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Loads of people say likes me so does he? I can't tell.

Q.   I have a good friend and i never know if he likes me or not. we always slag each other, as he does with most of his girl friends though, but we tend to mess around a bit more than i've seen him do with others in the way that we'll pretend to try t...

A.   27 June 2009:  Wow! It sounds like you're having fun! Keep having fun! What makes you think he doesn't like you? Is that a yes or no or can't there be different levels of the feeling? If he feels something really really strong he'll let you know, right? Beca... (read in full...)

Girls: would you stay with a guy that's so cheap and shallow?

Q.   see i use to like this guy when he was studying with me i use to look at him in class because he's so cute well he asked me out and we've been going out for like 4 months and in this period i've never hated any one as much i do not like him when i ...

A.   27 June 2009: Is he returning the favor of paying for things? If it's 50-50 then that's enough. If it's about competition among girls, money isn't the only thing to compare between boyfriends. Make sure you like him and not the attention, either from him or from ... (read in full...)

I'm confused! My best friend says he does not want a relationship.

Q.   I think I'm really in love with my best friend. I've know him for years but we're weren't close until recently. And I guess the more I know him, the more I'm in love. He's really sweet and caring. But one thing I'm afriad of is that he doesn't feel ...

A.   27 June 2009: Tell him you love him! Then go get a boyfriend who loves you back. Clearly he isn't interested. Be the stronger one and move on to someone more welcoming and deserving.... (read in full...)

Is he taking me for a ride?

Q.   ok so i have been best friends with this guy (lets call him D) for 2 1/2 years and we are really close. a few months ago my friend text him from my phone telling him that i really liked him (which i do) and he replied 'wow im speechless'.a few days ...

A.   27 June 2009: He might really like you. Or he might not like you. My guess is he likes you so-so. You might finally end up together. Is that the goal? Is that what you want? Do you really love him? I don't get the sense that you have an unbridled passion for him ... (read in full...)

How do I clear things up with the guy I've been leading on?

Q.   This guy who really likes me and I have been flirting a lot recently. My boyfriend hasn't been there for me in a long time, and I'm considering breaking up. The only problem is, I've been flirting with this guy only because I wanted to replace the ...

A.   27 June 2009: Just tell him exactly what you told us. Thinking that you thought he was really special was probably the most interesting thing he saw in you.... (read in full...)

I can't believe I turned out to be such a crappy girlfriend. What can I do?

Q.   I'm in a troubled relationship, and I don't know what to do. Ok, so we met and a few months later we started going out. He was my first boyfriend, and I'm the first girl he's ever loved. Well, in the beginning we were PERFECT for each other, ...

A.   27 June 2009: It sounds like you are sabotaging your relationship because you don't know how to be yourself and stand up for who you are. You are a woman. He is a man. You are naturally more interesting than he is and if he doesn't get it, too bad for him! He ... (read in full...)

Is he being polite or is he interested?

Q.   There is a guy I like and I think he likes me too. He is always asking me to go to places where he and his friends hang out. The only thing is that he ALWAYS says to come if I have nothing better to do. I have heard guys say that to girls before. Is ...

A.   27 June 2009: Next time he invites you, tease him and say "Do you have a thing for me or something?" He might be adding the "if you have nothing better to do" because 1) He doesn't want you to get the idea that it's anything more than hanging out or 2) He likes ... (read in full...)

Will I ever get over this man?? Is it possible that something so wrong could be meant to be?

Q.   I feel like I'm going crazy. I had an affair with an amazing man and it ended 3 months ago for all the right reasons. The problem is I'm having problems getting over it - I can't stop thinking about him and I miss him so much I really do feel like ...

A.   27 June 2009: These answers were good. I was expecting the usual litany of hatred towards cheaters and accusations of selfishness and lack of discipline and living in reality. We could make the same accusations of premarital sex havers or middle aged men who buy ... (read in full...)

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