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writes: I'm in love with this boy...I have been for 3 years and I can't take it anymore...I know he likes me too and we are always flirting...but I don't know what to do cause he knows I like him and I know he likes me but nothing serious has ever happened..help pleaase?
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reader, ..*TrueHelp*.. +, writes (13 January 2007):
 i have been in this situation many times lol. i think the best thing to do is to tell him how u feel u no he lyks u n u lyk im what it there to lose bbe .
good luck hunni
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reader, {*HyPa~AzN~hUnNiE~*}  +, writes (13 January 2007):
 hmmm dats happened 2 me b4. and i reckon you should stay lyk that....once u get in a relationship everyfing goes wrong. u start having arguements, fink dat the other 1s cheatin n all. relationships dont go well and i think were u r now is the best and u should stick 2 it until u kno eachother inside out...well dis is my personal opinion u myt not lyk it...
hope it helped
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reader, hh123 +, writes (13 January 2007):
Ahh this is dejavu... this happened last year with my current girlfriend now... Both of us liked each other very much but we both werent willing to admit (we wanted the other to go first)
how did we solve it? we were both very jelous because both of us got hit on with a lot attention from the opposite sex... we even go as far to out-do each other. In the end i gave in and admited to her when i felt i could lose her.
Just because ur a girl, there isnt any wrong in asking him.
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reader, heartxbrokenxgurl  +, writes (13 January 2007):
 wut r u doin just sittin around he knos u like him n u kno he likes u y rnt u makin a move go up to him and say i rele like u n so will u go out with me thats all u have to do dont wait for him he wants u to make the move 1st so do it
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (13 January 2007):
 What's stopping you from making a move? You know he likes you, so just say something. Say, "Hey. I really like you, and I get the feeling that you like me too." - that should jump start things enough to get things moving.
Or, just go in for a hug, pull back a little, kiss him on the cheek then kiss him on the lips.
If you can't take it anymore, if you're at the end of your rope... STOP WAITING! Go for it! What have you got to lose? If he says, "sorry, I don't really think about you that way.", then at least you'll have peace of mind. But it doesn't seem like that's what's going to happen. Seems like he's going to be relived that you said something.
Both of you seem a little shy if no one has said anything for three years. Time to stop dancing around it and go for it, girl. I know you can.
Good luck!
xxIndia
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reader, lostlover +, writes (13 January 2007):
 well...
why not try asking him out to a drink with a few mates?
make a move and if he goes for it
great!
but if not
say it was the alcohol and apologise
good luck!
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reader, cd206 +, writes (13 January 2007):
 I think what you're doing is waiting on him to make the first move. Why not make it yourself? I know it's hard and I know it goes against everything we've been led to believe in since we were little girls but the world is changing and it's totally okay to ask a guy out now. If you;re embarassed ask him to come on a group outing to the cinema/bowling whatever and then say maybe next time we could go just the two of us and gauge his reaction. The absolute worst that can happen is that things will stay the way they are now and at least if you give it a go you'll never have regrets. Hope this helps.
CD
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reader, Big boy +, writes (13 January 2007):
 Let things un-fold it self, there’s no rush. Trust me they would. Time would do it, just carry on sending the right signals, not too much not too little.
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