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Should I call him to check if he is really coming?

Q.   hey guys well i was having this situation where me and my housemate who was living with me for the summer made out a few times, we were really good friends with a lot in common and he told me all about his ex who broke his heart. However I thought ...

A.   14 October 2009: You need to get in touch with him and get a confirmation. If we do that in business with appointments, what more for a matter of the heart? I suggest you close this issue and meet some nice young man who knows he wants you in his life and does... (read in full...)

I'm being used by guys for just sex

Q.   it seems as though im being used for sex by guys...im tired of it...this guy tells me were making love and i told him i took it seriously...and all he says is his job is very demanding and he's not ignoring me or wanting to hurt my feelings... ...

A.   13 October 2009: darling! i know how you feel! my advice is: Wait for marriage! I am serious. This is spinning out of control and everytime you sleep with someone your soul is tied to that person. That's why when he walks away it feels like something got ripp... (read in full...)

My girlfriend is a compulsive liar and I don't know what to do, she will only answer my questions with more lies!

Q.   Hey so im going to get straight to the point. ive been with my girl for exactly 6 months in 2 days and im really worried because shes a compulsive liar to everyone, i didnt think it was to me until i found out her ex has been giving her hundreds and ...

A.   13 October 2009: she's by far the best girl you've ever had? Boy i admire your devotion but you have to really know the truth, because our life can't be lived based on a foundation of lies! Like why is it so crushing when somebody breaks a promise? You're not a d... (read in full...)

I'm questioning whether I should marry him because he clearly does not want to have this baby with me

Q.   I am 4 months pregnant and due to marry my fiance in December. I am in my middle 40's and really wanted another child but thought it wouldn't happen at my age but it did. My partner told me that his child rearing days are over and that he never ...

A.   13 October 2009: Hi dear, sorry to hear you are going through this. It must be disappointing to know that the love of your life is not very keen on having this child that you both conceived together. However, I do think you should marry him as this would be best ... (read in full...)

Does he have any intentions of making a life with me or am I just a booty call?

Q.   So let me start off with a little history. I met this guy right out of high school, we had this connection that was so strong its unexplainable and we hadnt even had sex, After about three months he got into some trouble and ended up in jail, I kept ...

A.   13 October 2009: Wow...darling...what a mess! I'm sure you're pretty confused and distraught right now. The signs are pretty obvious and I'm going to have to hand you the truth! (please don't be mad) 1) He's been in jail. For whatever reason I don't know, don't ge... (read in full...)

I feel like he is using my lies as a way out of our relationship

Q.   So i met this guy online. and he and I have talked for over a year now. we got to the point where I loved him and he loved me, and we never hid that. we'd say "i love you" quite often. Im from the states and he from Canada. Im 20 and he's 33. the ...

A.   13 October 2009: Hi there, I hope this finds you well! This is a tough one...you lied and he retaliated. Knowing his age (he is more than a decade older than you, hence more life experience and thus should be more mature and level-headed), he should be more o... (read in full...)

I keep getting dumped by guys for less attractive girls, what's wrong with me?

Q.   I keep getting dumped by guys for less attractive girls, what's wrong with me? Dear all, I don't want to sound presumptous but I'm a very pretty 29 y.o. (I used to model when I was in high school), I've got 3 degrees (law, biology and an MBA...

A.   12 October 2009: Hunny, I have the answer. I used to be just like you, high achiever, serious at the workplace, pulled my own weight, intelligent, articulate, funny, witty, the works. Everything I would want in a man, I pretty much had it. And because I wanted to be ... (read in full...)

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