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Stuck in a quandary between my wife and my married mistress

Q.   I know that I am going to be judged for posting this, but that's okay. I need guidance. I am almost 39. My wife is going to be 42 this year and is already in menopause. We have no children, mostly because my wife is just not a sexual being....

A.   3 April 2012: Hello.I say go with ure heart & be happy.Sex is VERY much important in a relationship.there's no need to cheat if u have a good 100% woman/man who supports u in every way.as for her taking u to court if she wants,dnt feel guilty & let her slide with ... (read in full...)

Starving for sex while husband jeks off in the next room!

Q.   My husband sneaks off to masturbate. One morning I woke up and wanted a cup of coffee while I watched whatever show I had recorded the previous night. My husband had left about an hour before, while i was still asleep. I made my coffee, and in m...

A.   6 March 2012: Oh dear u are not wrong at all.I myself have a similar problem except my husband doesn't masturbate I think lol.Seems like the sex just dies out IDK Y but it sucks because they don't realize that it is important & we need it too.He obviously won't ... (read in full...)

I figured out a way to break into her email to see if she's been lying and cheating. Should I?

Q.   I know it seems like here and else where there is the thing that if you look at someones email its almost as bad as killing someone but I have never seen it like this. Sometimes there are circumstances which make it almost so pressured to find out ...

A.   6 March 2012: In my opinion u should just get rid off her.I've been in a situation like this many times w/ relationships & friendships & even though i addressed the issue things dnt change or someone always gets offended so its never the same.seems like ure just ... (read in full...)

How do we get my husband's 14 year old daughter on the right track?

Q.   My husband and his ex wife just found out that theyre 14yr old daughter has been ditching school,smoking weed and having sex w/ a 18 yr old.When all this came to light I finally spoke out letting them know how this lil girl has no manners bad ...

A.   14 May 2011: Thank you for the advice I will try my best to get this solved. My husband is not her biological father and she knows this. Her mom put her in therapy when she was a younger age about this situation. He has always been there for her regardless o... (read in full...)

Bi curious women???

Q.   I have a new girlfriend. Now that we are getting into it, surprise surprise, she has a fantasy about carpet munching. Does every girl have a desire to have a bi-sexual experience at least once in their life. I would say that almost every single ...

A.   17 December 2010: As a bisexual girl I have to say that straight girls always find attraction in another woman someway or another.Sometimes that attraction makes them curious of what it would be like 2 be intimate with a girl.This makes straight girls wonder if ... (read in full...)

What did having a threesome do to your relationship?

Q.   Hi there. I am really interested to know if there is anyone on this site who has tried threesomes. I am not talking about trying for the first time or thinking about it - but am interested in hearing from people who can look back on the experience ...

A.   15 November 2010: I had a threesome with my friends (a married couple w/ kids).It definitely affected my relationship now even though i did it before i was with my fiance.My boyfriend knew that something had went on the minute i introduced them cus i guess the guy ... (read in full...)

I LOVE bigger women!

Q.   I'm 19 year old male. I have this thing for bigger woman, I always have, ever since i was in high-school I've had this thing for them but I've never expressed it openly. So I've done it in secret by going to websites and talking to bigger w...

A.   2 November 2010: Well in my opinion you shouldnt really care what ppl are gonna say about u cus honestly ppl are always gonna talk.whether ure with a big girl or a skinny girl they always find something.Im not a huge girl but i do have curves thnx to my mom.we have ... (read in full...)

Why does sex die out when people move in together?

Q.   So why is it that sex dies out when couples start spending more time with each other or when they move in together.My boyfriend and i will be moving in together pretty soon because not only do we love each other and feel like we're gonna be together ...

A.   29 October 2010: Hey guys thnx for the advice.I do love my boyfriend and HE IS the father of my children cus we just found out we're having twins.I did cheat but only for the sex,i needed 2 feel desired.he's the kind of guy that tells me everyday "damn U look SEXY" ... (read in full...)

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