The guy who used to bully me has changed and now he's asked me out, should I go for it?
Q. I'm a 15 year old bi guy. There's this guy I have a crush on and he has a crush on me too. I'm just not sure whether to go for it or not. He's slightly older, really smart and a Rugby player as well as really good looking. When he was at school wi...
A. 7 October 2012: Yes Yes Yes Yes Yes. But do prepare yourself mentally and physically if he DOES break you. Otherwise, I think its great even if you guys are 3 years apart.
The reason I disagree with the other people below me is due to the way they look at thing... (read in full...)
Possiblities? Is he worth pursuing? Is it possible that he may like me as well as I like him?
Q. The preliminary details: I am an open gay man and I have no problem with my social life, but my curiosity in meeting interesting people all around the world led me to a social networking site that connects strangers from every part of the world. ...
A. 7 October 2012: This is a hard situation. You ultimately have to decide on two things: -Long distance relationship, visit on a basis of a few months, and try to take it from there. -Find someone else, but keep him close as a friend. However, you must tel... (read in full...)
All aspects of my life are falling or getting crushed!
Q. Okay, so I am in my early twenties and my life is real one big mess. My career, my relationships, my friendships. I wanna get my shit together. RELATIONSHIPS: i havent had a proper relationship with someone i really like/or love. I dont wanna se...
A. 7 October 2012: Hm, sounds very similar to me before I lost the weight and started gaining confidence. This situation is easy to solve, and in order to do so you have to break the loop. You are shy, don't make friends you become -depressed. When you become depr... (read in full...)
I know the break up of my Bf's parents is not about me. But how is this going to affect the relationship with my Bf? He is moving away too and I don't want to lose him.
Q. so my boyfriend's parents are getting and divorce. From the bottom of my heart i feel so bad for him like i wish there was something i could do. he found out that his dad was cheating on his mom by overhearing a conversation on the phone. he ha...
A. 7 October 2012: Firstly this is one bad situation to deal with. It is and will affect him emotionally, and physically too. But knowing this will be extremely hard on you as there is no other choice but go on a long term relationship. There are three possible s... (read in full...)
How can I stop being in love with a straight guy?
Q. I’m a young gay guy and I feel like a crap right now. I’m in love with my straight classmate. It’s so hard for me that I’m literary breaking down. Of course, he doesn’t love me back. He has a girlfriend, and seems that he’s happy with her. I know I ...
A. 7 October 2012: -He accepts you for who you are -You guys are still friends -He did not react violently as on other people That being said, I think the best solution is to move on. Try to get your mind off him. I know when I had my first gay crush on a straight... (read in full...)
I think my gay classmate like me but I'm straight.
Q. Due to an upcoming project, our professor decided to pair everyone in the class room up. I was paired up with a gay classmate that I've seen from time to time. I'm very open-minded so this wasn't really a problem to me. In fact our professor ...
A. 7 October 2012: Well, simple. Continue with the friendship. Misjudgement or misconception can lead to nasty consequences. When he feels better, or more comfortable around you he will come out, and most likely he will confess his crush on you. If you are straight ... (read in full...)
I'm a 27 year old lesbian and I'm a virgin. But what if I don't find that "special someone" I've been waiting for? Should I have sex with my guy friend ?
Q. I consider myself to be a lesbian, but I feel like I'm at a crossroads. I am still a virgin, and I was planning on saving my virginity until I am in a relationship with someone who I feel I am ready to give my virginity too. The thing is, I'm ...
A. 7 October 2012: NONONON. Do not lose your virginity just because you feel like you have to. Life does not work that way. If you want to save it for someone, wait for her. Find the perfect partner before proceeding. It is never too late and you have to understand ... (read in full...)
What should I do? I want to talk to her on Facebook, but I'm afraid it's too late and I've lost my chance
Q. Ok, so, this summer I met this amazing girl, who, as it turned out, was a lesbian. She developed a crush on me - everyone knew about it even though nothing was ever said. She would stop and stare at me as I walked past, get incredibly nervous ...
A. 7 October 2012: Well I recommend you contact her RIGHT AWAY. Sure it may be on the verge of no return, but to leave it like this will scar her...or the both of you. Confess without suppression. Tell her how you feel, and most importantly decide on who you are. If ... (read in full...)
My Gay crush .Want to move on and forget. How can I understand why I'm so affected?
Q. This has been a problem for too long now and I really need help with this issue concerning an ex friend. I’ve never really had many friends in my life but I’ve never let it bother me when I moved on from the few friends that I did have. But this...
A. 7 October 2012: There is a very good chance that he too is gay. Most advice given to gay crushes on straight guys lead to resolutions such as ignoring and isolation.
There is still a chance that he wants to make up with you, being friends and all, but what you... (read in full...)
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