My boyfriend is acting ungratefully. How should I handle this?
Q. My boyfriend asked me to buy him a expensive pair of shoes that I can not afford right now. I was straight up with him and told him that I couldn't afford them right now and his reply was that he never ask me for anything and if it was something ...
A. 7 April 2011: you shouldnt be asked to buy him anything in the first place. it is the mans job to take care of the woman... (read in full...)
How much do appearances matter?
Q. I recently met this guy whose family was from my hometown originally but he was born and raised in this country. He obviously likes me a lot and we had a lot to talk as his major is similar to mine. We've met twice but nothing was awkward and he ...
A. 6 April 2011: i'm a man so im sure its different for me but i would find it extremely hard to have a relationship with someone i'm not at all attracted to. but everyone is different so its your opinion that matters... (read in full...)
Separated from my wife in order to sort things out...what should I do now?
Q. OK ive submitted many questions and appreciate all the advice. Now i just want to tell the whole story from start to finish and see what you think i should do. i'll do my best to be unbiased and tell the whole story and not just my side. ok I ...
A. 2 April 2011: i appreciate your honesty and i plan on taking your advice. ive never loved someone this much so i dont know that i can refuse her if she tries to come back, but ill try. I really hate that it is ending like this but i cant handle crying every night ... (read in full...)
We recently seperated and now she only contacts me for money!
Q. OK ladies i need your help. me and my wife had a big argument over a month ago. we recently seperated. according to her this is just temporary and she just needs time. now the only time she contacts me is for money. It's only been four days and im ...
A. 1 April 2011: the thing im worried about is ever since the fight. which was over a month ago she hasnt given me the opportunity to fix it. i've been going to counseling twice a week to deal with my anger and ive completely quit drinking. she refuses to go to ... (read in full...)
I know I did wrong. But how can I help improve the situation with her? And be forgiven?
Q. My wife and i recently had a bad fight. all the info about it is in a question i posted previously. I completely broke her trust. she is still with me, but not really. we haven't been intimate in over a month. she hates coming to bed unless i'm alre...
A. 28 March 2011: Well me and my wife are now separated. The crazy part is I'm the one who suggested it. not that she had any problem with it. I guess i just started thinking with my head rather than my heart. i hurt her once and i feel absolutely horrible about it, ... (read in full...)
How do I deal with jealousy of my friend over a girl we both have liked?
Q. When I was 12-14 years old (2006-2008), I had a crush on a girl who is one year younger than me. She also had a crush on me but then we stopped liking each other. After sometime she met with my friend and liked him. When we stopped liking each ...
A. 26 March 2011: dude your 14. get out there and have fun. friendship at this stage in life is way more important. just remember girls have a strange way of making us do crazy things that we regret. and i am 99.8% sure that neither one of you will be in a ... (read in full...)
Am I wrong for asking him to take a break from us while I figure everything out with my family?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for over 4 years. I am 19 and he is 23. Everything is good between us but my parents failed relationship has always made me scared of being in a relationship myself. When I was younger I always thought it ...
A. 26 March 2011: if you want the truth. Yes you are wrong. if you are concerned about taking care of family matters thats fine. let him know and i'm sure hell be fine with not having as much time together as before. but asking to take a break in my opinion is wrong. ... (read in full...)
I know I did wrong. But how can I help improve the situation with her? And be forgiven?
Q. My wife and i recently had a bad fight. all the info about it is in a question i posted previously. I completely broke her trust. she is still with me, but not really. we haven't been intimate in over a month. she hates coming to bed unless i'm alre...
A. 26 March 2011: i didnt't cheat on her but in my opinion what i did was worse. we got in a heated argument over something stupid. i was drunk so that didnt help matters much, but something really painful from my past was indirectly brought up and i hit her. i didn... (read in full...)
I hit my wife. how do I regain her trust
Q. I recently got into an argument with my wife over our sex life. to make a long story short im very affectionate and she isn't. but the argument got very heated and i slapped her then slammed her head into the wall. i cant express how much i regret ...
A. 22 March 2011: i'm still going to counseling and i really think it's helping. I'm not as angry anymore and i still haven't drank. I spend each day doing everything i can to make her happy, but i feel she is now taking advantage of the situation. she acts like she ... (read in full...)
I hit my wife. how do I regain her trust
Q. I recently got into an argument with my wife over our sex life. to make a long story short im very affectionate and she isn't. but the argument got very heated and i slapped her then slammed her head into the wall. i cant express how much i regret ...
A. 17 March 2011: Things are getting better slowly but shurely. now that I've quit drinking we havent got in a single argument. counseling seems to be helping me to control my anger a little bit. but she still wont look at me and will barely kiss me. i dont blame her ... (read in full...)
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