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My family says I'm a failure b/c I'm 33 and single. How do I gain self esteem and find a good guy?

Q.   Can anyone help with some words of wisdom please, to help boost my self esteem? I'm 33 and single....and have had my heart broken so many times that now I just feel depressed when I think about the prospect of meeting other men. I seem to attract ...

A.   15 January 2007: hey hey hey! first of all i can't belive people so close to you are saying things liek that! they should be supporting you love! secondly don't blame yourself for picking the rotten apples, because the best ones are right next to you, you're just... (read in full...)

I'm an 18 year old virgin and I freak out and stop whenever I'm about to lose it!

Q.   im nearly 18! and still a virgin and every1 thinks that i am not cause of the way i come over (but i havnt told them i am a virgin 2 be honest) anywayss i have been in the situation many times!! but some how it always doesnt happen! i always stop! ...

A.   13 January 2007: liek the first girl said dont rush it! theres lots of pressure i know but its when you think you're ready wait till you feel safe with a guy drink until you're just typsy (you wana remeber it dontcha?) itll loosen you up and calm your nerves... (read in full...)

We like each other a lot--nothing is happening though! What can I do?

Q.   I'm in love with this boy...I have been for 3 years and I can't take it anymore...I know he likes me too and we are always flirting...but I don't know what to do cause he knows I like him and I know he likes me but nothing serious has ever ...

A.   13 January 2007: well... why not try asking him out to a drink with a few mates? make a move and if he goes for it great! but if not say it was the alcohol and apologise good luck!... (read in full...)

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