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My wife doesn't want to tell me that I am not her best lover. Why does she lie?

Q.   I met my wife when she was 40 (now she is 46). She told me that, among almost 30 previous sex partners, I am her best lover. I can not believe her. My penis is only 5 inches and normal thickness. I am not bad in bed, but I know I am not the best. ...

A.   16 August 2013: Op here: "so very confused" first off I really appreciate your comments. The reason I believe I am not her best in bed is thst she has already had vaginal orgasms with other men...ok, she says "well, I never has had 'practically' vaginal orgasms ... (read in full...)

My wife doesn't want to tell me that I am not her best lover. Why does she lie?

Q.   I met my wife when she was 40 (now she is 46). She told me that, among almost 30 previous sex partners, I am her best lover. I can not believe her. My penis is only 5 inches and normal thickness. I am not bad in bed, but I know I am not the best. ...

A.   16 August 2013: It is a recent feeling. I I feel that she lies about my sex performance I think that she can cheat on me. A woman, nowadays, could have sex with other man leaving the emotions aside,...... (read in full...)

My wife doesn't want to tell me that I am not her best lover. Why does she lie?

Q.   I met my wife when she was 40 (now she is 46). She told me that, among almost 30 previous sex partners, I am her best lover. I can not believe her. My penis is only 5 inches and normal thickness. I am not bad in bed, but I know I am not the best. ...

A.   16 August 2013: Op here: from my point of view a good lover involves more than pure sex, I think is worry about her, be seductive, hug her after to make love, spend time, etc. To be good in bed is get screams and vaginal orgasms from her and to get that kind of s... (read in full...)

My wife doesn't want to tell me that I am not her best lover. Why does she lie?

Q.   I met my wife when she was 40 (now she is 46). She told me that, among almost 30 previous sex partners, I am her best lover. I can not believe her. My penis is only 5 inches and normal thickness. I am not bad in bed, but I know I am not the best. ...

A.   15 August 2013: Op here. Well, she is my best lover but she is not the best in bed...by far. I do not care. I always have put the soul and body in bed when we make love. She hasn't...at least, after 30 previous past lovers I would expect the same (that she has ... (read in full...)

My wife doesn't want to tell me that I am not her best lover. Why does she lie?

Q.   I met my wife when she was 40 (now she is 46). She told me that, among almost 30 previous sex partners, I am her best lover. I can not believe her. My penis is only 5 inches and normal thickness. I am not bad in bed, but I know I am not the best. ...

A.   11 August 2013: OP here. Ok, Deeply in my mind I know that all of you are right. Also I know that the penis size (in fact I am 5,5 inches) is not determining to be a good lover. I know that she loves me and I know that I am hurting her with my questions. Maybe all ... (read in full...)

My wife doesn't want to tell me that I am not her best lover. Why does she lie?

Q.   I met my wife when she was 40 (now she is 46). She told me that, among almost 30 previous sex partners, I am her best lover. I can not believe her. My penis is only 5 inches and normal thickness. I am not bad in bed, but I know I am not the best. ...

A.   10 August 2013: Op here. More info: 16 of her sex partners were one stand night. 6 of them were colleagues, married. ... (read in full...)

My wife doesn't want to tell me that I am not her best lover. Why does she lie?

Q.   I met my wife when she was 40 (now she is 46). She told me that, among almost 30 previous sex partners, I am her best lover. I can not believe her. My penis is only 5 inches and normal thickness. I am not bad in bed, but I know I am not the best. ...

A.   10 August 2013: OP here.I think she won't tell me never because she thinks that it will be to much for me. And that is the real issue. I do not understand why is considered a mental disorder to want to know who was her better lover... (read in full...)

Why does my wife insist on lying about my penis size?

Q.   As I have said on previous posts, my wife has had about of 25 sexual partners before me (we met each other when she was 40). She is a very well educated and very kind person. At the begining we were very open during our conversations and at that ...

A.   12 January 2013: Ladies: I am the OP again. I am pretty sure that all women want a strong self esteem man. I agree with you. My fear is that she, despite of she deeply loves me, wants to try casual sex with some of her ex lover who was able to give her more pleasure ... (read in full...)

Why does my wife insist on lying about my penis size?

Q.   As I have said on previous posts, my wife has had about of 25 sexual partners before me (we met each other when she was 40). She is a very well educated and very kind person. At the begining we were very open during our conversations and at that ...

A.   12 January 2013: OP here. Cindy, yes, I am very stubborm, the thing is that at the beginning of our relationship she used to be more open with me and she'd was the one who made comments about the size. Now she changed her mind ( or just she says what it is hurts ... (read in full...)

Why does my wife insist on lying about my penis size?

Q.   As I have said on previous posts, my wife has had about of 25 sexual partners before me (we met each other when she was 40). She is a very well educated and very kind person. At the begining we were very open during our conversations and at that ...

A.   12 January 2013: I am the OP. It is true. I compare myself with her ex lovers and I feel that there were some better than me in bed. I think that a good lover is someone who is more than a sexual stalion and from that point of view I think that I am the best. But... (read in full...)

Why does my wife insist on lying about my penis size?

Q.   As I have said on previous posts, my wife has had about of 25 sexual partners before me (we met each other when she was 40). She is a very well educated and very kind person. At the begining we were very open during our conversations and at that ...

A.   9 January 2013: Dear Yos: I think that you have explained very well what is happening to me. You're right. It is a stupidity to continue speaking about penis size with my wife. On the other hand.... And the most difficult thing to accept is the fact that ... (read in full...)

Why does my wife insist on lying about my penis size?

Q.   As I have said on previous posts, my wife has had about of 25 sexual partners before me (we met each other when she was 40). She is a very well educated and very kind person. At the begining we were very open during our conversations and at that ...

A.   8 January 2013: Ok. "Normal" is not the same thing that "average". Maybe I need a psychiatric help, but, please remember that you are smaller or bigger in comparison to others. This is a fact. My question is not if I am "average". I have asked her if I am small in ... (read in full...)

Why does my wife insist on lying about my penis size?

Q.   As I have said on previous posts, my wife has had about of 25 sexual partners before me (we met each other when she was 40). She is a very well educated and very kind person. At the begining we were very open during our conversations and at that ...

A.   5 January 2013: I am the OP. Just some points to clarify my thougts 1. I think there is no such thing like "average". You are small, very small, big or very big (if you say that average is between 5 and 7 inches...think about this: is not IT 5 small and 7 big?... (read in full...)

My wife has not had vaginal orgasms with me and it makes me feel very bad.

Q.   I've been married for 3 years. This is my second marriage. I do love wife very deeply and she loves me. She has had many previous sex partners (around 25) and we met each other when she was 40. There is something I can not get over: She does not...

A.   3 January 2013: Many Thanks!... (read in full...)

My wife has not had vaginal orgasms with me and it makes me feel very bad.

Q.   I've been married for 3 years. This is my second marriage. I do love wife very deeply and she loves me. She has had many previous sex partners (around 25) and we met each other when she was 40. There is something I can not get over: She does not...

A.   31 December 2012: Well, thank you very much for your answers; evidently I had a wrong idea. I spend a lot of time in oral sex and she always has an orgasm, so...ok. I will let it go.... (read in full...)

My wife has not had vaginal orgasms with me and it makes me feel very bad.

Q.   I've been married for 3 years. This is my second marriage. I do love wife very deeply and she loves me. She has had many previous sex partners (around 25) and we met each other when she was 40. There is something I can not get over: She does not...

A.   31 December 2012: I an the OP. Well, when she says "practically" I understand that she has had few vaginal orgasms with others. Why I am so concerned about this? Because many women told me that orgasm trough oral sex is great, but orgasms trough intercourse are ... (read in full...)

My wife has not had vaginal orgasms with me and it makes me feel very bad.

Q.   I've been married for 3 years. This is my second marriage. I do love wife very deeply and she loves me. She has had many previous sex partners (around 25) and we met each other when she was 40. There is something I can not get over: She does not...

A.   30 December 2012: Hi, I am the OP. I do know that most women don't vaginal orgasms, but the thing is that she has had them with other men, not frequently, but she had them. That's the reason I feel so bad about this. Why she had these orgasms with other (or others) ... (read in full...)

I feel that I am not the best lover for my wife

Q.   First of all, I give my excuses for my English. I am from Argentina. I got married 3 years ago when I was 44 and my wife was 42. We met each other one year before our marriage. The thing is that I am extremely jealous of her sexual past. She insis...

A.   1 December 2012: Thank you all, guys! You have been very kind.... (read in full...)

I feel that I am not the best lover for my wife

Q.   First of all, I give my excuses for my English. I am from Argentina. I got married 3 years ago when I was 44 and my wife was 42. We met each other one year before our marriage. The thing is that I am extremely jealous of her sexual past. She insis...

A.   29 November 2012: I really appreciate your words! Maybe my lack of trust in her is that she does insist I am her best lover when it seems obvious to me I am not. I know that she does not want to hurt me, but in my head it is necessary to me that she is honest with ... (read in full...)

I feel that I am not the best lover for my wife

Q.   First of all, I give my excuses for my English. I am from Argentina. I got married 3 years ago when I was 44 and my wife was 42. We met each other one year before our marriage. The thing is that I am extremely jealous of her sexual past. She insis...

A.   29 November 2012: I really appreciate your words! Maybe my lack of trust in her is that she does insist I am her best lover when it seems obvious to me I am not. I know that she does not want to hurt me, but in my head it is necessary to me that she is honest with ... (read in full...)

I feel that I am not the best lover for my wife

Q.   First of all, I give my excuses for my English. I am from Argentina. I got married 3 years ago when I was 44 and my wife was 42. We met each other one year before our marriage. The thing is that I am extremely jealous of her sexual past. She insis...

A.   29 November 2012: Thank you very much for all your responses. I would like add some info. Among her 25 ex lovers, only one was of long term (5 years, and very likely her best lover), the rest were ocassional affaires and one night stand. The guy before me had a re... (read in full...)

I feel that I am not the best lover for my wife

Q.   First of all, I give my excuses for my English. I am from Argentina. I got married 3 years ago when I was 44 and my wife was 42. We met each other one year before our marriage. The thing is that I am extremely jealous of her sexual past. She insis...

A.   29 November 2012: Thank you very much for all your responses. I would like add some info. Among her 25 ex lovers, only one was of long term (5 years, and very likely her best lover), the rest were ocassional affaires and one night stand. The guy before me had a ... (read in full...)

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