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Im me ,

I dont need to introduce my self .

I dont want to share my problems , ill rather help people solve theirs.

Im just tired of so many things in life but still i want to find my purpose .

No matter how much damage and what i see , ill still walk and cry but each day i learn more and be better and also be the best.

From a failed marriage to an unhealthy relationship, what's next? I am left feeling sad, dissapointed, lonely and a bit resentful. How to shake off the bad feelings?

Q.   I have recently come out of a divorce where the breakdown was very long and drawn out and quite messy at the end. For a long time before the divorce was completed i suffered with a terrible depression. I was in quite a state for over a year which ...

A.   1 October 2008: its like a leo just clawed a pisces. Dont fall in a relationship so fast , cause you will always project the first women to the next and you will not get luck . What you need to do is BE STRONG , move on , main factor is you need to be occupied and ... (read in full...)

We had sex, then he told me he didn't want to lose my friendship, why? Now we are together and he says he loves me, but it's hard to believe him. I need a confidence boost!

Q.   Hey, I have never used this b4 but here goes, i was engaged to this guy and we were together for 4 1/2 years, i got very bored as it was a long distance relationship. he was alot older then me but he looked after me always put me first. Now there...

A.   1 October 2008: i pity the guy who spent 4 1/2 years with you . Time will tell , You should believe in a thing called karma and feelings . Sex , and he doesnt want to lose frindship , now he says he loves you , but you dont believe him . How long have you both seen ... (read in full...)

The guy I used to hook up with when younger asked me to sleep with him, I'd like to but I have a boyfriend, should I do it anyway?

Q.   This sound so terriable and I know that before even asking. So please don't be to mean. I've been with my b/f for six years. I love him very much and he's a wonderful person. But were both young I'm 22 and he's 20. I have this friend whom I did used ...

A.   1 October 2008: Well if you love the present boy so much , why would you want to sleep with yer ex even if its for 1 last time. Im not mean to hurt what im saying . Im just saying if you want to sleep with your ex and you want to do it , i think you should not ... (read in full...)

The guy I used to hook up with when younger asked me to sleep with him, I'd like to but I have a boyfriend, should I do it anyway?

Q.   This sound so terriable and I know that before even asking. So please don't be to mean. I've been with my b/f for six years. I love him very much and he's a wonderful person. But were both young I'm 22 and he's 20. I have this friend whom I did used ...

A.   1 October 2008: Well if you love the present boy so much , why would you want to sleep with yer ex even if its for 1 last time. Im not mean to hurt what im saying . Im just saying if you want to sleep with your ex and you want to do it , i think you should not ... (read in full...)

I messed it up once; do I have a second chance, you think?

Q.   OK sorry if this becomes a bit long, but I want to put the whole story across! Thanks in advance for your patience Back in January I was on a work lunchbreak so went to get some food down the road, and whilst I was queuing this girl came in who...

A.   1 October 2008: You both are very hectic in work , and you both are building a good and strong relationship . No you havent lost , Women are just hard to understand it says in history . I had a relationship maybe it should help you . Its what im going through but i ... (read in full...)

She's infatuated with this married man...so I am thinking I may never have a chance again! Advice needed!!

Q.   My girlfriend of 3 years broke up with me about a month ago. We have a 2 1/2 year old son. We are sharing custody. Our relationship had been declining for months as the pressures of school, work, raising a child, and living with my parents chipp...

A.   1 October 2008: How old is your gf? seems she is just ignoring the facts when she says she loves you emotionally but not physically . She just wants to cry on your shoulders . After she is okay and happy she goes find something physical . What more you both have a ... (read in full...)

Can a marriage survive when sex is so important to one person and so not important to the other?

Q.   My husband and I have not had sex in 5 months. I am pregnant - 6 months pregnant. We have other children and have been married for six years. We have gone to counseling for our marriage because we do not have sex nearly as often as I would like. ...

A.   1 October 2008: Hmmm, I like what the above mentioned. Simple way to put it is when you give birth to a child isnt it the most best thing for a women. Sex is important in every marriage and yes it is unless you are 60 years old and your husband is also the same . ... (read in full...)

I;m self conscious because of my sexual history - is there any way to get things back to normal 'down there'?

Q.   Okay so I used to party all the time and now i have a bad reputation for being a slut. Im actually a very loving, smart, good person. I regret everything I did and I wish i could take it all back. I think about it everyday and I feel bad about ...

A.   1 October 2008: You are young we all do and have done stupid things in life we regret , call them growing up phases. Sex isnt everything a relationship , its more then that . Example you say your boyfriend loves you etc how long have you known him ? Are you willing ... (read in full...)

We've been married four years and I still haven't met his family - should I be worried by this?

Q.   Me and my husband are in our fourth year of marriage , blessed with two beautiful girls, but the problem is, up to now i haven't meet any of his family knowing that they are just a minute away...sometimes i kept asking him "why?" but i cant get ...

A.   1 October 2008: Well, If you have not seen your husbands family and you really want to meet them , did he tell you the reason . I dont know how to put it but maybe he has a reason as not to tell you , maybe he has a reason for it . I guess in time he will tell you ... (read in full...)

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