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Why don't I attract the right type of females?

Q.   I seem to have run across a few questions. I need some female opinions on these... Not to boast about myself (I am quiet humble actually) but I am always refer d to as a "nice guy". I put the feelings and well being of anyone in front of me an...

A.   11 June 2010: you're still playing the victim. if youre anything like me (and you sound a lot like me) - youre problem is that you don't meet enough girls. the reality is that the majority of people socialize by going to clubs. im not going to get int... (read in full...)

Why don't I attract the right type of females?

Q.   I seem to have run across a few questions. I need some female opinions on these... Not to boast about myself (I am quiet humble actually) but I am always refer d to as a "nice guy". I put the feelings and well being of anyone in front of me an...

A.   10 June 2010: You come across as self righteous and arrogant in your question which is a direct contradiction to your statement of humility. Try cutting some girls some slack. Get to know them before you judge them. If you've been in relationships with the... (read in full...)

I’m hurt, saddened, angry, betrayed, confused. What do I do now?

Q.   My wife and I have been happily (or so I thought) married 3 years. I’m a good husband to her, I love her with all my heart, treat her well and always look after her (her words previously). Major area I am lacking in at the moment is finances as ...

A.   14 May 2010: Hey buddy, You're in a tough bind at the moment. Here's my 2 cents. It sounds like your marriage has, unfortunately, come unstuck at the seams. I don't know the full facts of your situation. But it seems to me that the damage is done, and thi... (read in full...)

I really care for my teacher and would like to give him a kiss on the cheek

Q.   Okay so I really really....like my teacher. I suppose I am not allowed to say Love. I would feel so bad if I did...he has 2 kids and a wife..but he does not seem that happy. I mean he does but at the same time he is kinda worn out from all of it. I ...

A.   14 May 2010: I apologize in advance for being harsh. You need to get real. His face runs through your mind all day???!! It sounds like you are obsessed with him. When youre in this frame of mind, I wouldn't trust your own perceptions. Generally, when you're r... (read in full...)

What can I do? I think my boyfriend is dying!

Q.   Ok. Well im seventeen and like most teenagers, i have a myspace. Well i met this boy and we began talking a whole lot. We got closer and closer each and every day. I really began to like him. He like acorss the country from me though but we were ...

A.   14 May 2010: Contrary to some of the posts floating around here - Grade 2 (and Grade 1) brain tumors are considered low grade and generally have good results with treatment. Make sure he sees a doctor regularly. You cannot cure his brain cancer or make him... (read in full...)

He lied and told me he lost his phone when he really just didnt want to talk to me

Q.   Basically, there's a guy, that's been a jerk, and I don't know what to do! I've been seeing this guy for about 2 months now, things were going fine and we went out on saturday. On the sunday i txted him to thank him for paying/thank his parents ...

A.   14 May 2010: Theres the possible scenario : he got your text, and was upset by it. He didn't feel like talking to you, and there's not much you can say back to your initial text anyway so didn't text back straightaway. He then lost his phone, and you talked o... (read in full...)

My period is a bit late -- is it just stress?

Q.   My period is 2 days late and I have not had any symptoms that it will come (I usually feel some cramps a week before it starts). I've been having protected sex with my boyfriend and there have been no accidents with the condom. I am not on the ...

A.   13 May 2010: I think the only thing that will give you peace of mind is if you have your normal period, or you get a conclusive negative pregnancy test or both. If you are 2 days late, I would wait another 12 days. If you do not get a normal period within t... (read in full...)

Do you think he should break up with me?

Q.   Ok, first of all, I don't want any silly comments like: "you're an idiot, he should dump you, dumb b*tch." I already know. Anyways, so I went to Mexico without my boyfriend (we have been dating for a year and a half) and one night I got really ...

A.   13 May 2010: Something like this has everything to do with any relationship you're in. A relationship is a 2 way street. How you conduct yourself reflects on others. How would you respond if your boyfriend went overseas, got drunk and then got involved wit... (read in full...)

He won't tell me the results of his STD check--has he cheated?

Q.   Hi all. Do you know when you are with someone and suspect that they are cheating on you but can't prove it?? It is the most frustrating thing ever. I've never been in this situation before, so I don't know if it is just me or if the signs are ...

A.   13 May 2010: I can solve your problems in 3 easy steps. 1. Dump him. 2. Get yourself tested again. Get treated if necessary. 3. Get a new boyfriend. Start over. ... (read in full...)

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