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We broke up and his friend raped me. We got back together and when I told him he said he can't deal with it anymore. What do I do?

Q.   me and my boyfriend broke up 3 months ago and i became good friends with his friend.. but his friend raped me one night when we were out at a club. me and my boyfriend got back together and have been together for a month but i just told him what ...

A.   8 March 2007: If your boyfriend can't except your version of the story then you need to realize that he's just as slimy as his friend. Let him go!!! If you just talked to him today he might just need some time to calm down. Let him be let him think about what ... (read in full...)

How do you know when someone is right for you?

Q.   How do you know when you are right for each other? This is just a general question to see what other people's experiences and advice has to offer. I don't believe in "soul mates" at all and I do think that there can be more than one person who i...

A.   8 March 2007: I think I might buy her book, its only 7.99 on amazon because I'm still looking for that answer. I do believe there is one person out there for everyone but not everyone gets to find that person. So you just have to deal with the cards dealt to ... (read in full...)

I have to make changes for HIM but he won't make changes for ME!

Q.   Whenever I ask him to alter a bothersome behavior, he always has an excuse why he doesn't have to, but he can have his own laundry list of complaints and doesn't seem to see that as unfair. All my complaints are little things but I worry when they ...

A.   8 March 2007: Personally I think that people should do alittle compromizing in a relationship but when someone asks you to change too much then they are trying to change you. If he can't accept you and doesn't want to budge at anything you think needs some ... (read in full...)

He can never say no to this guy, how can I get him to spend some time with me?

Q.   i have been dating a man for 2yrs. and 3 months. a relative of his is always asking him to go fishing with him. i don't mind the fishing but i do mind when its anywhere from 3 nights to 7 nights that he is gonel his relative has been married for ...

A.   8 March 2007: I really think it is healthy for your relationship to have some time apart. He's only going fishing. People need to have there own identities in relationships to keep them healthy. If the relative he's been going with has been married for 40 ... (read in full...)

Should i text him again although its been a month saying that i want to be mates with him or should i try and forget him?

Q.   hi all im really stuck me and this guy a few months ago meet up and talked and seemed to get on well , we met up a few times and drank and chat and become mates , but after a few meets we ended up having sex and we still decided to stay mates ...

A.   8 March 2007: Its only been a month since you wanted more in the relationship. It sounds to me as if you are missing him in general and are hoping for more. I wouldn't advise to text him only because if he cared that much about the friendship he wouldn't have ... (read in full...)

He is 7 years older than me and I like him a lot but my parents don't like him, should I go out with him?

Q.   hy my question is what should i do if my boydriend is 7 years older than me and my parents dont like him should i go out with him even though i love him a lot....

A.   8 March 2007: No you are too young for a man that much older then you. If your age is correct. Your parents are right, you may not realize it now but you will when you get older. He should be arrested for trying to date you. ... (read in full...)

Help! My period is really late, could I be pregnant?

Q.   Help! I had a normal period Febuary 1st thru the 6th of 2007. I should have gotten my period on the 3rd or 4th of March, 2007- No later! I am really late! Today is the 8th. I have taken two digital tests- both came out negitive and I have also ...

A.   8 March 2007: With my experience the stress of worrying that you might be pregnant might be causing it to be late. Most likely since your test came out negative ur not pregnant. It all depends on how strong your hormones for the test to read. I would wait ... (read in full...)

How often do women think of their past sexual partners?

Q.   I have general questions for women. How often do women think of their past sexual partners? I'm curious because my girlfriend seems to bring up(in converstaion) people she has slept with at random moments. ...

A.   8 March 2007: I don't really bring up random men when I talk to my man unless he's talking about his. I think about them but truefully I just don't feel like it's a good idea to talk about past sexual experiences with your man. A women should always make her ... (read in full...)

Any tips for me to help him cum?

Q.   My boyfriend and have been together for a few months and he told me when we first started dating that a woman has never actually made him ejaculate...he says its different when he's on his own...but nothing a woman can do can send him over the ...

A.   8 March 2007: There is this thing called a GiGi. Go to http://yourpassionconsultant.com/consultants/womeninpassion/forhim01.html. They have other toys for him. It can help maybe. I'm not sure but its something that u can wrap around him while u go down on him ... (read in full...)

Going to see him in 2 weeks... I need some fantastic suggestions on how to make this the most memorable experience for both of us. Any ideas?

Q.   Dear Cupid, I've been in this long distance relationship for about a year now. I'm going to visit him in about two weeks and I am so excited. I bought a bunch of lingerie to make sure that we have a time that both of us will remember for the...

A.   8 March 2007: I have no idea where this relationship is going. That's Y I'm so excited about the visit. I want it to be special because u never know when the last visit is going to be. I have no problem moving where he is but we bearly every discuss it. This ... (read in full...)

I moved away from my boyfriend to work and it's tearing me up inside as I miss him so much but HE doesn't seem that bothered about it. Please help.

Q.   I've been together with my partner for about 11 months and i love him with all my heart and soul! The problem is he's very selfish in alot of ways but i put up with this as i accepted that from the begining . the problem is I've moved away to wo...

A.   8 March 2007: If someone makes u feel like that just walk away. I know it's hard but it's only been 11 months, what happens when u feel that way 5 years from now and u look at ur time lost. If u let him go and he comes after u, u'll know that he really wants u. ... (read in full...)

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