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Does my bf have no confidence? Is he scared of women? Advice needed!

Q.   Hi there, hope you can help. Im in love with my male friend and he is aware of this has been for months and it doesnt scare him at all and at times im proper full on. The problem I have is we have this really strong bond, there is alot of physical ...

A.   23 October 2006: tell him how you fill and that your worried about him... (read in full...)

I'm having an affair...I don't feel the same about my husband and never want to leave my lovers to go home!

Q.   I am married and im having an affair with a woman. we started out as friends then we became lovers. I dont know what to do our relationship started 18 months ago, i dont know if i should leave my husband. I've been married for 23 years lately i ...

A.   22 October 2006: tell your hubby he 'll understand tell him you don't wanna be with him... (read in full...)

How do you deal with the fact that someone doesn't love you anymore?

Q.   Ok. So, how do you deal with the fact that someone doesn't love you anymore? I had never before been in love cause I never let anyone in (never wanted a broken heart, cause I am not that strong of a person). I finally let this guy in...and I love ...

A.   22 October 2006: get on with your live you might find someone better... (read in full...)

My buddy is planning to dump his gf..and I like her. Would it be wrong of me to date her once he let's her go?

Q.   I've been friends with (Bob) since we were kids. Bob's been dating a girl but says he's thinking about ending the relationship soon because he's not in love with her. I became good friends with his girlfriend, and realized she's my ideal woman in ...

A.   22 October 2006: okay tell your mate how you feel and if he says it fine wait about four weeks after he's dumped her. For the to weeks try to know her better so yuo know a bit about her befor you go out with her... (read in full...)

He is everything I look for in a man but I'm not attracted to him!!

Q.   Hello, I have a bit of a problem. There is a man I've been friends with for a very long time, there has always been that "relationship" aspect of it, and it's become more apparent. His personality suits me well, most of the things that I look f...

A.   22 October 2006: tell him your not attracted. Tell him to get over you and find someone else... (read in full...)

What is acceptable timing to become engaged?

Q.   how long do you think a couple should date before they get engaged? Just please give me some idea. Then after the engagement how long should they wait before they get married? my boyfriend says that an engagement is the same thing as ...

A.   22 October 2006: how long have you been going out if longer than three months you can get engaged then usausly people get married about two weeks after thier engaged. your welcs for help miss help... (read in full...)

We never have anything to talk about!!

Q.   we never have anything to talk about.... is that a bad thing???...

A.   22 October 2006: try to bring up a subject darlin like music or books or movies. this may make your relationship easier... (read in full...)

My crush is my slave for spirit week !!

Q.   Ok then I hope you can help lol Ok yea yea I'm in high school still but I really like this guy. I'm pretty sure he knows, it kind of got around but not every one knows. So there's a slim chance he doesn't know. Anyways I guess you need to know some...

A.   22 October 2006: hey get him to like you is easy get him tocarry half your stuff and you carry the over stuff talk about school music ... (read in full...)

He dropped off two dozen red rose for everyone at work but he doesn't have much to do with anyone but me!!

Q.   I work at a tanning salon and i've became pretty friendly with customers and got to know a lot. One customer, is very sweet and loves to talk to me, and helps me when i need advice, and the other day i went to get my paycheck and he walked in and ...

A.   22 October 2006: hes proably has got a crush tell him your not intrested and that you don't want anything to do with him... (read in full...)

She says she is not the type of person that has affairs

Q.   Any help would be appreciated. I am in love with my best friend, who is a woman and a lesbian She is in a relationship but is very unhappy. I was recently in a relationship but have broken up. I have known her for 7 years and we are very close. ...

A.   22 October 2006: tell her you love her .and if herlife is upseting her tell her to get broken up with her partner and see if she fills the same way about you.... (read in full...)

My Internet guy says he loves me... but I'm 28 with a child and a boyfriend, and the 'net guy is 18 and 6 hours away!

Q.   hi, well ive met this guy on the internet and he keeps saying he loves me,dnt know what to do im 28 with a child and boy friend i dnt get on with this guy is only 18, and says im right for him i do really like him he also live 6 hrs away ,plz help ...

A.   22 October 2006: tell him how old you are that you have a bf and a child. if he doesn't leave you alone. Just don't go on the website anymore.... (read in full...)

Wiil the age gap scare this girl away?

Q.   i fancy this 14yr old girl. im 16. wen i get to know her more i will ask her out. if she does'nt like me will this scare her away? i mean i'm not sure if she has even thought about me! we only met for 3 hours on a mates birthday so far! but after i ...

A.   22 October 2006: get to know her better then ask her if a older person asks her out and the age is round 16-17 what would she say if she says yes ask her out if shes says no move on and fine someone your own age... (read in full...)

Will he come back after walking out on me???

Q.   Is it most likely for my ex boyfriend to come back wanting me after he walked out on me?...

A.   22 October 2006: if you still love him try again if not move on if he comes back tell him your over him and seeing some one else... (read in full...)

I can't keep friends or boyfriends and all I want is someone to be a real friend to me!!

Q.   i feel like everything in my life was misirable, ever since i never get love from my own parents and this maybe the reason im always longing an attention from others, boyfriend that i thought would work but its look like im not lucky. i tried to get ...

A.   22 October 2006: maybe your tryin to hard. Try makin friends by talkin about stuff like books you like or movies find out thier names .... (read in full...)

Every girl I've been involved with continues to be in contact with their ex...why??

Q.   I've always have this problem in my relationship. Why do girls Always keep in contact with their ex's? Even when they are in a relationship with someone they would still always hang outwith their ex. I'm not saying every girl does that, but alot d...

A.   22 October 2006: maybe when broke up they agreed to be friends. If you think anything else is going on then talk to her and make sure nothings going on.... (read in full...)

Should i divorce and hurt my son?

Q.   I am married man for 18 years, i have a son of 13 ,the problem is i lost all intrest in my wife, over several years i have cheated before, just typical one night stands, now i have met a woman i work with , been sexually involved with her for ...

A.   22 October 2006: sit your wive down tell her your not intrested any more and you want a divorce. Then tell your son yes he'll be upset but he'll get over it just as long as you make dure he gets to see you one week and your wive the next.... (read in full...)

My husband works away and he's just informed me that he is having an affair!!!

Q.   Hi my husband of 11 years has just informed me he is having an affair with a woman where he works, he works out of the country and has done for the last 2 and half years, he is away for 6 weeks at a time and only home for 2 weeks. I think the affair ...

A.   22 October 2006: phone him ask him if he wants you. You might win him back if you lived over there but things might change and he might quite and come back to you but take my avice Miss help ... (read in full...)

He had sex with me and dumped me. Now he's getting cozy with me again! What should I do?

Q.   Im 15 recently went out with a guy who i really liked and slept with him too. Except he dumped me a week after. I still like him and recently when weve been hangin out hes started cuddling me and gettin abit cosy with me. I dont know if he likes me ...

A.   22 October 2006: tell him does he want you or this girl if he wants you make sure you go step by step don't rush in to things... (read in full...)

I've resenting found out he has registered on a site to meet a shemale!!!

Q.   I have been married for 3 years and have two young children. We have a very happy marriage and I know that my husband loves me however i have recently discovered that he has been registering on certain websites in order to meet a 'shemale'. Having ...

A.   22 October 2006: talk it through with him make sure he understands how you found out. then make sure he wants to be with you and your kids. Say its the website or you. ... (read in full...)

I went out with some friends now I'm getting emails from a guy that says he danced with me that night!!!!

Q.   I sometimes go out clubbing on a friday /saturday night with 1 of my friends, but anyway i recieved an email back a few days ago and it said " i danced with u in town one night" from a male from the singles who click site. And i dont know this ...

A.   22 October 2006: tell him to piss of if hes still not listening. Get the police involved if you want to.... (read in full...)

Invited to two parties! Which one do I choose?

Q.   hey, about 2 or 3 weeks ago i was invited to a girls halloween party and i said i would go... but yesterday i found out that my best friend was having a party on the same day for his birthday. what should i do?... im going to have to pick one but i ...

A.   22 October 2006: Well witch do you most want to go to if still havin trouble. Tell your mate that you got invited to a halloween party first and couldn't make it. Then then the next day take him some were for his birthday.... (read in full...)

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