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Should I ask my friend for permission to sleep with her husband?

Q.   Apologies for the length of this but I think it's important to have the details.. the devil is always in the details... Me: I'm single and approaching 50. It's been a few years since my last serious relationship but I'm fine with that. Having see...

A.   21 January 2013: Thanks very much to everyone that replied. *sigh* I knew what the responses would be. They are a reflection of what's going on in my head anyway. I just wanted to hear them from someone else to confirm what I already knew. If I really wanted to do ... (read in full...)

Am I too jealous of what my boyfriend watches?

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend for 10 months. We are really close. He would never ever cheat on me. Yet I still have jealousy issues. I feel like my jealousy is severe. Like some other women, I don't like when my boyfriend watches TV because I know he ...

A.   21 January 2013: I agree that it's an overreaction. Sometimes you have to "suck it up" and learn to deal with things like this. Life doesn't fall into your lap in a perfect orb for you to deal with as you will. It gives you challenges to overcome. Take some deep ... (read in full...)

Did he say this to make me jealous?

Q.   I need some opinions....help please! What are some of the things men do to make a woman jealous? I have recently stop seeing a man because he told me that he was highly "sought" after. He told me he was in high demand. I would like to know if he ...

A.   21 January 2013: He's probably trying to boost his own ego by making himself out to be more important or desirable than he really is. Depending on who said it and the context, if a friend of mine said that to me I'd reply either "Half your luck!" or "Well, I won't ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend's children are not invited to my family's events. How can I handle this?

Q.   I have a small predicament that I could do with some help with. Myself and my fella have been together over 18 months. He has 2 kids and we all love each other to bits. My parents took a long time to accept it but they have now. The only prob...

A.   21 January 2013: I think time is the only thing that will change your mother's mind about this. In the mean time, don't worry about her. Go to your niece's party which can't last more than a couple of hours, and then go back to your fella and his daughter for the ... (read in full...)

Did I sent the wrong text message in regards to a job?

Q.   i walked into a salon yesterday for a job and got a position for a receptionist. i knew her from before and I was really excited for it as i was looking for it for a while. the manager there told me first i can come in from tomorrow but then said ...

A.   21 January 2013: It sounds fine to me too. It speaks of enthusiasm without any overzealousness. Good luck! :-)... (read in full...)

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