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I'm not that girly, but I want to become more girly.

Q.   i'm 16 and in my second year of high school. ok so i'm not that girly, but i want to become more girly. i always wear a black shirt and blue skinny jeans. my shoes are black converse and i wear lots of black eyeliner and my hair is covering one of ...

A.   18 October 2009: If you want to be girly the best thing I can say is wear tight clothes and the skinny jeans are fine. Find some boot cut jeans they go great with anything. They have a lot of dark clothing that are sexy. Eyeliner is great buy some lip gloss instead ... (read in full...)

My husband wants to have anal sex with me.

Q.   My husband wants to have anal sex with me.We have never done it before,and I'd like some advice on how to go about.I'm a little bit scared about,is it safe or healthy for my body if he cums on my back?...

A.   18 October 2009: Hey sweetie I do not mean to scare you but you will be nervous at first. The first thing you need to do is relax. Make sure he uses some lub. Then he should stick one finger in until you are comfortable then a second finger to open you up some more. ... (read in full...)

I can't seem to stop calling it off! What's wrong with me?

Q.   I realized I have a huge problem. It all begins with remembering how long each of my boyfriends lasted. Never did it go beyond three months. I've only had two before my current one. My current one and I were best friends before. I can't seem to stop ...

A.   9 October 2009: Hey sweetie you need to work on your self confidence becuase you may be giving up on the relationship becuase you feel they he may give up on you first so you give yourself a time limit to break it off before things go sour. Open your heart and give ... (read in full...)

How can I get the courage to buy condoms?

Q.   Hi everybody i'm 19 now and i had sex 5 times till now with 3 different girls although i never tried to force any girl but being very much attractive i have few girlfrnds but do not date with them but every boy knows we can't deny if a girl proposes ...

A.   9 October 2009: Buddy You need to buy condoms not only are there STD's but there is somethings AIDS and unwanted children. Now I think you mom would be upset if you had children. At least she knows you are protecting yourself. Be responsable with the condoms ... (read in full...)

Should I break up with her over this?

Q.   I am having an issue with my girlfriend. I have been with her for a bit over 7 months. She has facebook. When i first starting dating her, about a month into our relationship, one of her facebook friends left her a comment on one of her pictures ...

A.   3 October 2009: My advice would be if she has never acted out on feelings and you trust her then let her be. They are just friends. As they say your damn if you do and your damn if you don't. This can only lead to you not trusting her at all so early in the ... (read in full...)

9 years of marriage, husband had affair while I was pregnant and I can't get over it

Q.   I am 'recovering' from my husbands affair. When I say recovering, what I actually mean is making very slow progress, which seems to relapse alot. We were married 9 years, I fell pregnant last year. I had the perfect pregnancy , my husband was s...

A.   3 October 2009: Hi I am going through something similar my husband has two children outside the marriage we have been together for 11 years and married for 5. The children are 1 and 1 month old. He tells me he loves me and chose to be with me. I have yet to get ... (read in full...)

Should she be worried that she's pregnant?

Q.   my best friend, had unproctected sex 7 days before her period but she says that he didnt come or didnt even get his pius in her but now she is 4days late should she be worried...

A.   3 October 2009: A female normally ovualtes 7 to 15 days after her period has arrived. the Normal cycle of ovualtion would be on day 12-18 of your cycle. The first day of a cycle would be the first day you bleed. but a Test can sure help!... (read in full...)

I think I'm in love with my 3rd cousin...I'd really like some feedback on this!

Q.   k...to break it down... i grew up with her, were pretty close, her parents are my god parents, and our families are close since we manage a church together and i started having feelings for her since i was in high school... i thought it was j...

A.   1 October 2009: Well Since this is your 3rd cousin I don't see a problem most people don't even know their 3rd cousins. I think the blood gets week. Hey as long as the family doesn't get hurt by it then go for Yours. ... (read in full...)

I gave teacher a BJ under the desk, can we get in trouble?

Q.   i just turned 18 and i'm graduating high school this year. ive had a teacher for 3 years now that i have fantasized about for a long time and friday i gave him a blowjob underneath his desk. will we get in trouble? he just got a divorce so do you ...

A.   27 September 2009: As everyone said yes you will get into trouble. I as an educator would never cross the line of Student Teacher relationship. If he cared about his profession then he would have waited till you graduate if it was that serious. If he is getting a ... (read in full...)

How do you stop all the feelings and get over someone fast?

Q.   so im back. I asked a question about my girlfriend leaving me. I was told that i would get over it and able to stop this numbness that I feel. its been a couple months. I still think about her everyday, I look at my phone every couple hours. just to ...

A.   27 September 2009: Get a new fling then you will have someelse to think about. If you are alone then you will continue to think about her. ... (read in full...)

Can girls feel you cum inside of them?

Q.   I have a weird question. I hooked up with this girl for the first time (without a condom, stupid I know) and she rode me for a few minutes and came on my penis. After she finished cumming she asked me if I had cum inside of her and I was puzzled ...

A.   25 September 2009: It depends sometimes when a female is really wet then no. Then at times I can feel the penis pumping. Most of the time no we do not. ... (read in full...)

Do you think he is having a second guess about breaking up or am I waiting for nothing?

Q.   My boyfriend ended our 6 year relationship 3 weeks ago, he said he doesnt feel he loves me anymore. He works from home and we have a 2 year old boy together. We spend 24/7 together, even share the same hobby. We have the odd disagreement but ...

A.   25 September 2009: Well If you love him very much you should wait for him to come around and just try to be sexier and spark things up in a relationship. Sometimes things get boring and men tend to wonder off but I feel it is up to the female to lure her man back. I ... (read in full...)

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