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im nice but very confused

im in a relationship and its really hard

I'm unhappy! Do I lie to myself and stay with him or let him go?

Q.   i have been in a relationship for ten months with my current boyfriend and i am not sure if i should let him go or keep him around and lie to myself that im happy and everything will get better later on because right now i am very unhappy and i dont ...

A.   16 August 2007: thats the worst thing i dont have anyone im alone... (read in full...)

I'm unhappy! Do I lie to myself and stay with him or let him go?

Q.   i have been in a relationship for ten months with my current boyfriend and i am not sure if i should let him go or keep him around and lie to myself that im happy and everything will get better later on because right now i am very unhappy and i dont ...

A.   14 August 2007: i tried telling my family but my mother is too busy in love with her 18 yr old boyfriend that is cousin of my bf i cnt talk to her anymore she tells me to break it off but then ignores me and starts talkin on the fone with her stupid bf which i hate ... (read in full...)

I don't want to lose my friendship to him as we have always been such close mates.

Q.   Hey I have an amazing boyfriend, and I love him to pieces. The other night my best friend had a smallish party an we both went, we fell asleep together etc. (nothing happened or was intended to) but now one of my of my other friends has got real...

A.   11 August 2007: you should be straight forward with him and tell him how you feel if he is a true friend he will respect you and your relationship... (read in full...)

I'm unhappy! Do I lie to myself and stay with him or let him go?

Q.   i have been in a relationship for ten months with my current boyfriend and i am not sure if i should let him go or keep him around and lie to myself that im happy and everything will get better later on because right now i am very unhappy and i dont ...

A.   11 August 2007: no no no me and my ex are exacly alike me and my current bf r nothin alike nd i havent talked or even looked his way in months we lost communication we had a lot of problems he started changing towards me he was rude and mean all the time but thats ... (read in full...)

Any suggestions for removal of acne.

Q.   How do i get rid of my acne. I have blackheads, pimples, a lot of red markings and scars on my face. How do i get rid of it naturally? Are there any creams i could buy that won't break my budget, and won't make me breakout b/c i have very sensitive ...

A.   10 August 2007: wash your face with sugar i know it sounds crazy but it works get sugar and wet your face use the sugar like a scrubing lotion scrub your face with it trust me it works better than anythin and it doesnt cost your anything also dont eat tomatoes b/c ... (read in full...)

I'm unhappy! Do I lie to myself and stay with him or let him go?

Q.   i have been in a relationship for ten months with my current boyfriend and i am not sure if i should let him go or keep him around and lie to myself that im happy and everything will get better later on because right now i am very unhappy and i dont ...

A.   10 August 2007: the thing is i never mention my ex and he still brings him up hes more in love with my ex then me and i know my soulmate is out there im just scared i might never find him and im even more scared to know that i found my soulmate but we were too ... (read in full...)

MY bf is emotionally abusive, but it's hard to break up with him! Help!

Q.   My bf has been emotionally abusive towards me. He tells me no one else will put up with me. He threatens to break up with me to get his own way. Whenever he's not in a good mood he yells at me and makes me feel guilty for anything I do until I say ...

A.   10 August 2007: wow im in the same position my bf is the same if you can get away from him find a way dont stay b/c your just gonna go crazy and since he took your viginity he thinks your his property now let him go and dont let him come back in your life b/c in ... (read in full...)

I don't want him to think I'm easy but he is very fit. Wot do I do????

Q.   I still realy like my ex but he is with someone else. We were together for a couple of months but I really liked him. He cheated on me with a girl, I would have still forgiven him but he ended it with me to be with her. A couple of months later ...

A.   10 August 2007: i agree with the other 2 girls leave him and get away he's trying to bust a good one do her do you dont degrade yourself with someone like that and one thing is what he says another is what he does remember actions speak louder than words... (read in full...)

I just need help getting over the guilt/regret/shame?!?!?!!

Q.   My live-in boyfriend broke up with me about 2 months ago. He just said he "couldn't do it" that he "wasn't ready". I was very hurt and confused by this. After the break-up he kept finding reasons to come by and see me. After a month of this feeling ...

A.   10 August 2007: if you tried to apologize than your set dont be feeling guilty if he threw the first stone and just to make you feel better those low blows were nothing iv done and said way worser things and first that was messed up what he said about him not ... (read in full...)

I was raped when I was 7, I'm now 12 and it's ruining my life.

Q.   Okay this is how it is: I was raped when I was 7, I'm now 12 and you see it's ruining my life because the thing is I have nightmares about that time all the time so I stay up all night... then I'm late for school and don't concentrate properly...

A.   10 August 2007: wow thats harsh first of all tell someone tell an adult that can help go to the police if you havent already ... and dont do something stupid remember that once your dead theres no turning back and dont be a coward and end your life fight for it ... (read in full...)

I want to get back with her, I do love her and I haven't told her how I feel, should I?

Q.   Hi, I recently posted a question and I appreciate all the response they were vey helpful, me and my girlfriend of 9 months broke up but are still friends, we talk on a daily basis and she tells me she still loves me but I think she has moved. I on ...

A.   10 August 2007: yes you should b/c if you dont your gonna make her feel like shes telling you how she feels and if your not doing the same she might mistake it and think you dont want her back and then she's really gonna move on dont make that mistake of letting ... (read in full...)

Shouldn't I be missing him more than I do?

Q.   I used to miss my boyfriend very much all the time. I might be considered a clingy girlfriend. My boyfriend lives 2 hours drive away from me and we can only spend weekends together. I used to look forward to all the weekends we get to see each other ...

A.   10 August 2007: ya its totally normal and believe me your better like that, clingy people get annoying and especially a gf or bf believe me i have the clingiest bf in the world i see him in da morning and in the afternoon he drives me crazy !!!!! and its not that ... (read in full...)

I'm unhappy! Do I lie to myself and stay with him or let him go?

Q.   i have been in a relationship for ten months with my current boyfriend and i am not sure if i should let him go or keep him around and lie to myself that im happy and everything will get better later on because right now i am very unhappy and i dont ...

A.   10 August 2007: i know that i should tell him how i feel but its soo hard. he's one of those people that doesnt listen he just judges and i know that i should be strong enough to leave if im not happy but i cant he wont let me go. i swear he's like crazy absesses ... (read in full...)

She's an emotional mess, torn between her boyfriend and I; what should I do?

Q.   Hi, all. Just some advice needed before i go crazy. Been involved in an emotional/sexual affair with someone i became friends with at work. She wouldnt get that way involved for months but we did and it was like we were in a bubble - amazing for ...

A.   8 August 2007: wow great qustion kinda tough too well i think you should just part let her know what she lost and if her feelings are true she will come back to you. and she should have more respect than to be having sex with you and with him thats gross she needs ... (read in full...)

I feel like a stuck record about this but it's really bugging me...

Q.   Hi I feel like a stuck record about this but it's really bugging me! I split with someone just over a month ago. Was a year long nightmare relationship. All is good, I can't stand the bloke. He rang Friday night trying to explain things 'cuz he l...

A.   7 August 2007: i think your reacting like a mother that is bullshit what ur ex is doin and your brothers maybe you should look for another place to live or bring the topic to your family and the police you have to be brave and strong your children are your life ... (read in full...)

Everytime I have sex with my boyfriend and to the bathroom afterward, I have really painfully burning when I urinate

Q.   Lately, almost everytime I have sex with my boyfriend and to the bathroom afterward, I have really painfully burning when I urinate. The sex itself isn't painful. I do/I have trouble getting lubricated, but we usually take it really slow star...

A.   7 August 2007: you might want to go see a doctor b/c you might have a bladder infection thats what usually happens either that or u just need to use more lube bt really go see a doctor b/c the longer you leave it alone the worser its gonna get ... (read in full...)

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