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I would prefer people that speaks the truth NOT the lies that I wanted to hear to make myself feel better so if I advice you on anything it will be the honest truth.

I've developed feelings for my friend but don't want to cause problems

Q.   please forgive the length please advise i dont understand how ive developed feelings for my good friend. at first we barely spoke as we worked together on a team but not one to one which we have done recently. we have got close in a friendshi...

A.   9 July 2012: Put yourself in her shoes..would you like to be treated like that by another woman? Good Luck... (read in full...)

When I look at my crush he looks away?

Q.   Okay, so I asked a question about my crush... But things have changed since I posted that question. He like looks at me, but when I look at him he looks away! What does this mean?...

A.   3 July 2012: If I were you....I will wait for him to look back at me than I look at him real quick before he looked away and stick my tongue out at him thats a tease lol, when he gets closer if you just smile at him and he's shy he might get super embarrassed ... (read in full...)

I found a txt from another girl

Q.   Me and my boyfriend were in his car, and his phone vibrated. i looked down at his phone and saw a girl's name flash up, i didnt recognise the name. i asked my boyfriend whos that. and he said i dnt kno, i dnt kno this girl. i read the txt and it ...

A.   3 July 2012: Since he said he don't know her you should have answered her text back saying ''lets meet up wednesday just not tonight I'm hanging out with my girl friend" ... (read in full...)

Do I tell crush how I feel? I think he's attached, but he's moving away!

Q.   Hello everyone, I could really do with some advice. I've been dreaming about a particular guy for almost two years now but have never told him how I feel. We're both doctors and he's about to move to a new area and it's killing me. Let's call him ...

A.   3 July 2012: Its better to give him hints firsts so he can make the first move, try to flirt with him lol try to get his attention first ...than ask him if he wanted to go eat lunch together with you, if he go eat lunch with you thats your doorway to ask him if ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend acts kind of strange about sex. Is he gay?

Q.   My man prefers to masturbate while I am next to him sucking on his chest. I want him to have intercourse with me but he doesn't. He will only let me ride it and most of the time it is not that hard. He is 66 and I am 59. Do you think he might be ...

A.   3 July 2012: Tell him to talk to his doctor for some kind of hard on madicine :) good luck... (read in full...)

I've told him he needs to change ...

Q.   I can't decide whether to break up with my boyfriend of 7 months. We've known each other for years and have been good friends, although living in different countries (we're still in a long distance relationship). Last year, on a visit to see him he ...

A.   1 July 2012: Stick to him, his trying to change for you, these girls contact you because they know he cares for you more and they are jealous of you and by leaving him over this... your letting her win SO DON'T let them get into you, he's trying to change JUST... (read in full...)

In my LDR we Text and I phone. But he has Never phoned me. Can we make this work? He's in the Military

Q.   Hi, Do you think that in 6 months my boyfriend has never actually rung me up? We text daily and I've called him a few times but even if he misses my calls he will text back? I've asked him and he said his just always texted and doesn't really...

A.   1 July 2012: My husband is in the military too. We text a lot cause he can't be seen talking on the phone if they are walking or doing anything while they are on uniform (AIT). Most of the time we talk he have to go somewhere and stand still there so he can talk... (read in full...)

1st date and he forgot his wallet and now I'm turned off

Q.   I'm in my late twenties. I m very much financially independent as I own my business and I do pretty well with it. Why I m telling this about myself before I start my story just to show that I'm not at all need any kind of financial support from any...

A.   1 July 2012: If I were you I will ONLY pay my food & leave him behind, that is a HUGE turnoff ... (read in full...)

He told me in front of his friends he could do better than me and that our relationship is over.

Q.   I need some advice. I am aware I need to leave this relationship but I need input on how and whether it's really something I should do. I hae a 2 1/2 year old son who considers my boyfriend his "dad" bc he's been there since he was 2 weeks old. Last ...

A.   1 July 2012: Kick his balls, he's a brick that needs to be slapped in the face with the dirt in your shoes, a man that talks like that to a woman is a piece of trash, don't be blinded by Love when its not there. You are wasting your time staying with him, show ... (read in full...)

I don't want be pushy for sex, but I also don't want her to think I don't want her!

Q.   dear cupid... i am 18 years old and i am dating with a girl for about 3 months. we love each other madly but we both are virgins so when any of our conversations tends to have a sexual content, we both feel awkward and stop ... until now, we have ...

A.   1 July 2012: maybe she got scared that your gonna seduce her that day lol, I first had sex when I was 24 with the man that I'm married to right now, my first time I was scared to death cause my friends told me our first time (woman) always sucks all we feel is ... (read in full...)

I just want sex from him, so he cut me off. What can I do?

Q.   Hello. I'm in a really tough situation. I have been in a committed relationship for 4 years, but there has been no sexual chemistry for a year due to health problems. I finally got tired of not being satisfied so 2 months ago things got pretty ...

A.   1 July 2012: 90% out of a 100% my husband turns me down every time I throw myself at him, he said I totally killed him mood lol but whenever I just sat there and watch TV bored out of mind for some unknown reason he's always in the mood (weird) maybe talk to him ... (read in full...)

He left his wife for me but misses his children

Q.   I fell in love with a married man. We are right for each other. He left his wife and children and moved in with me, but told his wife it was a trial separationn and she has no clue what he has been doing. Now a few months in, he has become depre...

A.   1 July 2012: reading this makes me really angry, my Dad left my Mom for another woman when I was 2 years old, please go find yourself someone else don't let his kids grow up without their father ... (read in full...)

She says she loves me yet she doesn't want to walk out of her bad marriage

Q.   I have a lady who I have known for 20 some years,she is the wife of an ex-friend, who I had never gotten to know, because of him, he was real jealous and possessive. Well out of the blue he decided to cheat on her, she came to see me one day and ask ...

A.   1 July 2012: Just try to be a good friend, respect her decisions & hope for the best!!... (read in full...)

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