal with the emotions of my wife.

Q.   I don't love my wife any more and I can no longer tell her I love her anymore. I have a daughter at a young age and don't want to divorce but I feel that our relationship is hurting my child. I have a mental illness and can't deal with the emotions ...

A.   15 October 2010: If you don't love your wife and your relationship is having a bad effect on your child then I think you should move on. But the fact that you don't know this can only mean that you want this to work maybe for the sake of your child. If you want... (read in full...)

Should I tell my husband I was going to actually leave him?

Q.   Hello, I am a 37 year old woman, and have been married to my husband for 4 years. We've been struggling with our marriage, but were trying very hard to make it work, and have been trying to get pregnant. We hadn't had any luck getting preg...

A.   15 October 2010: I agree, say nothing. You are just feeling your own guilt for thinking of leaving him and by sharing this information will not help. I think you must have been under a great deal of stress trying for a baby (I know I tried for my son for over a ... (read in full...)

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