How can I get her to match up with me in the sex department?
Q. I've been going out with my girlfriend for two months now, and we really really care for each other. She is my first real girlfriend and means a hell of a lot to me. We've got to second base, although it is pretty much one way, i.e., I give her...
A. 11 June 2010: Next time she starts to touch you encourage her ....tickle her ego a little ...."That feels so good baby" "I love the way you do that" Do you know why she is stopping? Is she worried that you will cum and that'll be the end of it? Does she know ... (read in full...)
One way or the other I'm going to hurt someone, and I'll be hurt too!
Q. please help, i come from a very religious family. we are christians and my family follow the faith to the letter. recently they found out that my best friend is a lesbian through the gossips in our village. they were disgusted. they told me ...
A. 11 June 2010: Hearing this kind of stuff infuriates me! Love is love is love is love!!!!!!! Why can't people understand that? Why do these religions instill such fear. We need to question these beliefs! I had to secretly see my girlfriends behind my parents back ... (read in full...)
He said he needs time away...
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for a little over 2 years. I love him very much.I have been nagging at him lately and its only because of the way I'm treated.he seems to spend a lot of time latey with his best friend and I have been feeling beyond ...
A. 11 June 2010: Sweetheart its time to toughen up! I can sense the desperation coming right off the page. It sounds to me like you are aware of being a bit naggy and probably because he is pushing you away so as hard as it will be for you don't contact him anymore. ... (read in full...)
Help! Married woman in love with another woman.
Q. Dear cupid, I am a married woman in love with another woman. My husband hates it and not seeing her is killing me. I love them both very much but obviously cannot make both of them happy. She was even willing to be just a side thing but he ...
A. 11 June 2010: Tough one!!! I have been with women in the past and am now trying to have a commited relationship with a guy and cut myself off from my women connections because I love him and want to give him all of me. My fear is that I will marry him one day, ... (read in full...)
He never initiates sex with me...could he be gay?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 4 months. We have become such great friends and I confided in him that it had been 5 years since I had slept with a man My past relatioships have been with women bu that is over now. We have been intimate only a few ...
A. 10 June 2010: He must have cought my thoughts wow for the first time he put on the moves last night and told me how much he wanted me Phew We can interpet so much and be so wrong I am so happy right now :) Funny thing is I actually prefer being in control and ... (read in full...)
Past relationships jeopardizing current relationship
Q. "OPs Own Title" I'm 20 years old, and I was became ill a few months ago and was bed-ridden. I meet a boy completely by chance on a chat room site. I never intended on finding a companion, I was bored and wasting time. After speaking to him, we ...
A. 9 June 2010: You have to stop torturing yourself with this! How would it feel to you if he did not like something or the person you were in your past? You chose to be a virgin but he did not chose that for himself but what he is choosing now is to love you! and ... (read in full...)
Can you please explain to me the meaing of mature love and settling down?
Q. hello to all the relationship experts :) i am 24yrs and my boyfriend is 27yrs old. earlier tonight he said it's nice knowing we have mature love and is on the settling down stage of our relationship. Please explain to me the meaning of mature l...
A. 9 June 2010: I think it would be best to find out what his meaning of mature love and settling down means Everyone will have a different interpetation. To share mine with you I think he is saying he feels secure with the relationship and is happy there are no ... (read in full...)
Helpful ideas on how to get wife to give me oral?
Q. My wife refuses to give me a blowjob and will not even really open up healthy dialog about it. Now before anyone replies to this post here is some background. -I DO go down on her (cunnilingus) to completion and she has multiple organisms. It ...
A. 9 June 2010: Is there a possibility that she may feel inadequate as well? If she has not done it in some time she may feel silly The goal is to have her at least try it right? so could you make it a lighter topic where she doesnt feel pressure but playfully joke ... (read in full...)
Got myself into a dilemma but did I do the right thing?
Q. Hi, I am 26 and my boyfriend is 31. He is a Muslim and I am converting to Islam. We have been together for just over a year and have been having pre-marital sex. I have been a bit upset and ashamed of this for some time as I know it is wrong. I f...
A. 9 June 2010: this is a difficult question for many of us to answer as we may not have the same spiritual beliefs as you. I would like to ask you if something feels good and it is done out of love and respect why is it so wrong? Joining together sharing your ... (read in full...)
Is it bad to leave my girlfriend for another woman?
Q. Is it that bad to leave my girlfriend for another woman? I've been with my current girlfriend for about 1 year, cohabitating for about 5 months. I had already been unsure as to whether I wanted to commit to her. A couple of months ago I cam...
A. 9 June 2010: I cast my vote on telling your current girlfriend the truth...your truth!If it was reversed wouldn't you want her to give you the benefit of the doubt? If you dont tell her than she may think it was something she did or didnt do or worse what can i ... (read in full...)
Insecure about my sexual performance.
Q. I admit I have an insecurity problem about my sexual performance. I never had one before, but recently, I started dating a woman my age who has had few partners (she was a virgin until 30), but the one's she's had (4) were almost all FWB...mainly ...
A. 9 June 2010: I think my bf is experiencing this rock hard and ready anxiety as well and I wish I could tell him what I am going to tell you Penetration and a ginormous erection is much less valuable to many women than men like to think! There is so much more to ... (read in full...)
Follow my heart or just move on?
Q. There was two women I met off of craigslist a couple years ago, we texted occasionally, maybe once every six months or so, never met up, etc. (I should say as well, that the two women I met off of craigslist also met each other.) So, I was preparing ...
A. 9 June 2010: Yikes!! Firstly I admire that it does not bother you that she was with a woman but wonder why you weren't more cautious when she is presently with that woman? I have been involved with women before and it can be an intense emotional rollercoaster ... (read in full...)
How can I stop masturbating?
Q. So, I really want to get married some day. I know deep down that if I'm going to have a successful relationship with my wife, I have to be the best I can be. That is, I know I have to end my addictions, such as porn and masturbation. Parasites like ...
A. 9 June 2010: its such a relative question what you think may be an addiction vs a healthy release Before my relationship I watched porn and masturbated all the time Partially out of boredom, sometimes out of lonliness but mostly cause no one else was around and ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend seperated for 5yrs and still no divorce and now we have a child. what should I do?
Q. My boyfriend and I been dating for almost a yr now and we have a 3month old lil boy together. we use to date before and he has been seperated for 5 yrs now and supposably getting a dissolution so we can start our lives together and still nothing has ...
A. 9 June 2010: He is with YOU now he has a baby with YOU right now They have been seperated for 5 years. Trust in the process it will require your patience! Nothing is stopping you from enjoying your life together NOW other than a piece of paper! Be who you would ... (read in full...)
He never initiates sex with me...could he be gay?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 4 months. We have become such great friends and I confided in him that it had been 5 years since I had slept with a man My past relatioships have been with women bu that is over now. We have been intimate only a few ...
A. 9 June 2010: Thank you :) I can't stand a guy always glomming on (if thats a word ;) but isnt 4 months a long time sleeping next to each other and not initiating anything I think Im gonna assume that Im being bias and that he is just shy and hop on lol Thanks ... (read in full...)
2 years out of college, where can I find a girlfriend?
Q. Right now, all the girls I liked i n the past didn't like me back or it couldn't work out. What do I do since now I'm out of college for two years? I can go to bars, but I'm vary of that. I've met some cute chicks before, but I've shied away from ...
A. 9 June 2010: Your confusion is acting out in your reality. Get clear on what you REALLY want first! Repeat over and over in your mind everything YOU like about you and then others will see it all around you!You are beautiful!... (read in full...)
Do I dig and dig and get to the bottom of it all, or leave it for an easy life?
Q. Should I tell my fiance what I know, or leave it? OK this is a bit convuluted so bear with me. I met my fiance James through a friend from work called Lisa. I knew Lisa for a few years before meeting her friend James and, as you do at work, she ...
A. 9 June 2010: MMmm yup this is a bit of a twist ...So what I am understanding is your biggest concern is whether Dan is really a good mate for James? Can you allow James to figure this out for himself? You have told him what happened between you and Dan and he ... (read in full...)
Do you think you attract the same type of person over and over again? And how to stop it!
Q. Do you ever notice that you attract a certain type of person? I wonder about that, if anyone else seems to find themselves attractive to the same type of person over and over again. I won't describe the type I've been attracting just because I d...
A. 9 June 2010: Watch your thoughts about this! Write down what you believe you are attracting that you don't want and then burn that piece of paper ! Write down what you do want to attract in your life and focus on that! What you focus on and believe will come in! ... (read in full...)
My wife left me and I want her back
Q. I want my wife back even though she has had an affair for 5 months. We have a 4 year old daughter, and she says she is in love with the other guy. She told me she loves me, but she is not in love with me. She told me she misses the family aspect ...
A. 9 June 2010: I am sorry my friend but this sounds like this time in your life will now have to be about you! Not about getting her back or wishing you did not do this or should have done that. This will be a time where your strength will be tested. Sounds like ... (read in full...)
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