How do I revive my marriage
Q. I have been married since 1967 to my wife,we have 3 children all married and 7 grand children.I was a drinker and a flirt almost all our life,I quit drinking without any help 12 years ago,I only wish I had done it 39 years ago.My wife and I had good ...
A. 6 December 2010: well, in theory she is the closest person in your life, your heart and soul, so you should just be able to, in theory, walk up to her and ask her to help you work on reviving your sex life... in reality, it might be a little awkward given the 5 year ... (read in full...)
Making More Friends?
Q. Just seeking some general advice. I am a 21 year-old female and I am looking for a good way to make some new friends, preferably girls. All my life I've been a person who was very shy and socially awkward. I moved around constantly, and was thus ...
A. 6 December 2010: well one tip is to not limit yourself to girls your own age, if your peers are not the type you savor (they wouldn't be my type either)... keep your reach open to older women too.... and have you ever thought of "adopting" an older person in the ... (read in full...)
Tired of being single but not having any luck attracting someone
Q. I realise a lot of this will probably sound completely ridiculous, but it's taken a lot for me to post my numerous issues somewhere to get an outside opinion, so please bear with me :') Basically, I'm sixteen, and I've been single for around a yea...
A. 6 December 2010: Work on yourself, keep improving yourself, and you will begin to radiate the self-confidence that will attract someone to you like bee to honey... don't give up looking for someone if that's what you feel you really need, but don't give it all your ... (read in full...)
Approaching a girl with only three class days left in the semester. Possible?
Q. I have 3 class days left in my college semester. There is a girl who sits in front of me in one of my classes. I didn't actually notice how attractive she was until half way through the course, when she changed her hair. Anywhosles, I ...
A. 6 December 2010: Don't be afraid to show interest. I think its so detrimental that so many people have this insecure attitude of being afraid to look desperate... a guy confident enough to approach me directly and tell me he likes me, I would find that attractive, ... (read in full...)
The cheating goes on, should I forgive him?
Q. okay i been dating this boy now for amost a year we had our ups and our downs but we got through them a couple weeks ago i found out that he cheated on me with my brother girlfreind but we got over that i forgave him than just the other day his baby ...
A. 6 December 2010: For cheating even once, no one deserves forgiveness. It is never right to cheat. In your case, it is especially crystal clear that you need to get rid of him. And now. Don't waste another second. He is using you and abusing you in the worst ... (read in full...)
How hard do you find it to say no?
Q. Just a quick question. How hard do you find it to say NO. This is just a general question. I have always been a yes man. And find it very very hard to say No. But just lately i have tried it and now people seem to think i am just being awkward. ...
A. 6 December 2010: well, when you say no try having a valid sounding excuse why, like having other previous obligations... it takes practice to say no, and it will take a while for them to get used to you not being a doormat anymore...eventually you'll be eloquent at ... (read in full...)
It bothers me that my guy keeps adding women to his facebook. Am I just insecure?
Q. Can anybody help me on how to deal with what I think I am having is insecurities? I was married for 14 years to a guy who preferred drink to me and it was a domestic abuse case,the second guy who I got engaged to put me down a lot too so that ended. ...
A. 6 December 2010: It depends the context in which he's adding them, my husband and I are both fairly jealous so every once in a while when he adds a certain female I ask who it is and he obliges with an answer... mainly its women from school/childhood who friend ... (read in full...)
After dating 2 years my boyfriend forgot how to spell my name?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over 2 years. Well the other day he forgot how to spell my name. Its not even a long complicated name. It actually a common name. Does this mean that he's lost interest in me or that I'm not of ...
A. 6 December 2010: Ok this story is completely real: we were over at this guy's house, and out of the blue he asked his friend, "Hey, how do you spell my name?" this guy was a bit drunk at the time, giving him a somewhat valid excuse, and his name had a slightly ... (read in full...)
Should I even bother trying to work this out?
Q. I'm going to try and explain this as best i can. For a while now, roughly a year, i've been in a pretty confusing situation. A male friend and i had a casual "relationship", i hate the term "friends with benefits" but i guess you could say that's...
A. 5 December 2010: well the fact that he cheated on his girlfriend is not a good sign... I have no idea what its like to do the fwb thing, since I never have... but I suppose wrapped up in the mentality of fwb, it's not first priority for him to keep loyal to one ... (read in full...)
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