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Is my boyfriend a pedophile for watching cartoon toddler porn?

Q.   Is my boyfriend a pedophile for looking at cartoon porn depicting very young children? We've been going out for 6 months and since we've moved in together I've been secretly snooping on his laptop and have found many things that have disturbed me. ...

A.   3 March 2012: I've got to say I share a similar view to Miamine. Of course he may very well be a "pervert" (the definition of which will change from person to person)and even possibly a paedophile, and the images you found may be indicative of this. I do ho... (read in full...)

Is it okay to set a mood for my first time?

Q.   I'm planning to lose my virginity to my boyfriend in the not-too-distant future, but while I'm excited about the prospect I know I'm going to be pretty nervous too! I'd like to create an atmosphere in the bedroom (nothing too extravagent - maybe ...

A.   4 November 2011: I think it is perfectly natural and acceptable for you to set up your surroundings in a way that makes you comfortable. I'm sure he will find it very sweet of you. Even if us males scoff at the idea of romance on occassion, most of us deep down ... (read in full...)

Is there anyway I can reconnect with my husband and stop hurting him like I have?

Q.   I'm in need of some serious help... I've cheated on my husband and he found me online yesterday on a site and seen some comments some guys have made. When my husband confronted me on it he said he wasn't mad about the site in general, but he was mad ...

A.   1 November 2011: I'm sorry to appear harsh but it sounds like you have absolutely no self discipline. There is no instant or easy cure for this other than control yourself. You don't accidently remove your clothes and have sex with another man, nor do you accidently ... (read in full...)

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