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Should I study film in college, which is my passion, or get another degree as a fallback?

Q.   I know this is relationships but i really could use some third party advice! I'm going to university and want to know whether i should study the what i hope to pursue a career in, or whether i should study something else?? Basically, i w...

A.   15 August 2011: Not really sure how degrees work in the UK, but I think I get what you're talking about. You already had some time in film to learn the basics. Now you should study in a field that will pay well and will allow you to work a M-F Day Job. I'm ... (read in full...)

I'm a sports person. How do I talk to "moshers?"

Q.   I'm having a party tomorrow night and there's the girl i like who may be coming, my best friend, another friend who both like each other but they don't know that and there two friends that are in their band a boy and a girl who go out are invited ...

A.   7 May 2011: Talk to them like they're human beings. And make the conversation about them; if they're worth it they'll do the same for you. I'm not a natural at this, but a friend of mine came up with something that I try and keep in mind when I'm in a co... (read in full...)

I caught my girlfriend kissing a girl, is this considered cheating?

Q.   the other week me and my gf went to a house party. a few hours and many drinks later i saw my gf in the kitchen snogging another girl. at first i spied and i thought it was very hot. but after a about 30 seconds i realised that they were on there,as ...

A.   7 May 2011: I suppose it's cheating, but I wouldn't be complaining. That's just me though; if it bothers you, it bothers you. I don't know if I would dump her over it, just talk it out and go from there... (read in full...)

Why do men like to finger women?

Q.   I am just curious why guys like to finger their girlfriend? Do they get any pleasure beside her returning him a favour like a bj?...

A.   27 February 2011: Dirtball is absolutly right. For me, I get turned on by how turned on the women is. There is also a sense of power/control/accomplishment, it's an ego boost to send someone into passion and know that it's because of me. There is also the fact, that ... (read in full...)

I always said I'd leave a cheater, but now that its happening to me I'm torn!

Q.   I have been dating my girlfriend for about two years now and we have been living together for about one year. We share a lap top and I came across her facebook page the other day where she had forgotten to log out. I have never gone through her ...

A.   15 January 2011: I'd forgive her, but let her know that it will take a very long time to earn your trust. Don't hold it over her head, just let her know what's up. If it happens again, ever, BOOM! Out the door!... (read in full...)

Do women respect guys who don't push for sex, or do they think they're wimps?

Q.   In brief I know a girl who I have been out with a few times, sort of on a friendly basis.I have never ever pushed for any kind of physical involvement,and whenever we go out I just take her home and wave good night. But I know she has begun relation...

A.   15 January 2011: That's always my problem too. It sounds like you're already stuck in the friend zone, and it's probably not gonna happen. The trick, I believe, is not just having the guts to make the move, but also making the move at the right time. If you ever ... (read in full...)

My older brother said I can, but should I go for it?

Q.   I'm a 14 year old male and am still a virgin. My older brother is 17 and has been sleeping with a couple girls since he was 13 and said I could sleep with them if I wanted. I have never seen her but I know she's hot. Should I go for it even though ...

A.   15 January 2011: Kid, you're 14; I waited till I was almost 23. I'm not saying you should wait That long, but there's no need to rush it either. I'd also be weary of a girl that's willing to sleep with you because your bro asked her to.... (read in full...)

Is my boyfriend just being disrespecful and a prick?

Q.   Dear cupid, So i have been dating this guy for 4 months. At frist he was really sweet. However, lately he has been very sexual. He always asking me to send him dirty pictures, make a sex video, and do naughty things. Also, for x-mas all he wan...

A.   3 January 2011: Wow! Really? I know quite a few jerks, but not like that. Sounds like an idiot, and I think you can do better... (read in full...)

I love her but don't want to be one of her sex slaves

Q.   Hi everyone, In short I know a girl who I care for and think I love, the problem is she is beautiful and younger and does not want to settle for any one man. She has a string of open relationships where she is sexually intimate with a few people. ...

A.   3 January 2011: I know the type. It's fun to think about, but in reality you're just setting yourself up for a fall. Some people were meant to swing, I'm not. It doesn't sound like you are either.... (read in full...)

He called me a prostitute! I'm his mistress!

Q.   I'm having an affair with a married man. Well today his wife caught us in a hotel and called me a prostitute? Then she started fighting my man and in the midst he told her I didn't mean nothhing to him but a prostitute! Wtf?! I'm a mistress! Will ...

A.   21 December 2010: I think you're lucky she didn't kill the both of you! Count your blessings and move on... (read in full...)

How do I tell my friend to update his language and stop sounding ridiculous?

Q.   Hi, I'm a freshman and I have this best friend "JP". I use slang a lot when I talk: aiight, fookie, stresst, heated, blawk, gucci, boi, fit, madd, sick, tight, etc. It just kinda rolls off my tongue jst as well as the next guy. this kind of language ...

A.   21 December 2010: Fitting in isn't all it's cracked up to be... (read in full...)

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