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How can I let go of my first love, it's been 20 years!

Q.   I fell in love for the first time at age 14. I relationship was good but he went away for the summer for and did not tell me. I felt abandoned and cheated on him. I told him this and he was very hurt. I decided to break up the relationship but ...

A.   25 January 2012: My marriage of 8 years just ended two months ago. I'm not even devastated about the end of the marriage. I went to counseling about that and although it did not aid in making my decision she told me to get rid of him. I will seek counseli... (read in full...)

How can I let go of my first love, it's been 20 years!

Q.   I fell in love for the first time at age 14. I relationship was good but he went away for the summer for and did not tell me. I felt abandoned and cheated on him. I told him this and he was very hurt. I decided to break up the relationship but ...

A.   24 January 2012: Yes, he is just a memory. In my letters to him I mentioned we do not really know each other as adults and would like to know him now as a man. What I can take from it is the positive aspects of him. What qualities did I like about him? He was ... (read in full...)

How can I let go of my first love, it's been 20 years!

Q.   I fell in love for the first time at age 14. I relationship was good but he went away for the summer for and did not tell me. I felt abandoned and cheated on him. I told him this and he was very hurt. I decided to break up the relationship but ...

A.   24 January 2012: Thanks, you advice is very helpful. Over the last few days I've realized that I am and was obsessive about him and the break up. I thought of my love for him as being an addiction which I told him. I thought of it as being love sick with my ... (read in full...)

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