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... Send *olly9945 a private message | | | *olly9945's profile:Hey-lo :) I'm just an un-adverage teenage girl in a committed relationship that not very many people believe in. I had a difficult past that has caused me to mature way past my years and have a wise outlook on thing, as many adults have told me. I choose to believe them. I'm not trying to be conceited, but I've always been the adult of my family and am told I'm mature and I have even helped adults lives by giving them opinions on what I would do.
One thing about me that is very important. I very rarely give advice, I almost always give you an opinion or I give you a "this is what I would do in your situation" scenario. I am not here to make you do things, because what I say doesn't always work, and if you listen to my opinion and follow it that is your choice, and if bad things happen then it's your fault you followed my opinion. If I give advice then it's my fault if you follow it, and I don't want to purposefully ruin something in your life. So if I give you an opinion or scenario it is all things I have used and have worked for me, that doesn't mean it will always work for everyone else.
Anywho that last paragraph was kinda mean to me, and I'm not saying I will tell you something bad. I have just been held accountable for too many mistakes made by other people and I don't want that haha
As mentioned earlier I am told I'm mature for my age, so if you're older then me and have a question, then you can private message me an adult question if you think I can help. But that's all your guys' choice.
I'm very opinionated about sex, age, relationships and maturity. If you have questions regarding those things I usually always answer. I think maturity has everything to do with sex and relationships and not age, so if you message me a question about these things also expect a bunch of questions back before I answer.
Hmmm what else... I argue, a lot. Not in a rude way, but I guess in a political way? I always present examples to defend my point, and if you can't do the same and just keep repeating your point without fact/example I will think you are childish, so any questions I ask that are "What do you think is best" I will usually argue with you, even if I agree. It's just what I do. Nothing against the person, just who I am.
Anyways any questions you have about me or anything then private message me. I love to make friends and try to help people :) |
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Should I wear the promise ring like an engagement ring?
Q. I'm a bit confused. For Christmas my boyfriend got me a Promise ring. I'm not confused about that, I'm very happy about it actually! It's just that we are young and I want to wear it on my ring finger because it's basically a promise to get ...
A. 28 December 2010: Well I was planning on wearing no matter what, I just wasn't sure if I should wear it on my ring finger or not. I do want to wear it on my ring finger, but if someone is rude what should I say? ... (read in full...)
Sex with an ex, then he had sex with another girl!
Q. I'm an idiot...the other night I decided to have sex with my EX boyfriend...I'm only 13 years old and he's 15. I don't even know how it happened I was just supposed to hang out with him cause even if we broke up we're still like bestfriends. But i ...
A. 27 December 2010: What happens now? You get a pregnancy and STD test, then stay abstenent because you obviously you are too immature to have sex if you can't say no, didn't use contraception, and just "let it happen"
As for this boy having sex with another girl, th... (read in full...)
How can I stop my boyfriend giving massages to his girl friends? He should only do that to me!
Q. Well I need some advice. Currently I've been getting very jealous over things my boyfriend does with his friends that are girls. They aren't new things he's never done before, and I never used to get jealous. At first it bugged me but I got over it, ...
A. 13 December 2010: This is the first time he has given a galpal a back massage, so it caught me off guard and caused my feelings. After thinking about it I called him. We agreed if we don't like eachothers behavior we will tell eachother, and compromise if either of ... (read in full...)
Why is dating her so wrong!?
Q. My girlfriend is 15 and I am 19. We are not sexually active. Everyone is telling me it is wrong, but I don't know why. The only answers I have received so far are: -She is in a different part of life and we should have nothing in common. -I have t...
A. 8 December 2010: My sister is dating someone 7 years older then her, but she is 21. My mom married my dad with a 9 year difference, but she was 25. No, your age difference is not wrong. As long as you treat her like you do it is not wrong. As long as the ... (read in full...)
Can upper classman date freshies?
Q. Okay so there is this really awsome, sweet, cute guy that I like alot. But there is one thing...he is a freshman. Im a sophomore. I know this may sound dumb, but when I asked my friends if they would date a freshman they alll said no...But I would, ...
A. 1 December 2010: Yes it's okay, I'm a sophomore and my boyfriend is a freshmen. There is nothing wrong with it. Just be prepared because freshmen are not as mature as sophomores USUALLY, but not all the time.... (read in full...)
Why is it so bad someone my age has sex?
Q. Hi, I was thinking today, why is it so bad someone my age has sex? I assure you I haven't but I was talking to my mom and she said as long as you are responsible(using multiple forms of birth control) and had sex with someone you trusted and knew ...
A. 1 December 2010: Sorry about my earlier post, I wasn't trying to attack you, I understand your wisdom, but I don't think being twenty, or thirty, or 100 can make a person under stand sometimes. Not everyone can understand, and some are fortunate to understand early ... (read in full...)
Why is it so bad someone my age has sex?
Q. Hi, I was thinking today, why is it so bad someone my age has sex? I assure you I haven't but I was talking to my mom and she said as long as you are responsible(using multiple forms of birth control) and had sex with someone you trusted and knew ...
A. 30 November 2010: @Tennisstart88- No, I will have to disagree with you on that. I know I'm in love, I know what infatuation is, and I know this isn't it. I've been infatuated with people, and this is different. This is caring, trust, interests, differences, and a ... (read in full...)
Why is it so bad someone my age has sex?
Q. Hi, I was thinking today, why is it so bad someone my age has sex? I assure you I haven't but I was talking to my mom and she said as long as you are responsible(using multiple forms of birth control) and had sex with someone you trusted and knew ...
A. 30 November 2010: A couple notes- First, sorry it took me a while to reply I didn't have internet connection and this is a long reply. Second, not many people agreed with my mom purely because of law. I know of the law, I wasn't planning on breaking it, I disagree ... (read in full...)
Help! I don't know how to share what I feel!
Q. Hello! I have a dilemma and I would appreciate if you guys could give me some advice or opinions. So I have been in a relationship for a little over 8 months with my boyfriend. We are very close, trust each other, and I'm completely happy...
A. 13 November 2010: My past is a little extensive because of abuse, so I have emotional issues now that I try to explain to him but it's hard. But I will keep in mind that I need to have fun, it just makes me feel better to talk and explain my emotions to him.... (read in full...)
What do I say to introduce my son to her?
Q. I am recently divorced, and am living with a new partner. We are in love and planning our future together. Problem is, I don't know how to bring her up to my 13 y.o. son. He doesn't know about her (ex-wife does, and isn't happy I moved on so ...
A. 13 November 2010: I went through my dad getting a girlfriend and it's hard. What I was most afraid of is her acting like my mom, which I didn't want. So express to your son that she is your girlfriend and not his new mom. Yes if she asks for a small favor from him ... (read in full...)
He's too gentle! I need it rough!
Q. well.... I use to go out with this guy who loves to have rough sex. I use to hate it, but I eventually got use to it since its the only way to have sex with him. Now i love rough sex, but the problem is, the guy I'm dating now doesnt. He's a softie...
A. 13 November 2010: First off don't fake it, yes if there is something you did enjoy express it, but if you fake any pleasure or an orgasm he'll think he's doing good, and there for won't see a reason to due it differently or change his performance. I'm not sexually ... (read in full...)
Did I start my pill on the wrong day?
Q. So I started birth control(for medical reasons, don't worry I'm not having sex) but I think I started at the wrong time and I'm worried. What happened is I started the Sunday of my period, which was also the first day, but the next day I wasn't ...
A. 11 November 2010: Thank you so much! I was worried that something was wrong because I've never used the pill before, so I didn't know that would happen haha... (read in full...)
I feel like us not arguing it unhealthy!
Q. Hi! I'm a new user though I've been reading for a while and I've decided to ask an for an opinion. It's simple really :) Let me start out that my boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months, are very close emotionally, and confide in each ...
A. 11 November 2010: Yeah, I realize that someday when we're older we will have a disagreement or two, which will lead to an argument, it's just sometimes that seems impossible because we are so good at compromise and understanding. Thanks for you're opinions and for... (read in full...)
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