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Our universe is unbelievably vast, our tiny world mind-bogglingly complex. We each of us need a helping hand from time to time. I guess here's a good place to give and receive as any.

"And there's a hand my trusty fere (friend),

And giés a hand o thine,

And we'll tak'a recht gude willie waught (an ale),

For auld lang syne (old long since [days]) "

- Robert Burns 1759 – 1796

Ten Signs that Your Spouse may be Cheating

Q.   So you think your spouse might be cheating on you? The very fact that you are suspicious is a good indication that something sinister may be going on. That's because we all have intuition. Whether you call it a "sixth sense," "warning bells," or ...

A.   5 January 2009: Hi Maggie, are you really "13-15" ?? that seems too young for such knowledge of this subject. Regardless, you're not too far off the mark with most of these points. I'll admit here, that I was a "cheating husband", though fortunately for all, we ... (read in full...)

I'm scared I'll do something stupid like make a pass at him!

Q.   Hello I am a married woman, I have a wonderful husband who loves me to bits. Unfortunately he has a low sexual libido ( he is 47) and the spark seems to have gone from our relationship. I have tried numerous ways to arouse his interest but very...

A.   5 January 2009: Hi Tiggipaws, actually your problem is not all that complex. Don't worry so much. You're attracted to someone other than your husband. Surprise Surprise, especially as hubby isn't fulfulling every marital aspect just now. You say you're worried ... (read in full...)

I cheated, wife found out and now wants to call everything off

Q.   I have been married eleven years and have cheated on my wife 6 months ago and she found out. She has been depressed since the birth of my son (9 years ago) and for the last three years basically stop having sex with me and telling me she hated me. ...

A.   5 January 2009: I'm a little concerned that almost everyone seems to be more worried about your wife's condition than your problem. Strange, because you're the one yelling out for help here before you melt down as you say. Number one, you did nothing wrong. D... (read in full...)

Throwing in the towel

Q.   hello all! so ive decided to throw in the towel with this guy finally.I have had it with the mixed feelings thing.So my question is do you think it would be to stupid or childish if i wrote him a letter explaining why im doing what im doing ? when i ...

A.   5 January 2009: actually your letter idea sounds ideal in this situation. From what you've said it seems you've not been able to convey what you're feeling, face to face, so writing it all down is definitely the way to go for you. There is also another spin-off, ... (read in full...)

How can I save my marriage and my reputation from this infidelity?

Q.   I recently cheated on my husband. What is worse is that my brother-in-law saw me outside in a parked car with the other guy. How can I save my marriage and my reputation from this infidelity?...

A.   4 January 2009: honey, firstly don't beat yourself up over a bi of straying. This is a complex world and stuff happens. That's all. Damage control - odds are the brother in law will blab, eventually. He will naively feel he's doing the right thing (though ... (read in full...)

I'm in love with my step-daughter!!! What do I do?

Q.   ive fallen in love with my stepdaughter and dont know what to do...

A.   4 January 2009: On the one hand I'm very relieved that I'm not the only one in this awful awful predicament. But on the other hand I'm saddened that so many us (and I'm sure there will be thousands of others) who are suffering. And let's not mistake this. It's real ... (read in full...)

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