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Will the lack of a relationship with my father effect future relationships?

Q.   My dad started doing drugs (meth mostly that I know of) and drinking when I was about 3. He became violent and basically acted like a drug addict and came around less and less. My mom kicked him out at some point and I would rarely see him or talk ...

A.   15 March 2010: i always feel weird going into detail about it to people because i feel like im being whiny and overreacting. i also dont want to dump a whole load of information on people right from the beginning because its probably more information than theyre ... (read in full...)

I hate the naked girly pics on his computer! What should I do?

Q.   All the time I find pics of half naked girls on my boyfriends computer, and I tell him I don't like it and it just keeps making me feel sad and bad about myself, what else should I do to make myself feel better?...

A.   13 March 2010: whats he say when you tell him? maybe put up half naked pics of guys all over? lol... (read in full...)

I'm finding it hard to trust my husband seen as he is on dating websites saying he is looking for someone to cheat with!

Q.   I am having problems with my husband. I have seen twice now that he has filled out profiles on dating websites. Once this summer and once last week. After filling the one out this summer, he never went back to it, but the other he has gone back to. ...

A.   21 January 2010: I think you should definitely confront him and show him what you found! that is completely unacceptable, especially if he flat out put on there he wants someone to cheat with. jealous person or not i cant imagine that being okay under any ... (read in full...)

I don't know what I'm doing wrong but I've never been kissed by a girl... Help!

Q.   Hey I'm 17 years old and I'm a junior in high school. I have never kissed a girl nor have I had a girlfriend. I have no self confidence in myself even though girls tell me I'm cute. I am puerto rican and have guido spiky hair and am 5' 8''. Most of ...

A.   20 January 2010: the problem probably is that you have no confidence. at least try and act like you do, most girls find confident guys attractive. have you actually tried to get a girlfriend or have you been waiting for them to come to you? i say go after some! ... (read in full...)

What is the most painful thing so far in your life?

Q.   What is the most painful thing so far in your life? After this earthquake, I felt so lucky, even so my life is full of pain. But, I was wondering to ask others, what are the worst things that have happened to you. Like relationships, or parenting, ...

A.   20 January 2010: my dad got into drugs and alcohol when i was about three years old and was never around. he was really selfish (for example, i had one of those electric barbie cars for kids and it broke. he said he would fix it for me, took it and never gave it ... (read in full...)

Am I being too protective of him?

Q.   I need some advice please. My boyfriend is doing some work somewhere away from me, and I can't see him. I would be with him but my school and education get's in the way :\ But I still talk to him on the phone, msn and facebook. But there is this gi...

A.   20 January 2010: that would make me REALLY mad. does he see her? some girls are stupid and weird though and would probably say that despite how he responds to it. some guys will text me all the time no matter how much i ignore them or blow them off, and ill tell my ... (read in full...)

What should I do? Continue pursuing Sofia and see where it goes? Or end it with her and tell my friend he can have her?

Q.   Well I am in a wee bit of a predicament. So last Friday I met this cute girl at a party and chatted her up. I think we hit it off pretty well, I knew her friend from class. For these purposes, her name will be Sofia. The following night at an...

A.   20 January 2010: have you asked her about it? he could be full of it if he wants her... (read in full...)

Our gay friend was naked in front of my wife and I didn't like it!

Q.   My wife has this male friend she was friends with for about 2 years before she met me. I'll call him BJ (for his initials). They were never bf/gf or I wouldn't let her still be friends with him (ex's are never a good thing when you're married). BJ ...

A.   19 January 2010: i think thats inappropriate. i dont think i'd do that in front of anyone especially if they had a spouse who was right there(not that them not being in the room would make it any better). its probably not the same thing, but if i had a lesbian ... (read in full...)

I didn't mean for this to happen, is it too late to reconcile?

Q.   My girlfriend of a year and a half broke up with me last week. We had a really strong relationship and were deeply in love. We used to have one problem, and that was she would always fall asleep on the phone so i got mad at her like once a week ...

A.   13 January 2010: i had a boyfriend that would get mad at me for falling asleep all the time. once he even kicked me out of his house for it, but im hoping you didnt do anything that extreme. did you get mad at her for other things too? you should definitely leave ... (read in full...)

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