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Girlfriend isn't getting a job. Should I get involved or stay out of it?

Q.   I have a girlfriend and we've been together for 4 months. Everything is wonderful between us. We get along really great. We laugh all the time, the affection and sex is great, we love the same movies, and we're both are very light responsible ...

A.   6 September 2009: well here's how it ends. She couldn't /wouldn't get a job. She got money from unemployment in a big chunck. Meanwhile she moved her stuff back in to her x-boyfriend's house. She says it will be there for a short time but I don't believe it. She ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is financially dependent on me. Will he ever change?

Q.   My boyfriend is always broke! We've been together for 4 years, living together for 2 years. I am a recent grad with BS, he doesn't even have a GED. I'm 24, he's 25, but he's been financially dependent on me and it's draining my savings. He's a g...

A.   1 September 2009: Depression is a great thing. It tells you when you're living a bullsh** life. This guy is absolute dead weight. Which is even OK if you want to be the bread winner. Your depression is telling you that this is NOT the best you can do. You know ... (read in full...)

Ladies, do I just not understand how women think? Men, am I being taken for a ride?

Q.   Here goes all on a plate for the last time so I would be greatfull of honest and good advice not told how we done wrong and what we done wrong. So here it is I was seeing someone I was working with, we were so like best friends that much I woul...

A.   1 September 2009: If this is the life you want have at it. I'm stressed out just reading this. I think you can do WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY better.... (read in full...)

Can't get a job and feel worthless!

Q.   Hi. I lost my job to the recession and credit crunch in September and I have been unable to land another job. I've applied for hundreds of jobs. I've had one interview and the rest never bother getting back to me. I even tried to get a job at a ...

A.   1 September 2009: First of all that's awesome that she's standing by you. STOP DENYING YOUR GREATNESS. Stop feeding in to the economy bulls***! You can create your own economy. Walk with confidence and be open minded. There is a great job out there for you. ... (read in full...)

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