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I wish my fiance would lose 30 lbs and get his hair back so I'd find him more attractive!

Q.   I have a bit of a complicated problem. I'm a 24 year old psychologist in-training (who apparently can't heed my own advice). My fiance is a 26 year-old unemployed high school teacher. I've been with my fiance for 4 years and 3 months (like 4 years, ...

A.   16 January 2011: You really sound unhappy. The grass isn't greener the other side. You will have days where you don't want to be single & then wonder if you will ever meet someone. But will you regret staying when your unhappy. You don't get second chances in life. ... (read in full...)

Is it possible for a woman to cry on demand?

Q.   Hi, Last year I was in a relationship with a woman who in retrospect I feel was manipulating me. She had asked me for a lot of money and I gave it to her over the course of the year, without getting anything back. (We were not even dating.) But I fo...

A.   12 January 2011: She took you for granted thats for sure. Dont think that all woman are like her because were not. But i think it is easy for someone to cry to get what they want. Learn for this experience and becareful who you trust and give money to. ... (read in full...)

Been out of the dating game for a while -- how do I approach her?

Q.   Im in a bit of a pickle i seek wisdom help! So here is my situation i was in a relationship for 4 years and then it abruptly ended (she broke up with me) now we always had a good connection no one ever cheated but she would hint at her suspicions ...

A.   12 January 2011: I'm not surprised you feel like your ex has lost her chance. Obviously you both still care for one another and it doesn't seem that the relationship ended that badly. But if that relationship is finished and now, no going back, it's time to move ... (read in full...)

What does it mean if the doubts have stayed this long?

Q.   I have been in a relationship for 3 years and its defiantly not a bad one – I love my bf dearly. However I have been having doubts for over a year and there are problems in the relationship. I have shared my thoughts with him and made effort to try ...

A.   11 January 2011: Im in sort of the same situation. I have the doubts to that have been going on for a year. Then when you talk it over and its about to be final you get that pang of guilt when you see his face and sweep it under the carpet and try and forget. Then... (read in full...)

Is my wife hiding a 'dirty' side of herself from me?

Q.   Hi. I'm 44, my wife is 38. We've been married for 8 years. When we were first dating, she would ask me to masturbate and to climax on her buttocks. This went on for awhile, and then went away. Now, after having two children and going through a long ...

A.   11 January 2011: Its probably just her thing. My friend is the same and when she starts talking about what she likes to do we just roll our eyes as in oh not again. Shes only done this with two of the people she has slept with (one being her current boyfriend) Y... (read in full...)

My wife thinks I messed up, but I don't think it's a big deal.

Q.   I need some advice. My wife thinks I messed up, and I think that what I did was no big deal. I was out with a bunch of work people after work. I occasionally take my team out for after work drinks/appetizers when we make a project goal. Th...

A.   11 January 2011: Okay if someone told me this i would laugh so much. Its a work party and this sort of thing gets disscussed and then forgotten about. I have heard much worse. wow and you even told her. Obviously she is upset about this so you did cross the line... (read in full...)

I need to know if he wants a child with me?

Q.   I have been with my guy for going on 2 years. He has a 7 year old son. When we first met I told him I wasn't sure if I ever wanted to be married or have children. But within 3 months I knew that I wanted to be a mom one day. Knowing that he does ...

A.   11 January 2011: My dad never wanted to re marry or have more children. In the end he married his girlfriend but said no way to hildren. I think he felt to old plus me & my brothers are older and have moved out. Anyway they have a 2 year old little girl now. This ... (read in full...)

She is driving me insane! And NOT in a good way! :S

Q.   Alright, Where to begin... I've just been dating this girl for about 2 1/2 months now, but after the first month everything changed... You see I'm currently unemployed and unable to drive due to the drought of money so i cant afford my car ...

A.   11 January 2011: Maybe i should stop dating 18 year old woman ugh... Well that comment really shows how you feel. You have only been dating 2 and a half months, honestly this is meant to be the best time in any relationship. No she doesnt seem 100% in this rel... (read in full...)

New to dating, what should I do about my cheating boyfriend?

Q.   I woke up the other morning to my boyfriend of 7 months alarm on his phone which is normal. I reached over to turn it off. I don't know how commom it is but sometimes when things are kindda fishy I get really bothered. And it just so happened that I ...

A.   11 January 2011: My friend had a similar situation. She went mental and wanted to split up with him. Then we had a chat. He didnt actually cheat on her. Like ur boyfriend hasnt cheated but has betrayed your trust. Would he have gone through with it or suddenly ... (read in full...)

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