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Thank you Dear Cupid. This is a WONDERFUL site. You showed me good directions when I was lost.

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24 December 2012: I just want to say thanks to all the wonderful people at dear cupid. Since from the beginning of the you have shown love and good advices. Mostly thanks to the wonderful founder of dear cupid. Its so good to know that there's someone out there who ...

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Guys, should I leave my wife for a more attractive, younger woman?

Q.   For the last year I've been having an affair with a woman who's ten years younger. We love each other very much. She's got everything I wish I would have found in someone, before I married my wife. She's beautiful and has a great body, my wife ...

A.   24 May 2012: When u first met her u where in love that's why u married her. Why are man like this. Its always about them an their ego. Yo miss perfect is married with kids. To be honest she destroy what she has built just for u. She has a family for a reason. ... (read in full...)

Is it me? Are my expectations on how life should be realistic?

Q.   I'm looking for advice on really what is acceptable Or is me? Are my expectation on what life must be like how it is realistic? My belief is that a person must not have more than one partner. Sometimes I feel like I'm different, or there's somethin...

A.   21 May 2012: All I'm saying is it okay to have multiple partners to live your life to the fullest, especially when you are between the ages of 16 to 35. I was talking about one partner at a time. For me its sad to cheat on the person you love. That's why I was ... (read in full...)

I feel so disrespected by my husbands family.

Q.   I feel so disrespected by my husbands family. We went on a family vacation with them to the beach and all his mom did was point out women for my husband to look at right in front of my face. She would say, "Oh, look at her bathing suit. She's ...

A.   14 May 2012: That is totaly wrong. Mothers in-law are problems everywhere. What is important don't entertain her by acting insecure because she will do whatever to hurt your feeling. My mother doesn't like me as she chose someone else for her son so ... (read in full...)

Why does my dating life suck?

Q.   Hi every one, I grew up being a christian, never dated till I was 25 waiting for MR right only to date MR wrong. My first bf was 2yrs younger than me so I left him and worse part I found out he had a gf. My recent 1 lied so we dated until I found ...

A.   9 May 2012: Thanks wombat. Its not about being swept but I just wanna get someone who can be able to work with me to build a better life. Its so hard to be a christian that has planned her life this way but find yourself in difficult situation unlike those who ... (read in full...)

Should I give up on chasing her?

Q.   I keep attracting bad girls. I'm quite okay looking and tall. I guess I'm super nice and well mannered, but I'm quite shy and nervous when I meet girls. I basically do what I'm told and then get taken advantage of. . As soon as they know I am very ...

A.   8 May 2012: Stop attracting woman with expensive gift. A woman will love you without anything. If you really want a real woman stop buying love. Before you do anything get to know the person first before you can assume that they like you. ... (read in full...)

What can I do to save my relationship?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years and we have three beautiful children together. Over the years we've had ups and downs like most couples but recently its been getting worse. I have gained wait since the birth of our last child who is about ...

A.   5 May 2012: Man r not like women. U have 3 kids in 6yrs and ur leaving together before marriage all of this is too much for him. My advice to save your relationship is sit with him and let him know how u feel. Just give some space. Start something different ... (read in full...)

"Well, I fooled you, didn't I?" What did she mean by that?

Q.   I was talking to this girl I met the other night, incredibly interesting more so than any other girl!! She was also very beautiful, great figure and really good fun to be around it was infectious! But it was strange because later on in the night, ...

A.   5 May 2012: She's really hurting inside. When a beautiful gal smoke others don't do it for fun but just find peace. Be patient with her and if u love her don't give up. An ur lucky that she said that to u. Cause it seems like she doesn't trust any man.... (read in full...)

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