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How can I let my teacher know he's actually been a great help to me?

Q.   basically, whenever i'm writing something this teacher can be annoying as hell with his picky-ness and/ or advises me to rethink my entire concept. it can be extremely painful (emotionally and mentally) but it's made me write some of my best ...

A.   23 September 2009: I agree with "CaringGuy" - a card is a great idea. In my final year of school i wrote massive letters to the teachers who had helped me most, and stuck them inside normal christmas cards (we have a different school year), and gave them a photo ... (read in full...)

Will a puppy heal my loneliness?

Q.   Hey.. umm I have a question. Im 18 years old, i just started college and im about to go away to school next semester. i met this boy in school, and we got together. i fell in love with him and as my first love, i lost my virginity to him. when i was ...

A.   23 September 2009: Getting a dog when you're in an emotional state is not great for it at all. You need to be able to be its leader, not relying on the dog to look after you (Hail Cesar!!) Puppies take more work than older dogs - but even adopting a dog from a ... (read in full...)

I was born with eczema, how to get over my embarassment?

Q.   Hi, Im 14. I have a weird problem. I was born with eczema so ill have it all my life because in most cases it goes by the age of 7, my grandfather has it too. i dont like showing my legs because im embarassed by it because its on my arms and le...

A.   23 September 2009: hey mate! I have exactly the same problem! I had eczema as a kid, it went away and came back - i'm 19 now. I know it really sucks, but you really just have to live with it i guess. I have it on my face and chest, which i can't really cover up easi... (read in full...)

I'm really jealous about my best mate's girlfriend..

Q.   Hi guys, My best friend has just recently fallen head over heels for this girl who we met at a party a while ago. I was really apprehensive about her, as she was just generally rude (mainly to me, not to him obviously!) when we met her, though I...

A.   17 July 2009: hmmm, i'm thinking that I don't like him more than just friends. I mean, i love him to bits, and I always tell him that, and he says the same, but its not that kind of love. but me being so jealous of her makes me wonder if i do. but at any rate, ... (read in full...)

I'm really jealous about my best mate's girlfriend..

Q.   Hi guys, My best friend has just recently fallen head over heels for this girl who we met at a party a while ago. I was really apprehensive about her, as she was just generally rude (mainly to me, not to him obviously!) when we met her, though I...

A.   15 July 2009: thanks! thats good advice - she comes back today, so fingers crossed the politeness will begin!... (read in full...)

Is it that he's really NOT in love with me or am I too needy?

Q.   I have been dating my boyfriend for about two months, but there are a few things that concern me. He doesn't have a car or a phone that are his so he can't call me or drive over to visit me. I have to come to him and pick him up.. this makes me ...

A.   14 July 2009: i was once in the same situation, but he never said he loved me. 8 months later it ended badly. it is hard to tell (i also was the only one with the car, and the only one apparently capable of using a phone..), because honestly it is easier for ... (read in full...)

Is this just anxiety?

Q.   OK so I just need some feedback or advice. I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for over three years, and he is the only person who genuinely makes me happy and knows exactly what to say and do to make me smile. I started college at...

A.   15 April 2009: Don't stress! I spent 13 years at an all girls school - it's completely normal to find other girls attractive without it leading anywhere. This previous answer definitely nails it right on the head. Don't force yourself away from these feel... (read in full...)

What is the best way to accentuate your bust without it making you look easy?

Q.   Odd question, sorry: If a girl is quite busty and curvy, what is the best way for her to accentuate it without looking easy? -GG...

A.   14 April 2009: The other answers are good - and perhaps adding a necklace to draw attention to the neckline as well.... (read in full...)

I'm starting to lose my feelings for this girl but I'm so scared of breaking up with her

Q.   Hello everybody... I've been with my girlfriend for 10 months now and we've already been through so much together... But, I think starting to lose my feelings for this girl but I'm so scared of breaking up with her because i don't want to hu...

A.   14 April 2009: Panic attacks shouldn't be used as leverage against you. They are nasty but not life threatening, speaking from experience. Unfortunately the only way you are going to get through this is by being strong against her, and standing your ground. I ... (read in full...)

I'm starting to lose my feelings for this girl but I'm so scared of breaking up with her

Q.   Hello everybody... I've been with my girlfriend for 10 months now and we've already been through so much together... But, I think starting to lose my feelings for this girl but I'm so scared of breaking up with her because i don't want to hu...

A.   13 April 2009: wow that comment was really below the belt, that's just downright nasty. Maybe she's feeling the same way? I definitely think that you need to have a break from this relationship - obviously neither of you are having a great time in it.... (read in full...)

I'm starting to lose my feelings for this girl but I'm so scared of breaking up with her

Q.   Hello everybody... I've been with my girlfriend for 10 months now and we've already been through so much together... But, I think starting to lose my feelings for this girl but I'm so scared of breaking up with her because i don't want to hu...

A.   13 April 2009: definitely agree with trying to spend time apart. Even if you're losing "feelings" for her, are you still "friends" with her? Maybe try doing some different things together - things you haven't done before. If worst comes to worst, a break may ... (read in full...)

Is this real? He's my ex high school teacher

Q.   Back in high school I had this crush on one of my teachers. I had him as a teacher for 2 years. I tried not to think to much of it but I became really close with him. I found myself taking 3 periods of his classes just to be with him. I never ...

A.   13 April 2009: I think that if he was trying to "get some", he would have given up after such a long time - however you're right, you should still be careful. Because he was once your teacher, he's still got a bit of that psychological power over you, he's stil... (read in full...)

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