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My bf refuses to change his fb status, what can I do

Q.   My boyfriend of 5 months won't change his FB status and I am angry!! Right now it doesn't say he is single, he has it blank on that line. I sent him a request to change his status on FB from nothing to "in a relationship" and link it to my page. H...

A.   22 October 2012: Hello all, I was having a similar problem with my bf of 6 months. I sent him the relationship request and he started giving me excuses, such as "I thought we had agreed to keep our private lives separate from FB". I was mad. Not long after, I... (read in full...)

His status on Facebook is listed as single but we have been together for 5 months and he says he loves me.

Q.   I have been dating this guy for 5 months now and it has been pretty tumultuous but I care for him and he says that he loves me. Does he mean it? That, I don't know. The one thing that is bothering me is that he has single as his status on Facebook, ...

A.   20 September 2012: I have broken up with him. It's very hard but I know it's the right thing for me for many reasons. Thank you all for your help! ... (read in full...)

Is it a bad idea to get involved with an alcoholic?

Q.   Is it possible or even advisable to have a relationship with a guy who has a serious drinking problem? I care for him deeply and he says he loves me.... but he is occasionally abusive and I have always stood up for myself but I just feel that I am ...

A.   18 September 2012: Thank you all for your feedback. We have just broken up again because I was sick and he had told me he would be staying the night with me at my place, which he does very rarely. I always have yo go to HIS place. I woke up last night at 3 am only to ... (read in full...)

His status on Facebook is listed as single but we have been together for 5 months and he says he loves me.

Q.   I have been dating this guy for 5 months now and it has been pretty tumultuous but I care for him and he says that he loves me. Does he mean it? That, I don't know. The one thing that is bothering me is that he has single as his status on Facebook, ...

A.   17 September 2012: I haven't asked him because he can be very difficult to talk to sometimes. And I don't believe in pressurizing a guy to do anything, it should come from him. My gut feeling is that something is up, I just don;t have a clue what. Because we met o... (read in full...)

Should I text him or do nothing?

Q.   This guy texted me about two weeks ago, wishing me a belated Happy Birthday. He had previously invited me out to lunch, so in this text he said he would be in touch soon to see when we can both get together for said "lunch". We are both very bu...

A.   17 September 2012: I believe that when a guy is really interested, he will ACT pretty fast. At the very beginning anyway. Sometimes they become lazy in the middle of a relationship. But in your case, pretend to be busy and try to forget about him. He will show up i... (read in full...)

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