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My husband is extremely critical of most of my actions and I constantly feel inadequate, inefficient, careless and do not possess a high IQ...

Q.   I am 31 years old and have been married now for almost seven years. I love my husband dearly and believe myself to be very dedicated to him, our children and hour home. Nevertheless my husband is extremely critical of most of my actions and I ...

A.   5 August 2008: I feel for you because I am in a same "husband" situation as you, but I have other issues to deal with. I, too. have 2 beautiful children, ages 12 and 15, and I have considered leaving my husband for lying, cheating, disrespecting me by putting me ... (read in full...)

We differ in our attitude to fidelity. What can I do here?

Q.   I have been living with my girlfriend for 8 years now. She has 2 boys 10 and 12 years old that only really know me as their dad. We have had some rough times in the past, partly because she suffers from SAD (seasonal affective disorder) and partly ...

A.   26 July 2008: Hi, Matt! I truely feel for you. I cried when I read your column. I am in a similar situation as you are, except mine is a marriage of 18 years and dating for 10 with same selfish, unfaithful husband. I, too, have two boys and I have been hanging ... (read in full...)

Can a man love his wife and keep outside affairs seperate, and be content and happy?

Q.   I have been with my husband for 18 years, who never wanted to get married in the first place. He was and is a player ever since I had met him. When I gave him an ultimatum. he married me after dating for 10 years. Anyway, He had many affairs ...

A.   25 July 2008: I guess I'm finally fed up and wants to change. The main reason for not moving on is the Children. I don't want to give "Emotional" baggage to them. (age 13, 16 ) I feel selfish if I have divorce now. So, I'm considering I'll put with my ... (read in full...)

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