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Teenage questions about sexual health....

Q.   [Moderator's Note: 3 questions from the same poster have been merged into this one post] Question 1. Okay, so I take a shower everday, and wash my clothes on a daily basis. But my pants still smell around my crotch area. I'm a virgin, and i've had...

A.   28 July 2010: You can also get a yeast infection if you are on antibiotics. They wipe out the good bacteria as well as the bad bacteria. With the good bacteria being gone the yeast that is normally in your vagina can get out of control and you have a yeast ... (read in full...)

Can I get into trouble for dating a 17 year old even if we have no intention of any sex whatsoever?

Q.   Hello everyone. I'm 20, my gf is 17 and lives in California. I know the age of consent in California is 18, and this is no issue for either of us. We have talked about sex and neither of us want to go there yet, we both understand and respect both ...

A.   26 July 2010: Most likely would depend on her parents and if they were ok with it. If they don't care, I can't imagine how the law would find out. That's just my opinion though, I don't know about the actual law.... (read in full...)

Would you care if if your boyfriend was circumsized or not?

Q.   Ok, a few weeks ago i had the opportunity to have sex with a girl for the 1st time, but i held out...because I am un-circumcised and was afraid of what she would think because i know most people are circumcised and i know she had been with a couple ...

A.   26 July 2010: No, if I was really into the guy I wouldn't care. I think if I was the girl in the situation I would be grateful for a little heads up though. I was 23 before I ever saw a man with an uncircumsized penis and that was in nursing school and in a ... (read in full...)

Sex has become nothing but a chore for me!

Q.   My libido has disappeared and this has been getting worse for the last 3 years - since last child born. I now feel guilty for not doing it, and guilty when I do it as I am clearly not enjoying it as much as I or my husband would like me to - it ...

A.   23 July 2010: As an obgyn nurse, I would say see a doctor. They maybe able to help regulate your horomones and get your libido back. Also keep doing it, even if you don't want to. Sometimes it takes training to get your libido back and if you don't use it, you'll ... (read in full...)

Will sex hurt as much as using a tampon?

Q.   i'm a 14 year old girl. i have a boyfriend, we've been dating for a long time. we're starting to talk about sex. i'm a virgin, he isn't tho. my ex and i dated for 2 years, but i never wanted to have sex, but we attempted oral, but he wasn't into it. ...

A.   23 July 2010: Like everyone else has said, wait!!! You are soooo young. I did not lose my virginity until I was 20 and the emotional consequences that I had to deal with after we broke up were awful. It's been 10 years and I still am a little heartbro... (read in full...)

Extremely painful sex

Q.   I am a 44 year old female. I have never been married. I met a guy about 6 months ago and have really "opened" up to him. When I say this I mean that I told him it's very painful for me to have sex and he thinks that this is the reason I've never ...

A.   23 July 2010: Seriously, you have got to see another doctor. It maybe Dyspareunia, but there are a lot of other physical things it could be too. I suffer from chronic pain (not with sex, just daily pain) and I have seen doctors who said it was all in my head. ... (read in full...)

Am I doing my new husband wrong?

Q.   I recently got married a week ago and we never had sex. I married my college sweet heart u could say and i do love him dearly. whenever were together were always having fun, but when it comes to sex we just pull apart. note that im a virgin a...

A.   23 July 2010: It is way too soon to be thinking of divorce over this if it's only been a week. If you two really love each other you can work through this. There will be a lot of challenges up ahead of you in a marriage and you can't just give up so easily. ... (read in full...)

Why does my husband always cause me to lose my temper?

Q.   I feel so horrible. My husband and I were fighting and I scratched him. I was minding my own business and he came in the room bitching about how bad the dog smelled and that he is allergic to the dog. All of this was said to get a rise out of me ...

A.   30 March 2010: To the anonymous female reader, thank you. You gave me some things to think about. Ours is an abusive relationship, and although I love him things must change in both of us for this to work. He is a bully and always has been. When I scratched him ... (read in full...)

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