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*ulie D

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I have studied at home psychology for the last 2yrs. apart from that i have had a pretty rough and traumatic childhood and life , i feel through my own experiences i can help others get through it to. plus i was born with 2 kinds of arthritis, osteo and rheumatoid whiich i hve had many ops for. i know what it's like to live with pain and how frustrating and depressing it can be. over the years i have helped many people who come to me for advice or a sympathetic ear.

I hurt her because I told her about my mixed up feelings about my ex

Q.   First to understand my situation..you have to know what I have been through the last year. For the last 3 years I have been a recreational/serious poker player. I'd go the casino on a decent basis. There was this poker dealer that I slowly ...

A.   20 September 2009: if u really love this girl then u need to give her the time she needs, as u said she has been deeply hurt and let down in the past, her trust has been shattered. be her friend and try and arrange to spend time together as friends. u need to let her ... (read in full...)

I gave him my virginity and he's already moved on

Q.   I've just broke up from a short relationship problem is i lost my virginity to him im 17 and i thought he was special we broke up on monday and it was last night (saturday) and hese already found someone. I keep crying and i don;t know wet...

A.   20 September 2009: I am sorry to hear that u have been hurt in this way by a using little cockroach. i know how deeply hurtful it is to be in love with someone and give them a special part of urself only to find out that they did not deserve u. u r worth so much more ... (read in full...)

His priorities are all screwed up how can I make him see this?

Q.   Hello. I feel kinda silly asking for advice online, but I am confused and in need of the advice so here it goes... I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. He just recently moved out into his own place that he shares w...

A.   20 September 2009: Hey girl wake up call ur mum is so right. you deserve so much better. this guy is a waste of time and he is not likely to change untill he is a lot older, if at all. i know how hard it is to let go of someone u love wholeheartedly and u want to ... (read in full...)

I've repeatedly told her I don't love her and don't want children with her but we are still together

Q.   I have been with my girlfriend for about five years and lived with her and I have reapeatedly told her that I don't love her and I don't want her to be the mother of my kids I just don't know what to do. She has lost her job and now has a new job ...

A.   20 September 2009: this is more simple than it sounds i know but u must leave her. you have trid discussing it with her and she is refusing to listen. this is not good 4 either of u. to stay in a relationship when love is no longer there. u r only making a bad ... (read in full...)

The only reason I went through with the wedding is because I paid for it all. I also love someone else. Please help.

Q.   Me and my husband were just married June 14th 2008 and i'm not in love with him. The only reason I went through with the wedding is because I paid for it all, and therefore somebody was going to get married that day! Anyway, I've been in love with...

A.   19 September 2009: forgive me 4 being harsh, but how foolish to get married to someone u r obviously not in love with just because u had already paid 4 it! why on earth if u r in love with someone else would u agree to marry the 1 u r with in the 1st place? to stay in ... (read in full...)

He was so rude on while texting me but was the opposite in person...

Q.   Hi, i am just confused a bit..if anyone can help. I saw my ex the other day which at first I tried to avoid because I am still too hurt about our break-up and upset that he ignored my IMs and text messages and even my last email. I really feel he...

A.   18 September 2009: Hi why not agree to see him again but on your terms. tell him you are not so ready to resume where you left off as it is going to take time, after all how do you know that he won't run off again and ignore you again. if he truly cares he will agree.... (read in full...)

My girlfriend had sex with someone else more than a week after our break up. We're back together, is she more likely to cheat?

Q.   My girlfriend and i were dating for a year and i broke up with her on our one year anniversary due to constant fighting and other bullshit. (nothing big though) after i realized that i shouldnt have been so quick to let her go, i quickly asked her ...

A.   18 September 2009: hHi i am sorry to say that ur girlfriend got over u quite quickly. i seriously think that u should do the same, it obviously was not meant to be. if u were arguing all the time there were obviously many conflicting differences between u both. i ... (read in full...)

After 2 years he told me he was still in love with his ex...

Q.   My bf and I are living together and have been for one year. Prior to this we had broken up for about 2 months, in this time he told me he was still in love with his ex. I was so gutted!! We had been together for two years and so happy and when he ...

A.   18 September 2009: Hi i hve met quite a few guys like him over the years believe me they never change. Always jumping backwards and fofeward between 1 girl 2 another, never happy with what they have. i think u have come to the right conclusion already, friendship. u r ... (read in full...)

Life is nothing but disappointments

Q.   I am a 28 year old female. I have 2 children and 1 on the way. I have lived such a chaotic life. When i was 4 i was molested by an uncle until the age of about 11. He died about 4 years ago, without confessing a thing. He also let my family ...

A.   17 September 2009: I bet u feel as if u were born 2 suffer? i know what u r going through and believe me u r not alone. u hve slipped down 2 rockbottom. 4 ur own sake aswell as the sake of ur children u must remove urselves from such a destructive relationship. i to ... (read in full...)

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