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My BF is two-timing me and no, don't tell me to dump him!

Q.   i have this bf that i love with all my heart and he says he feels the same but he has another girlfriend. he claims he wants to leave her but shown little signs of doing it. i have the girls home number and email address and i very tempted to ...

A.   6 December 2006: Don't do it!!!!!!!!!!!!!... (read in full...)

My babys father abuses me by text and now seems like in nearly 3 years together I was always a secret!!!

Q.   until recently i was in a relationship with my babys father and he dumped me by txt and then started to abuse me by txt calling me horrible names and a liar.we was together for 2 years 9 months and through out this time never did i meet his best ...

A.   30 September 2006: This sounds scary and he sounds like an immature jerk...Why stay with a man who cannot communicate with you unless it's negative? Are you sure he's not bipolar? What's with the 4 days only...I don't get it! Time to pack your things and move on!... (read in full...)

Are you back with your ex or have you remarried your ex? Looking for real life case studies for a magazine.

Q.   Are you back with your ex or have you remarried your ex? Have you been in a realtionship, broken up for a significant amount of time and then got back/remarried your ex? Or do you know of anyone who has? Hi I'm a writer for a national weekl...

A.   30 September 2006: I am back with my ex/husband. We broke up- sold the house -moved next to each other 2 times in a row to seperate apartments..dated other people. Had sex in the middle of those relationships and are now back together again. Does this craziness ... (read in full...)

Im confused, does he like, me or was the touching up just because of the moment ?

Q.   last night me and 3 of my friends went to my house to watch the grudge, and well obiously it is a scary movie so me and my really good guy friend were like hugging, and cuddling really closely. i would move one of my legs like over his legs, and he ...

A.   30 September 2006: I think it's official--HE LIKES YOU!... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has a relationship with his ex's child.

Q.   How do I handle this problem? I have been dating a man for almost 3 years. We just moved in together 8 months ago. The problem is that he has developed a reltionship with his ex's 8 year old daughter in the last 5 years and now considers her, ...

A.   20 July 2006: Thanks everyone for your help, but I don't see it! I can't imagine anyone of you would be crazy about lingering ex's in your relationships.... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has a relationship with his ex's child.

Q.   How do I handle this problem? I have been dating a man for almost 3 years. We just moved in together 8 months ago. The problem is that he has developed a reltionship with his ex's 8 year old daughter in the last 5 years and now considers her, ...

A.   20 July 2006: Ok, I get what some of you are saying but, before we moved in together, He assured me that this was not permanent. You have to realize that there are 2 other men in this game who are also doing the same thing. What ever flavor of the month that ... (read in full...)

I can't get over my ex and it's hurting my finacee

Q.   Hi, I was going around with a women in my office and she broke up. Thnigs were going very smoothly in the beginning but in no more than 1.5 months, when i was completely involved, she broke up with me for al the wrong reasons Like, not spendi...

A.   20 July 2006: This sounds like you're the guy to the other problem in here...maybe you need to read the questions in here...Is it possible you're answer from that other woman is here?... (read in full...)

Its hard to leave my 19 year old lover behind

Q.   I am in love with a 19 yr old girl and she is in love with me (42). We both know that nothing can come from this relationship as she wants children, I cant have any (vasectomy), I am also married. We tried separating but were both unhappy and soon ...

A.   20 July 2006: You said she is 19 and you've been dating for 2 years---uuuuhhh, so you're a child molester? ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend kept putting my hand on his erection and now I get ill just thinking about him!

Q.   I've been going out with my bf for over 14 months and last time we were making out he got an erection and kept putting my hand on it. I'm uncomfortable with this but every time I took it off he would put it back. So I just stopped it all together...

A.   20 July 2006: Is it possible that you prefere woman? Not being funny or anything although you are too younf to be experimenting, I don't understand the level of sickness! Could it be the thought of a penis in general? Think about it?... (read in full...)

Can a partner really be confused about their feelings?

Q.   SORRY THIS IN LONG. BUT I REALLY NEED HELP AND NEED TO MAKE ANY HELPERS UNDERSTAND IT ALL IN ORDER TO UNDERSTAND THEN ADVICE Can a partner really be undecided about their feelings? Can "I am confused" be true or does it always mean they have f...

A.   20 July 2006: I feel for you. I can't imagine the frustration that you suffer. There is no written rule that says you must continue to lay as a door mat for someone that you love to continue to step on!!! You sound like you are doing all of the right things ... (read in full...)

Why did he manage to get over me so easily, when it appears I meant a great deal to him ?

Q.   Well, I broke up with my "boyfriend" over a month ago. And I'm still not over it. We'd been good friends for years and years, and he had liked me for this time as well. Eventually I got feelings for him, which he was really suprised but thr...

A.   20 July 2006: This is a classic case of he's too young! Believe it or not, noone, not even boys get over deep feelings so quickly. It sounds like you are young and he is young and often times young men start running when feelings for a woman get too deep. ... (read in full...)

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