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He's given me an ultimatum or he won't marry me, stay or go??

Q.   I am in a deep predicament. A few hours ago my boyfriend of 3 years talked ( there are a lot of underlying issues in our relationship at the moment) and a lot of things came out. After hours of discussion what evolved was basically an ultimat...

A.   26 December 2007: I wouldn't waste any more time on this guy. He is so selfish and although it's difficult to split with someone you love, you have to look at the whole picture Why on earth would you want to change yourself for him when its obvious he has issue... (read in full...)

I think I may be pregnant, could the Pill do harm??

Q.   I might be pregnant, which isn't a bad thing. But the baby could have been convieved several weeks ago, and I just now realized that I could possible be pregnant... So here comes the issue. I have been taking birthcontrol for several years......

A.   26 December 2007: I myself fell pregnant whilst on the pill with my first child. I had no obvious symptoms, and still had periods until 3 weeks before i gave birth. I didnt find out until i was around 25 weeks gone,and i was still taking contraceptives up until then. ... (read in full...)

His ex text him saying she missed him on Christmas Dayt, they've been split up for a year, what does it mean?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together a year and he broke up with his ex a year and 3 months ago. She never really accepted that he moved on, and even up until 2 months ago she was causing upset in our relationship. I've just seen a text on h...

A.   26 December 2007: She's getting the reaction from you that she's hoping for. Don't let her get into your head..like you said before, she has already tried to upset your relationship. Maybe she thought waiting until christmas would really cause trouble for him with... (read in full...)

How do I resist the temptation to cheat?

Q.   How do i resist the temptation to cheat? I have been with my girlfriend for four years and i have always been faithful but every now and then a very very tempting offer comes up. A couple years ago a gorgeous girl started working with me and we ...

A.   26 December 2007: Sorry im gonna get straight to the point. If u find yourself tempted to be with other girls whilst proclaiming to love your girlfriend you are only kidding yourself. Finding someone attractive is totally different, but to be tempted into actually... (read in full...)

Is this kind of fighting my fault?

Q.   I am in a loving but emotional rollercoaster of a relationship that can get verbally abusive and extremely hurtful. It's been 3 years and we are both tired of it, recognise the problem, but somehow haven't worked out a way of dealing with it. Let ...

A.   26 December 2007: OMG hunni, Get out of this situation now! This relationship isn't going anywhere. Sounds like your boyfriend is calling all the shots. After 3 years you should both have an idea where you're heading. You say you feel like throwing yoursel... (read in full...)

No contact for 2 months then I get a message; Merry Christmas. I love you. What does this mean?

Q.   I broke up with my bf almost 2 months ago, but he wanted to remain friends...we just basically needed a break, but he slowly lost contact with me and began ignoring me...then he moved in with his new gf...its Christmas and I haven't heard from him ...

A.   26 December 2007: Hi, Maybe this guy has just found out about your new relationship, and has realised what could have been. Christmas and the prospect of the forthcoming New Year can be sometimes a time for reflection, and maybe regrets from his point of view. ... (read in full...)

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