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What's the point of my existence?

Q.   Hi all, I've been very down in myself lately. I've been wondering wat was the point in putting me on this earth? I live alone and I've no kids. I'm not in a relationship. The world could do without me. I really dont make a difference to anyone's ...

A.   20 August 2014: There is a reason for you to be here on earth. you will find out one day. work can be stressful and can take a toll on us humans very easily. For now, take a breather and relax. if you have vacation time accrued, use it. perhaps you will meet ... (read in full...)

Dating for 9 months. Now she's decided that she's not ready for a relationship? What can I do?

Q.   She told she is not ready for relationship, I've been dating her for nine months. Now and all of the sudden this happens. What do i do ? Do i wait ? We headed off since we first met everything was good we had great conversations we wen...

A.   25 June 2014: i am glad you were able to make a decision already but i would like to chime in a bit. i can share 2 experiences where i have heard of a girl backing out of "what seems to be a good relationship". 1. the girl really enjoyed what the guy has to o... (read in full...)

I am fit and petite but I have no boobs. He's a boob man. Is there any chance that he'll consider me attractive?

Q.   Would you find a woman with a squatting bum, defined stomach/ faint abs and slight thigh gap attractive, even if she was basically flat chested? I only ask because I'm going to a pool party with the guy i'm dating this weekend and I don't want him...

A.   26 May 2014: I consider myself a "boob" guy, but thats not the only thing i look for in a relationship. i have dated a girl with small breast as well and did find her attractive. big boob is probably just a preference for him. if he loves you, he will look pass ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend showers with his friend?

Q.   My boyfriend was telling me about a drunken night the other weekend, and told me he ended up showering with his (guy) friend. Then he told me that he'd also showered with a different (guy) friend on a couple occasions. I was confused, and as...

A.   15 May 2014: i dont think there is anything to worry about as long as you guys are still having a normal sex life. it is normal for men to shower together usually after the gym as well. on a few drunken occasions at a house party, i have guy friends who peed in ... (read in full...)

I don't like sleeping over.

Q.   Hi aunts and uncles. My sister has recommended this site to me because she's been on before. I really hope you can help me :) I am a 28 year old woman and I'm having an issue with the fact I hate staying at my boyfriend's house. I have never liked...

A.   15 April 2014: hmm i actually i had a similar problem staying at my ex place. i felt uncomfortable and the bed just didnt seem right and i had a bunch of excuses. so i kept telling her i had to leave (after sex too) and she ofcourse thought i used her as a booty ... (read in full...)

LDR--it makes me sad talking to him so much but I don't know how to tell him this

Q.   Hi everyone, I am seeking advice from those experienced in long distant relationships. I recently began seeing a guy about a month ago. We had class together and at the end of the quarter, started hanging out. During finals weeks/spring break...

A.   15 April 2014: i suggest being honest and straight forward and tell him how you feel. i am involved in a LDR myself and i can tell you there are times where there really aren't much to talk about, especially when we talked on a daily basis. there will be moments ... (read in full...)

Are cheaters always cheaters?

Q.   My ex constantly cheated when we were dating. I was even the one he cheated on his ex with. I forgave him everytime because I loved him and thought he loved me to death according to the commitment he gave and he would beg his parents and friends to ...

A.   9 April 2014: I agree with honeypie and MSA .. once a cheater does not mean he/she will always be a cheater. People grow up and People change. You will find the right guy one day who will be able to show you that you can trust him 100%. don't let your past ... (read in full...)

A little lost, hurt and vulnerable right now... Help?

Q.   Hi Everyone. First and foremost, thank you for reading this. I’m feeling a little lost, hurt and vulnerable right now, and I could really do with some wise words if you might be so kind. I had a partner (we’re both female) on and off over the...

A.   9 April 2014: As with any breakup it will hurt. i will advise you hang with your friends more often and or spend more time with family. their support will go a long way. try picking up activities or learning something new ... perhaps you may meet someone else ... (read in full...)

Is one month too soon to be feeling like I'm falling in love?

Q.   I've been dating a guy for a month now. Everything is going great. His awesome, I have no complaints. This has been the best month I've had in a very long time. I know its only been a month but I have very strong feelings for him. I think I could be ...

A.   8 April 2014: YouWish does have a good point but i truly believe it is based on the couple. I can honestly say it is normal to fall in love in just a month. if you know what you want in a man and the guy your dating has most if not all the qualities you are ... (read in full...)

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