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Should I send this mail to my girlfriend?

Q.   The e-mail she sent me: I don't know right now if we are in a relationship or just friends or even nothing. But i feel necessary to send you this mail. About the hurt feeling i gave you, i'm sorry about it. I know you have a lot of questions ...

A.   4 May 2011: In my opinion - Communicating in a relationship is a very common difficulty. It appears, in my opinion, if you two decide to remain in a relationship, you absolutely must get assistance, therapy, or counseling; however you want to say it. You two ... (read in full...)

How do I get girls to hug me, to kiss me and how do I get popular?

Q.   1. How do I get a girl to hug me that goes to my school like a bunch of them that I don't even date 2. And how do I get girls to kiss me for no reason and all ways hang around me 3. And how do I talk to them and get them to all talk and ask...

A.   4 May 2011: Be yourself and be confident. Women love confidence. NOT put on confident. Real confidence in your true self. If you are nice and you care about people. If you are sweet, and treat people, especially women with respect, you'll be ok. Don't ... (read in full...)

Is it wrong of me changing my mind about marrying my girlfriend?

Q.   I've been with my girlfriend for 3 years, in this time she's had severe drug problems and has cheated on me three times, I love her. but now she wants a commitment and wants us to get married, I said Yes initially after we got back together but I ...

A.   4 May 2011:  She wants to isolate you from your friends, so you don't have anyone for emotional support. She doesn't want you to have anyone you can go to when she betrays and hurts you. Without friends you can talk to, you will be stuck with her, and only ... (read in full...)

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