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Could my baby be affected seeing as I conceived while taking the pill?

Q.   I have been taking the contraceptive pill celeste 4 about 1 year. I've just found out I am pregnant, is there any chance that my baby could be affected because I was still taking before I found out?...

A.   10 March 2008: My mum was taking the pill when you found out she was going to have me, and i am perfectly fine and dandy. I was her loveable accident =)... (read in full...)

Is it stupid of me to keep my virginity so long??

Q.   Hi all, I am writing to this website again because my mind is in a mess right now and need someone to offer me some enlightenment. Today, my ex-girlfriend messages me online and told me she gave her virginity away to another guy. I don't know why...

A.   10 March 2008: You can be concerned when your 103 years old and still a virgin, but try not to be concerned whilst your only in your 20's. There are a lot more people in their 20's and 30's that are virgins than you possibly think. But cos the world has gone sex ... (read in full...)

Is our age difference too big?

Q.   I need some advice and my story might be a little long so please bear with me. I have fallen for a guy who is a regular customer at the store where I work. The problem is there is quite a big age difference between us. Iam almost 21 and he is 38. He ...

A.   11 February 2008: my mum has been happily married to a guy 20year younger than her for 13 years ... sometimes it works and of course sometimes it doesn't. I suggest you trust your heart and not a number. ... (read in full...)

I don't want the abortion...But they're all pressuring me!

Q.   I'm 17 and 8-9 weeks pregnant. I have my first midwife appointment on the 25th February. My boyfriend and parents are basically forcing me into an abortion that I don't want because I KNOW that after it I will be a wreck. Sure abortion is for ...

A.   27 January 2008: first things first, reagrdless of pressure ... they cannot force you to have an abortion. Even if they dragged you kicking and screaming cos the nurses/doctors wouldn't do it. It sounds to me like you want to accept this fab blessing you have been ... (read in full...)

How can I find someone who wants more than a drunken fumble??

Q.   I'm getting a bit fed up of meeting girls and nothing actually becoming of it, how do i know when a girl is actually interested and wants a bit more than a drunken fumble? How can i meet some one that i can have some good times with, i just see...

A.   17 January 2008: perhaps don't pick up drunk girls .... a good quote i heard recently was that "you won't choose a house or car drunk, so how to you exspect to choose a suitable partner drunk?? I thought it was cool anyways as it had never occured to me. hope it ... (read in full...)

Too young to have a boyfriend at 18? Is she just playing hard to get or is she being serious?

Q.   i like this young girl .she's 18 i am 24.i met her at a music concert when she walked up to me after i greeted her and i ended up buying her a drink.so i thought the lady likes me.afterwards if she sees me in town she would greet me smiling and ...

A.   16 January 2008: sounds a little like she is using you mate. However, she could just not feel old enough to have a boyfriend because regardless of actually age, if she is not ready then she ain't ready. Another veiw is that she doesn't want a boyfriend as she ... (read in full...)

Remaining a virgin is seriously important to me, but how can I find a partner who shares this feeling?

Q.   Dear Cupid: I started going to college late, but now I am attending UCLA, a famous university. I want to remain a virgin until I find my one and true love, but she must also be a virgin. No one that I know is a virgin, and if I tell someone,...

A.   11 January 2008: love comes in all forms. You cannot really choose who you fall inlove with and just because that person may have had sexual experiences, doesn't mean they are any less deserving of your love. You can hope for a fellow virgin but realisticly, you may ... (read in full...)

I'm disabled and having trouble in the bedroom. Any suggestions?

Q.   I have a pretty serious problem.I had a near fatal car crash,which left my right arm paralized,ankle bones shattered and removed and a knee that doesn't bend much.I can still walk though.I haven't had sex since my accident which was in 1992 because ...

A.   11 January 2008: Like you said, you both entered this with your eyes open, you may have some limitations that stop you doing your "best" stuff, but just because you can't do those things, it doesn't mean you can't find other "bests" things. Just try and explore sex ... (read in full...)

He drove 5000 miles to see me (that's a long way!) Should I have let him m ove in with me?

Q.   hello, i have been chatting on line with this really great guy for about a month now. its like we think the same and get along great. i have chatted with him on the phone a few times. well he drove over 5000 miles to meet me. he has family , not ...

A.   6 January 2008: in my opinion you did the right thing, because you can be too trusting and then get used.... (read in full...)

Will he react the same as before?

Q.   I'm pregnant. He is not my boyfriend, we used to date, he is 29 yrs older than me. He got me pregnant before and he convinced me to have an abortion, he said we could have probably babies in the future but not at that time. I haven't told him yet ...

A.   6 January 2008: sounds to me like he never wants children. Whatever he wants or says, do what is best for you.... (read in full...)

I'm a virgin with spots. Will this put the boys off me?

Q.   I am a 15 yr old girl and i have been single for around a year now. i feel its the right time to get a boyfreind but there are non anywere and i feel none will like me because i am a virgin and i have spots which i feel put them off me. i dont have ...

A.   6 January 2008: Please don't feel rushed into having to get a boyfriend. Enjoy having spots and being a virgin because trust me, neighter of these will last forever. ... (read in full...)

Since the homosexual experiment (to follow my old fantasies) my self esteem decreased. I'm confused!

Q.   Hi im 22 year old male who considers myself straight. I enjoy being with a girl and always have. But since I had entered puberty when I was about 12, I have had homesexual fantasies. In the fantasy i am usually the receiver, typically with an older ...

A.   5 January 2008: Experimentation and exploring fantasies are perfectly normal. You didn't do anything wrong although i can't whole heartedly agree with hooking up with someone from the net after one meeting. If i was you, i would just try to put it down to ... (read in full...)

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