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So the not perfect guy with spark or the perfect guy with a little less spark?

Q.   I have a boyfriend. And I love him. I really do, but I just can't help but seeing his flaws all the time. He is not really smart, he's a little immature and sometimes I just can;t help but being irritated by his behavior. But he's really swee...

A.   20 June 2012: I have your same dilemma. But in my case, my boyfriend is the perfect guy but with less spark. :( Honestly he is a great guy but my friend who is not so perfect has more spark. Spark matters a lot more than you think. You should always go with ... (read in full...)

I never doubted being in love until my mom said that I just cared deeply for my friend.

Q.   My girlfriend and I were doing great, and going on over 8 months. However, my parents found out about us and now we have to be even more careful about hiding it. When my mom and I were talking about it, she said she doubted that I was 'in love' and ...

A.   20 June 2012: If you think that you are in love then maybe you are. People dont realize but love can happen anytime. But then again maybe you aren't in love. Dont let your mom decide your feelings for you. Love grows stronger with time. If you and your ... (read in full...)

Do you think what he's doing is ok?

Q.   My bf doesn't always tell me when he's been going out for drinks after work with co-workers or to the bar with his buddies. I thought he was open about everything (I've never given him trouble about going for drinks) but apparently there are some ...

A.   20 June 2012: What he is doing is FAR from okay. Do you think he would like if you did that to him? One day you go from work and come home very late and he asks where you were then you say just at a bar. I'm pretty sure he wouldn't feel so good because he didnt ... (read in full...)

Any of you ever had any success reforming a lifelong liar?

Q.   My guy is a compulsive liar. Every time I catch him lying he promises he won't do it again but he's been doing it so long it's a way of life for him. I believe the phrase "three's the charm" because we all mess up and deserve a second chance but no ...

A.   20 June 2012: BREAK IT OFF. Liars will always be liars. Forgive him once, shame on him. Forgive him twice, shame on you! And in your case, its the third. You need to decide if you think you deserve a liar or someone who would never even think about lying to ... (read in full...)

Can money keep a cheating marriage together?

Q.   When there's cheating in a marriage what can hold it together? If man is cheating but there's fancy cars, house and baby will that keep family happy? ...

A.   20 June 2012: This family will not be happy at all. Honestly at the initial thought it might be that it wont be so bad but then you realize it really does matter. Emotion and feel has to be in the family. Obviously both parents care for their baby but nothing ... (read in full...)

Do you wait to get over an ex completely before starting a new relationship?

Q.   Is it normal to still have feelings for an ex while getting into the next relationship? And let the lingering feelings for the ex die completely as you get to know this new person? Does this happen a lot with people? Or is it better to comple...

A.   20 June 2012: I think it depends on how much you liked your ex. I mean if it was a small fling but you did care for them, then you can wait a bit or get into a relationship and just grow your feelings for the other person. BUT if you were in love with your ex ... (read in full...)

He wants to have sex but I know he's a cheater

Q.   am 17 and my boyfriend want to have sex with me and I know his a cheater but he don't admit it and he always tell me that he don't want to lose me but I don't believe him and he don't want me to touch his cell-phone, do he really love me? ...

A.   20 June 2012: He does NOT really love you. He is a cheater, if he really loved you he wouldn't even think about cheating on you. You should break it off, it will be hard but if you want to be happy then you will. You deserve someone who cares for you and has ... (read in full...)

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