Should I ignore the photos found on his laptop?
Q. Hi there I was looking for a movie on my husband's laptop and instead found a folder of celebrity nudes he downloaded at the same time. I'm a bit shaken. I don't mind if he watches porn, but most of these photos are ones which would have been ...
A. 9 June 2018: I think I'd be concerned if he is failing to give you attention while looking at nude pictures or porn or if the porn takes an ugly turn into abusive or highly illegal porn. I don't think it is unusual for many men just to use it for personal use. I ... (read in full...)
Do I tell my wife about my bisexuality?
Q. Hi everyone, I'm a male in my mid-30's and married, but I want to be able to admit to myself that I may be bi-sexual. I'm attracted to men like I am to women, but I love watching gay anal and shemale porn as well as straight porn. I have also had ...
A. 9 June 2018: Yes she needs to know and you need to do this with a therapist otherwise you are going to cause harm. I feel like there is a disconnect on your part. You want to pursue a relationship with another partner who happens to be a male. Even if you told ... (read in full...)
How do I end this pathetic relationship without him turning it all around on me?
Q. Hi I’ve been in a relationship for 6 years we have a 3 year old daughter together the relationship is pathetic between us there’s no affection he sleeps on the sofa does everything to avoid spending time with us it’s always me doing everything for ...
A. 9 June 2018: You can suggest couples counseling, go to therapy yourself to figure out how to prepare for a separation or stay the way it is. If you are not married, the honest truth is that you probably could easily walk away but depending where you live you ... (read in full...)
Wife Left Me For Her Married Boss. How do I get over her?
Q. My WS wife took a job as a restaurant manager in March of 2016. It was a new establishment and very high end. Business is very good to this day. I had a regular 9-5, and she had been looking for something more fulfilling and better pay for quite so...
A. 9 June 2018: I would highly recommend you get a good therapist. Even with a "normal' divorce it is very common to be still in love when the divorce has to occur. It happened to me. I tried my hardest but my ex is an alcoholic who did not believe in therapy or ... (read in full...)
Why does he walk ahead of me as if I don't exist?
Q. Hi - wonder if anyone can help with this one! My husband who is nearly 40 (married for 10 years) often (not always but more often than not) walks ahead of me. It doesn't matter if we are simply going from the car to the supermarket, walking along ...
A. 9 June 2018: I looked up this question tonight because I have been observing this odd thing lately. Men walking ahead of their girlfriends or wives leaving them at least 5 behind them. We don't usually do that when we are walking with friends why would a man do ... (read in full...)
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