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How do I get my confidence back after all these years of harsh treatment from others?

Q.   Where to start...I'm 24-years-old, and have no friends. The reason is being I'm not confident enough in myself to talk to anyone other than basic small talk. My background: I was bullied very badly in high school. It started sophomore year (9 ye...

A.   25 October 2012: Everybody isnt make to look a certain way. I think that you should focus your time on building your careeer and fufilling your dreams with your family. You do not want to be 50 years old and look back and realize that you spent your whole life ... (read in full...)

Torn by family loyalties...

Q.   I would like to get advice on something family and money related. I have a job working full time with a decent salary. My family has a small business which they are struggling with. They have asked me for money several times in the last 2 years. I ...

A.   25 October 2012: I think that you should approch them and try to help them figure out why they are losing money. THere may be some answers there that you didnt think of...e.g unnecessary expenses. ... (read in full...)

Should I try to start something with my sister's guy friend who she treats badly. And should I open up to him and tell him that I like him?

Q.   Recently my sister has been dating this guy he is ropughly 21 years old, and I really like him I'm a guy and underaged. I think he likes me back. My sister doesn't really want him she just uses him to buy her stuff, and she talks to other guys. ...

A.   25 October 2012: I dont know about this one. If you guys start something...this could get really messy in your family. I would stay away. What if your sister finds out? What if your parents find out? What if your sister finds out and tells everbody at school? ... (read in full...)

My husband's interactions with other men make me very uncomfortable, is he gay?

Q.   I have been having suspicions that my husband could be gay for awhile now. When he is talking to other men he is a little to friendly when talking to them. He has friends he talks to that I have never met.When he goes to shake another man's hand he ...

A.   25 October 2012: I was thinking that he is bi but ashamed. I think that you should give him some time and help him with his "bisexuality" I think that will make him love you more- to know that you know his secret and you are willing to work with him on it.... (read in full...)

Should I Trust My Husband? Am I Wrong For FeelingThis Way?

Q.   My husband and I have been married for almost 28 years. I have always trusted him because and have never suspected him cheating on me. Lately he has upset me because of some of the things he has done. One example occurred several years ago when s...

A.   25 October 2012: No...there is always the possibilty that someone could cheat...even the best of us. Sounds as if he has some type of fantasies that he wants to explore and he is unable to tell you about it. I think that you should be patient and gather data. ... (read in full...)

How do I heal the relationship? Do I love too deeply?

Q.   I have been with my bf for 21 months - nearly two years. We have a beautiful 1 year old son together. I have two kids at home with me so two toddlers. Last night though, out of nowhere he turned around and told me he fell out of love with me ove...

A.   25 October 2012:  A lot of times people get into relationships and think that they are ok until the hard times come and they aren't able to deall with the hardships. I think that you guys need to take an inventory of yourselves and decides what makes you happ... (read in full...)

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