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Am I making a big deal out of nothing? Or am I right in having doubts about what he said?

Q.   Dear all, When I first started a relationship with my boyfriend, he told me that he had dated before. Like any other couple starting out, we tried to be honest about what happened in the past. Of course, being younger then, we didn't really do...

A.   4 January 2009: It was weird but if he really hasnt had a gf before I can 100% see why he would have such a maverick way of going about those kinds of things. Also, guys do worry about seeming attractive or experienced in relationships so I can also see why he ... (read in full...)

I'm angry...she is being over friendly to this other guy! What do you think?

Q.   Hi. I've just had an argument with my ladyfriend over this guy in the office. Both she and I have worked at the same company for about 3 years . We started dating about a year ago - but kept the matter secret. I used to have an office right next to ...

A.   4 January 2009: Well apparently she showed enough attention to this other guy to get him to ask her out so I would say yes. She is in the wrong. Tell her if she doesnt think that that much "friendliness" is hurtful toward you and misleading to others that your ... (read in full...)

Love to hear about the past!

Q.   Hi There, This is the first time I have done this sort of thing so here goes. I want to know if anybody else feels the same way I do about my wife's sexual past. I have known her since we were in high school. We dated a bit in high school and ...

A.   3 January 2009: Wow, that stuff actually would bother me personally. But if thats what you like then I dont see anything wrong with it.... (read in full...)

Question for guys

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been dating for six months. I would be lying if I said I wasn't in love with him. I get scared cause I think he will leave me all the time. I want to talk to him about my fears, but guys hate girl stuff and emotion and ...

A.   3 January 2009: I actually like clingy gf's and Im a guy and when my gf has problems it makes me feel good that she knows I can be there for her during them. Thats not just how I feel either. Lots of guys feel that way. Talk to him.... (read in full...)

Please help - need advice

Q.   Please help, am feeling lost and in need of some advice. I have found out after my partner of 3 years used my laptop to access the internet that he has subscribed to a dating site. We have been in a what I thought was a good relationship for 3 years ...

A.   29 December 2008: I am in a good realtionship with my gf and I would NEVER cheat on her. That being said I created a myyearbook while we were dating and on it I put that I was single. Do I want to go have sex with another girl?: absolutley not! Am I curious to see if ... (read in full...)

My partner abuses me...

Q.   I'm so confused and don't know what to do. I have been with my partner for 3 years and I love him so much. He is a lot older than me. In the past, women have taken him for a ride and he finds it hard to trust anyone and this has affected his temper ...

A.   29 December 2008: I have to agree with everyone else telling you to leave him. But Id also like to add that even though staying with him is the WRONG thing to do maybe you could tell him you two WILL BE taking a break where you can still stay in contact but not ... (read in full...)

Don't trust and afraid of being hurt

Q.   i have a problem with trusting boys. i used to trust them but i hear things and it just makes me think they're all the same. i have a boyfriend and i love him so much, and he loves me. but i hear guys around my school and they talk about cheating on ...

A.   29 December 2008: Im a guy in high school and I know EXACTLY what youre talking about (but backwards). I care about my gf very much but when I hear about other people being unfaithful in their realtionships, especially the people who had seemed decent and committed, ... (read in full...)

I'm so nervous he won't like my christmas gift !

Q.   So it's christmas eve everyone. For my boyfriend I bouqht him this qold and silver watch [by the way I'm fifteen and so is he]. I think it's cute but I'm nervous and scared because I don't know if he will. I mean, this is my first christmas with a ...

A.   25 December 2008: Yeah...my gf (who is also 15) just got me Cloverfield on DVD after I got her a neclace, bath and bodyworks things, AND a picture frame with a REALLY beautiful pic of us in it. But honestly even tho our gifts were kinda lopsided it was fine cuz Im a ... (read in full...)

I just need some advice to be able to get her to do a little bit more than make out.

Q.   Hey, I am 15 years old about to turn 16 and I am dating a girl that is about 5 months older than me. We have been dating coming up on three months. Typically I guess you could say I'm the kind of guy that does like to do things sexually, but my ...

A.   25 December 2008: I really think that at your age you should respect her decision. I know, Im 16 dating a 15 year old and were the same way. However, if you really think you two are THAT bonded I would suggest telling her you will go down on her in exchange for her ... (read in full...)

I'm in love with 2 men - my hubby and a single womanizer who pursues me mightily.

Q.   I'm in love with 2 men - my hubby and a single womanizer who pursues me mightily. Hubby has a low libido, womanizer is older but has an enormous libido. I've always known the womanizer would find someone else, and looked forward to that day. ...

A.   25 December 2008: I really hope you dont expect any sympathy for losing an affair from your husband. Im glad hes moved on but I stil feel bad for your husband. You say he is warm and loving and that should have been enough. I dont see why you had to have an affair ... (read in full...)

Moody boyfriend.

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months and recently he has been getting really stressy with me even when I don't do anything, is he going off me? ...

A.   9 December 2008: Well Im your age and I get like that with my gf when she doesnt do anything wrong so heres what it could be coming from his perspective. When I do that its either because she did something I didnt like or that someone told me she did something I ... (read in full...)

My girfriend hates her body, but I am ok with it and tell her what I feel about it. What can I do?

Q.   My girlfriend is sorta a heavy set lady. I don't have a problem with this at all, I love her with all my heart. But recently she has been saying how she hates her body and that she always has hated her body and nothing will change that. I have ...

A.   7 December 2008: I dont want to sound like getting physical is the best solution but it may help reinforce your point. The next time she gets like that tell her what you tell her but then start kissing her maybe to the point of making out just enough to show her you ... (read in full...)

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