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I've never had a boyfriend and I really want one. Guys always seem to think I just want friendship. Where am I going wrong?

Q.   dear cupid i dont know what is wrong with me. i have such low confidence and find it so hard to get a boyfriend. i lost my mother a year ago and my best friend last august and i have not motivation anymore. not having a boyfriend never used to...

A.   17 January 2007: keep smilin girl..you'l find that special some1 1 day!... (read in full...)

I'm a Christian but I'm not a virgin. My bf is also a Christian. Do you think he'll react badly if I told him?

Q.   I'm a Christian, and 21 years old, but I made a huge mistake and gave my virginity away when I was 19. I gave it away to a man who ended up being emotionally abusive and I broke up with him. Later I was depressed and didn't date anyone for awhile. I ...

A.   17 January 2007: @ the end of the day, i dnt c y he should ask whether yr a virgin, wot's that 2 do wiv him?! ok, so yr not a virgin, but we all make mistakes. u say that you've accepted God's 4giveness, so move on! as a christian myself, i would advise u 2 not hang ... (read in full...)

I don't like anything sexual because it makes me feel dirty and I'm scared to loose my virginity. Am I normal?

Q.   I'm 18, I've had a boyfriend for 2yrs. We still haven't had sex. We've done some things but nothing real down and dirty. Why am I so scared of sex?! Is this normal? I'm terrified of losing my virginity to anyone. Everyone tells me it's not that b...

A.   17 January 2007: i think yr bf's gr8 4 being wiv u 4 2 yrs wiv no sex. dnt get me wrong, i dnt mean that 2 say that yr being realy difficult or anything, wot i mean is that a lot of guys r like, 'no sex?! c ya!' i'm glad yr man's not like that! :) it sounds 2 me as ... (read in full...)

He said I brainwashed him into being gay... I have feelings for him!

Q.   ok...I'm in my sophomore year and I started talking to this guy during my freshman year. This guy seemed like a normal every-day-life boy and we like talking to each other on msn. We never really talk to each other in real life(for some unknown ...

A.   5 January 2007: mayb u should spk 2 him abt the things that he's said 2 u. even if it's jst 2 check whether he's confused abt his own sexuality... (read in full...)

My husband and stepson have physically abused me. I want to leave, but fear hurting the children we have together. And where would I stand financially?

Q.   I have been married for 17rs and have suffered some physical abuse from my husband and from my stepson, whom my husband stuck up for. We no longer have any common interests and i need the courage to leave but am frightened to lose everything. We ...

A.   5 January 2007: u need 2 leave...the kids will understand. c a lawyer abt the financial situation. good luck!... (read in full...)

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