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I am 35 years old and i live in Sydney. i have been a nurse for 16 years and am currently not sure if im in a relationship or not lol.

My friend is obsessed with MSN messenger! It's like she's forgotten about her real world friendships..what can I do?

Q.   One of my best friends (and who I thought of as a potential g/f) has become obsessed with talkin on msn! She's on it pretty much every night and usually talks to about 10 different people at the same time which hardly constitutes as a proper ...

A.   28 September 2006: sounds to me like she might have a online love!... (read in full...)

I've had mensrual cramps in my thighs, is this normal?

Q.   Hi everyone, I have sort of a strange question I guess. Ever since I've had my period (I'm 21 years old, so I've had it for about 8 years) I've had the mensrual cramps in my thighs instead of my abdomen. Is that normal? Does anyone else have...

A.   28 September 2006: This is normal. The ligaments in the uterus are actually connected to the ligaments in our legs, i guess they are all connected in some way. It happens alot in pregnant women as well, where they can actually have trouble walking due to the ligaments ... (read in full...)

I have a vaginal odour despite cleansing, anything I can take to reduce this ?

Q.   i have recently found that i have vaginal odour problems and when i have sex it comes up more. I wash all the time but how can i get rid of the problem ? Are there any tablets i can take for this ?...

A.   28 September 2006: Women can get all types of infections like this, and it doesnt mean it is sexually related. It can just be an imbalance or caused by many bacterias, Go to ur doctor and they can do a swab and find out if it is something that causing it.... (read in full...)

Does having sex in a shower cause bladder infections?

Q.   I have a serious question...I have been getting bladder infections very frequently. What causes this? someone told me that you get them from having sex in the shower, or having too much sex? Why does this happen every time that i have sex with my ...

A.   28 September 2006: Now here is a question im sure how to answer as i am a nurse. lol. Having sex in the shower would not cause u to get a infection. We have many germs on the outside of our body, when u have sex sometimes a germ can be pushed into ur urinary tract ... (read in full...)

Raring to date girls...but sooo nervous. Help me out here, please!

Q.   Im male, 21 years old, and have a problem, I have never had a girlfriend which is making me really depressed, I have low self esteem from my past, I have asked 2 girls out in the past both times being rejected which I think is my main problem with ...

A.   28 September 2006: Unfortunately we cant always have the one we want. The thing with the girl at school, i would just forget about, skool kids can be nasty and have fun hurting other ppls feelings. I wouldnt let that worry you. As far as ur bosses daughters goes, id s... (read in full...)

My bf told me he slept in the same bed with 2 female mates, he does not understand why I am annoyed. Please tell me I have a right to be pi***d off.

Q.   recently me and my boyfriend were having a discussion about a friend of mine who slept in the bed with one of her best guy mates ( nothing happened) she has a boyfriend and i told my boyfriend that id disagree with that even tho they are close ...

A.   26 September 2006: i can understand that it would annoy you. but let me tell u i have many friends that are boys, and i have slept in a bed with them many times. we have grown up together and have never felt that way about it each other. its like sleeping with ur ... (read in full...)

How do I tell my man that I want to be with him? I am scared of pushing him away

Q.   i am currently involved with a man who has been separated from his wife for close to three years (living in two different countries now)i really like this guy and would really like to be in a permanent relationship with him, just how do i go about ...

A.   26 September 2006: are u like me and scared to tell him cause u are worried what the answer will be. maybe he wants the same thing. maybe he doesnt. but dont waste months or years leaving it as it is. write him a letter. that way u can say what u want with out being ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend of 1 month tells me he still lives with his ex. He says this is purely for financial reasons. What do I do?

Q.   my boyfriend, of one month, came up at the weekend, and he told me that he still has to live with his ex, he said it is over, but she stills wants to be with him. he says they sleep in separate beds, and he is only still they because he cant afford ...

A.   26 September 2006: i can only tell u what happened to me. my ex said exactly the same thing, only there was a child involved. he told me that he was with her for the kid and financial reasons and she still wanted him back, so we had to keep our relationship quiet as ... (read in full...)

I went through my boyfriends phone and found texts from another girl. What do I say to him?

Q.   hi there! i dont know what to do!! i went into my bf's phone and read his texts which i know i shouldnt have done but his phone has been going off at all times of the day and night and i was interested to know who had been txting him all the time. i ...

A.   26 September 2006:  even if ur bf is not cheating he is thinking about it. he shouldnt be thinking about giving other girls hugs. id ring the number and ask who it was. if she is seeing him she will probably tell u.... (read in full...)

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