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Very unpredictable period

Q.   Hello- my questions is not a relationship question.. This question is for the women on here.. I get my period every 4 to 5 months..and when I do get it its really heavy.. And I never know when I'm going to get it again. Does anyone know why this ...

A.   27 December 2011: This is really a question for yor GP. Please get yourself checked out! When it comes to your health there's no point taking risks. ... (read in full...)

Do you think its ok to have a couple's profile on Facebook and for me and my BF to share it together?

Q.   My boyfriend made the suggestion last night that we delete both of our facebook profiles and create a new one that is a couples profile and share it together that way the people that add us or that are real true friends will not have a problem ...

A.   2 June 2011: I agree with Serenity!!! Just because you're together it doesn't mean you've morphed into a single being. If one of my friends did this, I'd be tempted to not add the couple as a matter of priniciple. Lot's if people hate couples that appear to rub ... (read in full...)

Does grammar matter when people communicate today? Or is it a lost cause? What's your pet grammar issue?

Q.   First off I will admit it: sometimes I mis-spell words. And another thing, sometimes when I'm in a hurry I abbreviate some words. And when I was at University I used to have the best set of abbreviations in Contract Law. If I needed to refer to ...

A.   28 May 2011: Ugh... People write 'could of', 'would of', 'should of', etc! It's so infuriating!!! It doesn't even make sense!! 'could've/ could have' and so on. Xx... (read in full...)

I have a very spoiled boyfriend who criticizes how my parents raise me

Q.   I have noticed a pattern in my boyfriend's behavior, and I've found out that he is very spoiled. He has no respect for conserving money, and his parents encourage it. For instance, when we are at my house, my air conditioner is set to au...

A.   10 April 2011: Sorry, but why are you with thi guy? He clearly had no respect for you or your parents. I'm sure that whilst you don't necessarily agree with how he has been raised you aren't rude and inappropriate about it. You deserve a guy that respects and ... (read in full...)

He asked me to marry him but I pushed him away. Now I want to marry him!

Q.   I had the most caring man ever. He lived and breathed me and always put me before himself. He always tried to give me the universe but I messed him over and now that he's gone I realize he was the best man that ever happened to me. He asked me to ...

A.   20 March 2011: Let me guess... You thought you could do better and rejected him? Only to find out that the grass wasn't greener? What has changed since you messed him over to make you change your mind? Don't mess with his head. He deserves someone who love... (read in full...)

Once I found out a girl likes me, I lose interest!

Q.   Ive been sorta keeping my eye out for a possible relationship with someone, and lately with some of the girls I've met I feel like they could be worth getting to know more but once I find out that they like me or they say yes to a date I don't seem ...

A.   20 March 2011: I think perhaps you like the thrill of the chase and once the girl has said yes, it's over and bam the excitement disappears. Either that or you simply aren't truly interested in these girls and hence don't feel attracted to them. Either way I ... (read in full...)

He asked if I can shave down there, should I be offended?

Q.   if my boyfriend and i have agreed to try fingering and whatever else goes with that should i be offended if he asked me if i can shave my vaginal area because he hates hair down there? do most people shave down there??? is it more sanitary?...

A.   6 March 2011: If shaving seems like a lot of hassle, just trim it neatly. Or to avoid the irritating itchiness of regrowth, use a good depilatory cream such as Nair. It works a dream and is much easier to use. Alternatively if you like your pubic hair the way it ... (read in full...)

I love her but my brain wont let me stop thinking about it.

Q.   I was wifes first kiss her one and only love but I broke her heart. She later went and had sex with another man for a minute and told him to stop because she knew it was wrong and it didnt feel right because she still loved me. The man did not ...

A.   30 January 2011: What did you do to break her heart!? Maybe you consider that first. If you hadn't done that she wouldn't have been with this man in the first place. If she is prepared to forgive you then you need to forgive her. Of course if you can't forgive one ... (read in full...)

A bump inside my breast! Is this normal?

Q.   Dear Cupid, Im a 16 yr old normal teen. I've recently started feeling my breast and noticed there was like a bump inside my breast. Whenever i put my finger on that certain area, i can feel the bump. Im super worried because i have no idea what it ...

A.   10 January 2011: Hiya, I would recommend that you go to see a doctor immediately just to be on the safe side. I know it's embarrassing... When I was 13 I had mastitis which is inflammation of the breast tissue, I had a large painful lump in my right breast w... (read in full...)

Low self-esteem and looking to get my confidence back.

Q.   Up until I was 12, I had many friends, was very outgoing, and loved life. Now its the opposite. When I got to the age of 12, I got really bad acne. Since then, my confidance has gone down, I rarley talk to people, because that means they have ...

A.   6 January 2011: Hiya, sorry to hear this but as hard as it is you've got to push past your acne and let it go. Those girls were not really your friends at all if they left you over something like this. I know it's rough (school is for a lot of people) but acne ... (read in full...)

Is this just the dry tampons or have I got an infection?

Q.   hi (: ill get straight to the point. im 16 and ive had my period since i was 12. i jus finished it for this month fully yesterday. i use tampons the whole time, but the last 2 days the tampon was pretty dry when i took them out and the ends were ...

A.   26 November 2010: Hiya, sounds like the absorbency of the tampons was higher that it needed to for your menstrual flow so the end of the tampons were still dry. When your flow lightens use a lower absorbency tampon. Sounds like you may be right about the tissuey ... (read in full...)

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