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I opened up and told my husband about my past threesome!!! He cant move on from it and its destroying us! Please help!!

Q.   I have a serious marriage problem. My husband and I have been married for 15 months now. We got married while he was in the military, and we were separated for 13 months. We have been living together for 3 months now. Everything was perfect in ...

A.   13 December 2010: I feel that it pays not to open up about your past lovers. I feel that you are with the one you love, and what happened in the past, stays with you. It's not necessary to share any information. Unless asked. But be aware, that you have to take this ... (read in full...)

Why could I not cope with my partner's sexual past?

Q.   I could not cope with the threesome my partner had with his ex wife and her female friend and have ended my relationship with him because of this. I could not get it out of my head and kept thinking of the three of them together. Now that I am ...

A.   10 November 2010: I wanted to add something further. You had since left this person, you should be able to put this behind you and move on. If you were still with him, and you were struggling to cope, i would suggest counselling for you or for both of you together if ... (read in full...)

Why could I not cope with my partner's sexual past?

Q.   I could not cope with the threesome my partner had with his ex wife and her female friend and have ended my relationship with him because of this. I could not get it out of my head and kept thinking of the three of them together. Now that I am ...

A.   10 November 2010: I am really sorry this happened to you. Did you talk this over with him? What was his response? Even though it happened before you, learning of this afterwards can be a shock and it's natural to see him in a different way sexually. This can be h... (read in full...)

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