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I have no plans but do I lie and say I do?

Q.   Hello Cupiters! I am going out on a first date with this guy I met online about a month ago. Now we're just talking texting.. Anyways, we already have plans for Saturday (dinner, miniature golf). We were having a good conversation this morning ...

A.   16 January 2009: never lie ever! never ever ever. dont start now. never not even white ones. it doesnt make u look like a loser not to have palns he probably wanted to freakin see u fri cause he likes u. go back right now and tell him u didnt have plans and u got ... (read in full...)

Husband on deployment for 6 months...will this make us stronger or hurt us?

Q.   Hello everyone. My husband is in the military and is out on deployment for 6 months. This is our first time as a couple with him going away like this, long ago we were just friends. I'm going out of my mind I miss him so much. My question is has ...

A.   16 January 2009: STRONGER! just have fun stay in touch and don't let it get 2 u and u'll be better then ever. my hubbies been gone 2 yrs he gets back next month hooreyyyyy! just dont sweat any small stuff and yeah don't cheat its hard but its worth i. good luck!... (read in full...)

Fighting with her made me have an axiety attack... How can we NOT fight so much?

Q.   I have been dating my girlfriend for a year and three months. I feel like things are reallyy going downhill since.. We broke up for a week or so and after that she just wasn't the same. She said something about being my lap dog and that she wasn't ...

A.   14 January 2009: girlfriends can sometimes be the pits..also remember some off the things she is saing could be not even here words like friends or family ringing in her ear. what made her get like this in the first place. what was the inital breakup over? try ... (read in full...)

He's sorry how he ended it with me... why is he contacting me? He chose this not me!

Q.   I have been married for 10 years and together with him 13. We have 3 kids together. We have both been unfaithful in the marriage but seem to stay together for the kids I think. He says he truly loves me but people who love each other don't ...

A.   14 January 2009: this is a tricky one indeed... well i think that kids and marriage complicate things. and yes it is possible to love someone and cheat. i dont do it but i know lots of people that do and they really love their spouse. maybe u guys could try and open ... (read in full...)

Do good looking people get advantages in life?

Q.   does being goodlooking/cute looking have advantagaes in sport,getting job,finding love etc not talking about me just in gerenal.goodlooking people get treated better then plain looking people...

A.   13 January 2009: yes.yes they do. but they also get discriminated against as dumb or sleeping with everyone or bitches or jerks which is sooper not true... (read in full...)

My wife is gorgeous & I hate men looking at her!

Q.   Ive been married to my gorgeous wife for 7 years. Im very insecure about other men eyeing her up in public. When we go out she looks amazing, the trouble is this makes me feel very uncomfortable as im constantly being hyper-vigilent to see if any ...

A.   13 January 2009: yeah dude be happy shes gorgeous and people stare at her thats a goood thing. my husband and i are both gorgeous its so fun. we make all kinds of jokes about all the people that hit on us. be happy man. she could be ugleee and no one look at her and ... (read in full...)

I am having terrible trust issues in my head, I know he is the one in my heart but my head and heart can't seem to agree.

Q.   ok so here is my story. I have known my boyfriend (SK) since 1993. I met him when my son was a few months old. The first time I met him I knew he was the one for me, however I thought i was doing the right thing marrying my baby's daddy. we all ...

A.   13 January 2009: give him a break.. trust him and let him finish off whathe needs to finsh off. dont let it consumeu honey sounds like you guys have a great life. just be happy with it... (read in full...)

How can I make our phone conversations better?

Q.   How can I make our phone conversations better? He lives 45 minutes away so i cant just see him in person every day.but we do fine in person or chatting online,but when it comes to the phone its like we both dont have a lot to say.Neither one of us ...

A.   13 January 2009: start with a really excited hiiiiiiii. ask how his day was tell him how your day ws. just talka bout everything. my husband has been in brasil for 2 years. he comes home in march. we talk online all day and some phone calls to thruout the day. those ... (read in full...)

I find myself verbally reminding myself 'I don't love him/I don't love you'...

Q.   Hiya. I've been secretly in love with my male friend for six years and recently he got a GF and didn't tell me and when found I out I was soo hurt. It felt like voltage going through me. So then and there I decided to stop being madly in love with ...

A.   13 January 2009: six years holy crapppp girl!. have u ever told him maybe he loves u back. maybe he didnt tell u about her caused he loved u. and yes that means your still in love with him good luck mama... (read in full...)

Newly married husband looking at porn, I'm disgusted

Q.   My new husband has been looking at naked women on Craigslist and now I feel disgusted with him. It makes me feel like we are not special. It makes me feel like he thinks of other women when having sex with him and now I don't really want to have ...

A.   12 January 2009: guys look at porn. they just do. doesnt mean he doesnt love you. its just something they all do. really even the best ones that never ever cheat look. i promise. if he starts to not want to have sex with u thats a different issue or if it becomes so ... (read in full...)

I can only express myself through text

Q.   my boyfriend one night asked me how i felt about him, and i know exactly how i feel about him but for some reason just can't get it out, i guess i'm just scared but it's really starting to drive me crazy because i've always had this problem in ...

A.   12 January 2009: yeah i agree with the pen and paper. or at least print one out all fancy. then try reading it to him or outloud to yourslef can make it easier.... (read in full...)

His age is messing with my head.

Q.   I met this guy at a bar, sort of a friend of a friend, and I spent the night talking to him and having a great time. Afterwards, though, I found out ... I'm five+ years older than him. He's 23; I just turned 29. Is this sketchy? We've been email...

A.   12 January 2009: dude five years is nothing.my hubby and i are 8 years apart. young guys are the best. their passionate and full of live and can keep up with u sexually unlike old foggies:0 go for it age doesnt matter if ur a jerk ur a jerk .if ur nice r nice. age ... (read in full...)

Why do men tell you lies when they don't have to?

Q.   I believe I've fallen in a deep depression. I use to be the girl that that loved life and people. I would hug strangers and always look for the best in people. Lately life has really beaten me down. Last year my husband wanted out of our 13 yea...

A.   12 January 2009: there is this book called so your lovers a liar im reading. t has relly good stuff in it. theres also this book called the secret of attracting your soulmate. i like that too. good luck girl dont worry. u'll be that girl again! everyone has rought ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend and I have an open relationship because we're so far apart but it's making me depressed

Q.   Me and my girlfriend started an "open" relationship about a month ago. We had an intense relationship this summer and I fell in love with her. I went back to school at the end of the summer, and she stayed where we met. When we parted, the ...

A.   12 January 2009: listen don't listen to them. there are very much open relationships. especially in long distance. and lots of them are very happy. if your choosing to be in this relationship because you love her. then let yourself be happy about it appreciate the ... (read in full...)

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