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I love her and don't want to hurt her, but I can't find a way to make it work.

Q.   I've been dating a great girl for 1.5 years. The relationship has been somewhat long distance (about 2-3 hours driving one-way). She's only my second girlfriend, and the first girl I've been intimate with. Part of me wants to date other girls...

A.   23 November 2005: Im in the same situation, sort of. My boyfriend (well ex) lives 310 miles away which is like 5hours on the motorway. We both love each other. It is very difficult. I have my life here and he has his there. When he split with me it was for the same ... (read in full...)

I was dumped because I don't have enough sexual or emotional "experience"!

Q.   I have been dumped because my partner was my first person that I got involved with, and slept with. Now he tells me that I have no previous relationships, sexually and emotionally. I was told that I have nothing to rate this relationship on. I'm 22...

A.   23 November 2005: I think u should end it there. It may be hard but he is not worth it at all. Being in a relationship is not a competition. If that is what he thinks then hes pathetic and immature. and even more so if he is 25. There is nothing wrong with being a ... (read in full...)

How do you start a conversation about being ready for sex, when you're a virgin?

Q.   How do you bring up the topic of sex with your partner, when you are still a virgin? I have not been in a sexual relationship before and I do not know how to start, or how to ask? What's the best way, if both are ready? If both are comfortable with ...

A.   23 November 2005: You could also play that game. I dont know if you're old enough to drink, but u can do it with non alcoholic drinks too. One person says something they have never done. If the other person has then they drink some of their drink. Start off with ... (read in full...)

I can't understand why a woman who seems to like me keeps me at arms' length!

Q.   At the start of October, I kept bumping into a girl when I was out at the weekend. After a few weeks, we started emailing each other. Then she came home from uni three weekends ago and we got on well. She asked me out to a gig the following weekend. ...

A.   23 November 2005: I think this girl is worried about getting hurt. I dont know how her last relationship ended but if she got dumped then she is just being wary. She may not have had a previous relationship even though she says she has, but it may be a case of her ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend's ex says she's pregnant, and her family insist they get back together!

Q.   Dear Cupid My boyfriend has now confessed to me that his ex girlfriend may be pregnant for him. Apparently they broke up when she told him that the child she was carrying was not his. That was the story until about a month ago when the story c...

A.   23 November 2005: I think your boyfriend should tell his ex that you are seeing each other and that if the baby is his he will take responsibility. This doesn't mean getting back together with her. Once her parents see that he is taking responsibility then they ... (read in full...)

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